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To love ourselves is to
acknowledge the fundamental goodness of our nature and to
share it with others.
Self-love is more than just wearing nice attire and applying bouts of expensive
makeup and then claiming that you love yourself. Self-love is an umbrella term
for different acts of love we perform toward ourselves physically and non-
physically. To love yourself is not an act of selfishness, it is an act of kindness
toward others because when you love yourself, others don't have to deal with
your unresolved problems.
t is sad that most of us are trying to conquer external battles like finding love,
finding success, or finding happiness, but we do not understand that self-love
is the root from which everything grows.
Self-awareness
is being aware of your thought processes: your thoughts, how they affect your
emotions, and how emotions cause you to act.
Are you aware of the thoughts that make you feel angry and make you
act impulsively? Where are they coming from, and why are they there?
Why do they cause you to act the way that you do? The same applies to
what makes you happy. Why does it make you happy?
Self-awareness is the key to emotional intelligence. What makes you mad might
not stop making you mad, but you will know how to respond effectively or how
to not respond at all. People with high emotional intelligence have emotions
just like we do. But they step out of their emotions to process them effectively.
This also includes moving away or avoiding situations that you know
will trigger certain undesirable feelings and reactions within you. If you
cannot move away or avoid the situation, self-awareness enables you to
redirect the energy you are putting in those emotions. One way to improve
your self-awareness is to keep a journal of your thoughts, emotions, and
actions.
Self-worth
Self-worth lies in all the good things about you. Everyone has something
good about them.
If you struggle to find your self-worth, find a day that you can spend
picking out the things you have done right or the things that other
people have appreciated about you.
You may be a pushover because you don’t know your worth. There is never a
day that you are not worthy. Self-worth is not determined by anything; you
don’t have to do anything to be worth it. You just are. Know that and
understand that. Your strengths, talents, and kind acts toward other
people are just an expression of your self-worth.
Self-esteem
If you want self-esteem, improve your self-worth. Remind yourself every day
that you need not justify your existence. Your need to accomplish certain
things is often because of your need to justify your existence.
Self-care
This aspect that has more to do with the physical but it is not entirely physical.
Self-care is all the acts we do to keep ourselves healthy, like taking a bath,
eating a balanced diet, staying hydrated, and doing things that we love. Self-
care can also take form of watching what you consume, like the music you
listen to, the things you watch, and the people you spend time with.
Compared to the other aspects of self-love, self-care is easier to do. It is
best to start here on your journey toward discovering self-love.
Ask yourself this question as often as you can: “What would someone who
loves themselves do?” Ask yourself this question whenever you need to make
a decision, be it trivial or important. This exercise will come with one tip and
one warning.
gaano kasakit sa isang tao kung sisikapin kong pilitin ang aking mga
hangarin sa taong ito, kahit alam kong hindi tama ang panahon at
hindi pa handa ang taong ito para dito, at kahit ang taong ito ay sa
akin. “paggalang”