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Ann v. Bell
University of Delaware, USA
Despite establishing the gendered construction of infertility, most research on the subject has
not examined how individuals with such reproductive difficulty negotiate their own sense of
gender. I explore this gap through 58 interviews with women who are medically infertile and
involuntarily childless. In studying how women achieve their gender, I reveal the importance
of the body to such construction. For the participants, there is not just a motherhood mandate
in the United States, but a fertility mandate—women are not just supposed to mother, they are
supposed to procreate. Given this understanding, participants maintain their gender by deny-
ing their infertile status. They do so through reliance on essentialist notions, using their bod-
ies as a means of constructing a gendered sense of self. Using the tenets of transgender theory,
this study not only informs our understanding of infertility, but also our broader understand-
ing of the relationship between gender, identity, and the body, exposing how individuals
negotiate their gender through physical as well as institutional and social constraints.
AUTHOR’S NOTE: The research was funded through grants from the University of
Michigan Department of Sociology, University of Michigan Center for the Education of
Women, and the University of Michigan Rackham School of Graduate Studies. Thank you
to Asia Friedman and Karin Martin for their knowledge and advice, and thank you to the
reviewers and editors for helpful constructive feedback. Correspondence concerning this
article should be addressed to Ann V. Bell, University of Delaware, 325 Smith Hall,
Newark, DE 19716, USA; email: avbell@udel.edu.
Despite putting “the body on the intellectual map,” feminist theory has
been hesitant to study the body, particularly its relationship to gender and
identity (K. Davis 1997, 1). Much of this hesitancy resides in its concep-
tualization of gender. From “distinctionists” who argued for the sex/gen-
der system, to postmodernists who collapsed such a distinction, “the
female body has posed a problem for feminists” across the theoretical
spectrum (K. Davis 2007, 52).
In an effort to move away from the biological determinism that was
often used to justify women’s subordination, feminist theorists strove to
separate biological sex from socially constructed gender (K. Davis 2007).
Bell / GENDER, IDENTITY, AND THE BODY 631
understandings of infertility tend to silo gender, identity, and the body rather
than explore their relationship. Research on the gendered aspects of infertility
is pertinent, because, as Throsby and Gill (2004, 345) noted, infertility “takes
place in the context of gender relations.” Like other reproductive health
issues, infertility is stereotyped a woman’s problem (Bell 2015; Culley,
Hudson, and Lohan 2013). As such, many (involuntarily childless) women
experience infertility as a direct strike against their self-identity, in contrast to
men who experience infertility more indirectly and externally (Clarke,
Matthews, and Matthews 2006; Greil 1991; Greil and Johnson 2014).
Numerous studies have demonstrated the “devastating” effects infertility has
on a woman’s sense of self, leading to “spoiled identities,” a “negative psy-
che,” and a “jeopardized sense of being a complete woman” (Clarke,
Matthews, and Matthews 2006; Greil, Leitko, and Porter 1988; Scritchfield
1989). Yet, researchers also have cautioned that it is “necessary to problema-
tize the view that infertility automatically becomes an individual’s master
status” (Letherby 2002, 279). In other words, how might women attempt to
overcome these ideas in an effort to maintain a gendered sense of self?
While research has clearly established the inherent gender relations in
infertile experiences, it has yet to fully explore how individuals negotiate
their own sense of gender. Ironically, despite the paucity of literature on
men’s experiences of infertility compared to the wealth of studies on wom-
en’s experiences, we know more about how men maintain masculinity in
light of infertility than how women maintain femininity (Culley, Hudson,
and Lohan 2013; Greil, Slauson-Blevins, and McQuillan 2010). Frequently
highlighting the emasculating effects on men, studies have looked to deter-
mine how men overcome such effects (e.g., Barnes 2014; Bell 2016; Dolan
et al. 2017). The literature that examines womanhood and infertility, how-
ever, often does so in terms of how women’s gender is threatened (rather
than preserved) or studies women’s gender negotiations secondarily.
Such indirect examination of women’s maintenance of gender is evi-
dent in the research on coping with infertility, which offers a glimpse into
how women negotiate with ideologies such as pronatalism. For instance,
Parry (2005b) found that women expand their notion of family, and
Czarnecki’s (2015, 718) work on religion’s effect on infertility revealed
how women attain a “moral femininity” in an effort to “construct alterna-
tive maternal identities.” Riessman’s study (2002) on South Indian
women is one of the few that directly examined how women with infertil-
ity negotiate their womanhood. Through a study of three older women’s
narratives, Riessman found that women manage their gender through
deflection of blame, maintenance of other identities, and flexible concep-
tualizations of parenting.
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Methods
In the findings that follow, I explore how women with infertility nego-
tiate their gender. I first demonstrate the necessity of such negotiation
given the women’s construction of womanhood as inherently connected to
the ability to reproduce. I then examine one way the women overcome
such a construction, namely, through drawing from their physical bodies
within socially defined parameters.
And it’s—it’s extremely hard as a woman to realize that you may never be
able to have a kid. And it’s—it’s kind of that thing that that’s what makes a
woman a woman. It’s kind of like the message we’ve been taught our entire
lives and that part of me says, “Yeah, that’s true. I’m not really 100% a
woman if I can’t have a kid.”
As both Jessica and Paula allude, women are taught throughout their
“entire lives” that inherent in womanhood is having children. And if they
are unable to do so themselves, their gender is called into question.
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Maybe it’s as a woman, it makes me feel less of one because you can’t—it’s
like that’s what I’m supposed to do. I’m supposed to procreate—I’m sup-
posed to be able to have kids and, you know, you can’t—it just makes me
feel—I’m real big on I don’t like to feel like I’m failing at anything. I
can’t—that is like one I feel like I’m failing at. As a woman, I’m like, you
know, as your wife—now I mean you— you know, you’re saying you want
one. I can’t give you that, you know. So I feel like I’m failing at that really.
And that is one thing that nobody can probably get out of my system . . . I
feel like I am failing as a woman to not be able to do it.
The participants internalized the idea that having children is what women
are “supposed” to do. More specific than just motherhood, however,
women are “supposed to procreate.” When they are unable to achieve this
fertility mandate, the participants feel like they are “failing” at woman-
hood.
It is precisely their physical capability to reproduce that women con-
nect to their gender. Heather, a black woman of low SES, reiterated this
essentialist notion:
Well, the thing that separates women from men is, you know, the ability to
have a kid. That’s what makes us special, and that’s something that I can’t
do. And so that kind of makes you less—it makes you feel like you’re less
than a woman or what a woman’s supposed to be.
Just the emotional (pauses) feeling how, you know, (pauses) your body’s
supposed to do this. You know, for most women it does. And why isn’t it
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working for me? What’s wrong with me? You know, what’s wrong with my
body that I can’t conceive? . . . It’s like I wasn’t good enough and that just
added to it, you know, like I couldn’t—couldn’t do what my body was sup-
posed to be doing.
And yet, you know, your body is not doing its job, you know, that you
would expect it to. You’re, you know, you’re a woman, you’re born—
you’re born with all of the parts. You are supposed to be able to do the
things that it’s created to do. And when it’s not able to, then, you know, it’s
just—a whole different dynamic.
You know, I was—I was angry and disappointed that my body wasn’t doing
what it was meant to do. Do you know what I mean? As—as far as, you
know, women have cycles for a reason. It’s because that’s what it takes to
make a baby. You produce an egg, a man produces sperm and that’s—it
wouldn’t be there if that’s what we weren’t supposed to do with it.
of high SES, asserted, “You feel less, you know, less like a woman because
this is like, you know, the one thing you should be able to do. You should
be able to get pregnant.” The experience of Nan, a white woman of high
SES, also relayed the importance of pregnancy to a woman’s sense of self:
And, you know, for me, I think that even more—more than grieving the loss
of the biological child for some reason for me was a lot of grieving not
being able to experience pregnancy and childbirth. Because I tied that so
much into my identity as a woman. . . . The biggest thing for me was the
grieving of the—the kind of having to sort through what it means to be a
woman and how much is childbirth and pregnancy tied up in that.
Oh, after eight years, I would think that’s probably up there. Maybe. Maybe
with a plus, plus after it. I don’t know. I mean not even a miscarriage. Come
on now. Nothing. Nothing has happened at all.
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It’s usually in the beginning, you know, you’re kind of—you’re very upset
but you’re also hopeful. You’re frustrated and bitter but you still have that
hope and you’re like, “Hey, it’s just a matter of time. You know, I’ve just
got to control.” And then you wait and wait and it doesn’t happen. “Well,
next cycle. You know, they say that this is just the first, you know, because
there’s—we’re on plan B. You know, there’s like A to Z. And this didn’t
work, no problem. We’ll go to C and we’ll go to D.” So you keep going
through that and, you know, you try to not get discouraged.
I am not infertile. I ovulate every month. I have perfectly wide open tubes.
I have a normally shaped uterus. I have a fantastic progesterone level and
so I don’t have any kind of luteal phase defect. No. I am fine. I am fertile.
No, I don’t actually. I don’t think that—I mean if somebody were to say
to me, you know, if—if I were looking at a form that said, “check one:
fertile or infertile,” I would think, “Well, I got pregnant, so I must be
fertile, you know?” . . . And so no, I don’t feel infertile . . . and I guess as
long as I can continue to get pregnant, that to me seems like the defining
aspect of fertility.
Conclusion
These findings have important implications for the areas of gender, the
body, and identity, demonstrating their interrelationships. The women’s use
of their bodies is integral to their construction of gender. Often, gender
scholarship (e.g., Bordo 1993; Kwan and Trautner 2009) examines how
culture shapes the body rather than the reverse—how the body shapes
gender. Feminist researchers have successfully examined how bodies come
to acquire certain meanings, but, in turn, often fail to question how bodies
themselves construct those meanings. While fear of essentializing may
contribute to this gap, it is imperative that the significance of the body to
gender be revealed (K. Davis 2007). This study adds to our theories of
gender by not only revealing such significance but also demonstrating how
the body is used in such meaning-making. Gender is not separate from sex,
nor is it collapsible within it; rather gender is a “fuzzy” in-between in
which its subjectivity is both corporeal and embodied (Tauchert 2002).
Transgender studies are clearly part of this revelation, examining how
the body is constructive of the gendered experience. Through its critiques
of the way the social construction of gender dismisses the body when it
sets aside sex, this literature reminds us that the body is both culture and
nature (Annandale and Clark 1996). Rather than subordinating the body
as an object of culture, we must interrogate how bodies themselves con-
tribute to social relations and the culture in which they are situated
(Budgeon 2003). For instance, Nan in this study showed that the process
of being pregnant not only represented her female reproductive capacity
but also her “identity as a woman.”
Indeed, infertility is not merely “an experience of the failure of body
and self” (Greil 2002, 113). Rather, medical treatment allows women to
flip the script by revealing the opposite—the capabilities of women’s bod-
ies, and thus their gendered selves. Research often describes medicine’s
reinforcement of the Cartesian mind-body dualism in which the self is
considered separate from the body (Berg and Akrich 2004). As Martin
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away their “hallmark of femininity,” the women are able to maintain that
pinnacle, or at least the hope of reaching it (A. E. Goldberg, Downing, and
Richardson 2009, 950).
Notes
1. These notions are reflective of mainstream social ideologies. They are not,
however, indicative of how all women desire motherhood. As other researchers
(e.g., Gillespie 2003; McQuillan et al. 2008) have demonstrated, many women do
not prioritize motherhood and/or purposefully do not adhere to dominant norms.
2. All women in this sample are involuntarily childless. So, while the views
expressed in the findings are commonplace across participants, they are not gen-
eralizable to all women.
3. All women of high SES in the study sought medical treatment for their
reproductive struggles, and many women of low SES did as well.
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