Professional Documents
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Filial Piety
In a Filipino household, it is common to find three generations living together. Often, grandparents
play a large role in raising their grandchildren. Extended family will often live relatively close to
one another and will come together during large celebrations. It is common to find families in the
Philippines that have some members who return to their family home during weekends after
spending a week in major cities for work or study.
Since the 1970s, the Philippines has been exporting labor abroad, with some members engaging
in paid labor abroad while many remain in their home town or village. This means that many
Filipino families are spread across the world. Filipino society has widely adapted to the change in
family structure. Some parents will leave their child in the Philippines in order to seek labor abroad
to better support their family left behind. In turn, they will send back remittances to their parents
or siblings who have been given the duty of caring for the child. It is also common to find aunts,
uncles and godparents taking care of their nieces, nephews or godchildren, by
sending remittances back to the Philippines in order to pay for their education.
Those living abroad with left behind families will attempt to see their family once a year by
returning home to the Philippines during their break from work in another country. This can be
particularly difficult for those with children or elderly parents in the Philippines. In order to support
their families in the Philippines, Filipinos abroad will send a ‘balikbayan box’, containing various
items such as clothing, household objects and gifts for their family. In the Australian context, it
can be quite emotionally distressing for some Filipinos in intercultural marriages to be denied the
opportunity to send remittances home or unable to visit their family, as they feel they are failing
to uphold their duty towards their family.
Gender Roles
Expectations and practices of marriage are heavily shaped by the Catholic Church. Marriage is
understood as a milestone and it is expected that individuals will one day marry a suitable partner.
Having children out of wedlock is generally frowned upon in Filipino society. Thus, many couples
will marry prior to giving birth to their child to avoid social repercussions. Monogamy is the norm
and divorce is both socially stigmatized and illegal. However, views on marriage are changing.
For example, there is now more acceptance of a person’s choice to remain single if they wish to
be so.
LESSON 2. The Filipino Family in Relation to
Society’S CULTURe and VALUES
The complexity of Filipino culture is compounded as this has been exposed to continuous and
various streams of culture from without.
This influences were not passively absorbed in to the Filipino culture but assimilated in a
selective way, and this process of a acculturation varied from region to region.
The Filipino culture is a summation of indigenous forces and foreign influences that had come to
bear upon the people in varying degrees during the last centuries. These foreign influences that
contributed in the shaping of a Filipino culture are as follows:
The Filipino has thereby a foothold in many cultural spheres: The Malay, the Anglo-Saxon, the
Hispanic, the Hindu-Islamic and even the Chinese.
2. The Nationalistic View- this concept regards culture as the summation of the needs of the
people, the description of their past and present condition, an expression of their values, thoughts
and emotions, and the depiction of their historic struggles to liberate themselves. True national
culture is inextricably linked to the people’s needs, ideas, emotions, and practices.
3. Cultural Dualism- this theory maintains that the Philippines is a transitional society dominated
on one side by the traditional culture and on the other side by the modern culture. The norms and
values of these two forces inevitably oppose each other leading to conflicts in the life of individual.
Because of the conflict brought by the various foreign influences into the Philippines, the Filipinos
have to engage into a selective integration and modification of foreign influences into a distinct
Filipino culture.
LESSON 3. Filipino Family VALUES and CULTURe
The Filipino culture
Belief System
Filipinos are religious. They believe so much in supernatural powers and view themselves
as only a speck in this wide universe. This Filipino belief in the supernatural powers taught them
to trust prayers rather than hard work in the realization of their dreams. Success is considered a
blessing from above, a result of good luck and faith. It also taught him to value traits like
perseverance, patience, and endurance.
Good is considered relative. What is considered good to one may not be good to another.
Happiness and success differ from one person to another. Elders, parents, and superiors are
respected and obeyed. Hospitality is one practice Filipinos believe in because it is their way of
implementing threw golden rule: “Do unto others what you want others do unto you”.
Value System
Cultural values are shared assumption of what is right, good, or important. Values actually
guide man’s behavior and action as he relates himself in most situations in life.
The Filipino values can best be seen from the aspects of personal and social relationships.
Personally, the Filipinos value more their honor and status than anything else. Majority of them
takes care of their honor (karangalan) rather than wealth.
In decision making, the Filipinos usually consult and take into consideration the consensus
of the family members as the feelings of those who are to be affected.
Socially, the Filipinos give more emphasis on social relationships. This can be seen
through the hospitality they give to their visitors and friends. They love to mingle with people
particularly with friends and relatives. They engage themselves in mutual cooperation, which is
best pictured through the “bayanihan”.
In terms of emotion, the Filipinos are friendly. They smile at people, even with strangers
when they are approach. They are warm and simple. Women in the Philippines are highly
regarded and respected and can be relied upon when it comes to family affairs.
“Good morals and values start at home and a uniform won’t change that” - Jamie Sawyer
Majority of Philippine population is bonded together by common values and traits that are first
taught at home and being applied in our day to day lives.
Here are some of the family values Filipinos have:
Filipinos are known for having strong and close family ties. They place high regard and put
importance on their family before anything else. They work all day and do all they can to feed
and provide for their family.
In other countries, when a person turned 18, he/she can live away from his/her family. In the
Philippines, they value their family so much that they keep them intact through the years.
2. Respect
One of the precious things Filipinos have is that they are respectful.
Young, youth, people in all ages know how to show respect and
courtesy. Some ways to show them are the use of “Po at Opo”,
“Pagmamano” or putting the back of an elder’s hand on your
forehead, and calling our older siblings or elders Ate or Kuya.
3. God-fearing
Though we, Filipinos, belong to different religious groups, we all have God(Supreme being) in
our center. Filipino families sometimes go to church or pray together with their family.
One of the most popular qualities Filipinos have is that they are very hospitable. When there are
visitors at home, they will do a lot of preparations for good entertainment and accommodation so
that they will feel at home and enjoy the stay. When there is an occasion at home, there are a lot
of food and you can expect to have take-outs (pabalot) after.
This trait shows a sense of duty and responsibility. Filipinos know how to repay other people.
When someone helped us, we return the favors with goodness.
In a Filipino family, our parents usually cook for us, that’s what one of the ways on how they
show their love. Also, through good and bad times, Filipinos always find a way to smile and be
happy. Whatever the problem is, we are always reminded that our family’s always there to love
and support us no matter what.
Filipino values will prevail even if years will pass by. It will never be removed because it serves
as a distinction among other race. Definitely, it’s more fun in the Philippines and it’s the best to
be part of Filipino family