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MODULE NO. 2:
UNPACKING THE SELF
LESSON NO. 3:
The Material Self
Overview
Unpacking the self refers to the gradual unfolding of the self in which the six
aspects of the self develop in an integrated and healthy manner. As the Self
continues to interact with its environment, it gets various feedback that may affect
its self-knowledge, its self-image, and self-concept.
Study Guide
Before starting the module, I want you to focus solely in reading and
answering the task prepared for you in this module and make sure to set
aside all other tasks that will disturb you in doing this module. Read the
instructions below to successfully achieve the objectives of this module, and
don’t forget to have fun!
Learning Competency
Topic Presentation
Material self refers to our body, as well as the tangible objects, places,
things that we describe as “My” or “Mine.” it has two sub classes: the body self,
referring to our body and all its parts and the extra-corporeal self, beyond the
body, which, according to Rosenberg (1979), is our extended self. It includes
all the people, places, things that we regard as OURS. It can also refer to our
possession. All components of objects we possess are our own instinctive
preferences coupled with the most important interest in life.
William James said that the material self basically refers to our body,
clothes, immediate family, and home. Of these four components, let us
consider first our body, the most essential part of Material self. Self and body
are intimately attached. As we discussed in Lesson 1, our body is of prime
importance to us. We value it the most. We keep it healthy and in good condition
because if our body is not well, our other selves will suffer. For example, if our
body is sick, our total well-being will be affected we cannot go to work and fail
to attend to our responsibilities, our attitude towards others may be affected
and we cannot appreciate the world around us. But if our body id healthy
relationship can be much better.
Clothes are very important to us. They protect our body from extreme
temperature. They enhance our physical appearance. This is the reason why we
ae careful in choosing the style, color and the quality of the material used. We
want to look at our best with whatever we use.
Our choice of clothing is one of the best ways to distinguish our social
class, as well as our culture, our profession or occupation and our sex
preference, in fact, the first impression of people about us is based on the
clothes we wear, the brand, the color and our accessories, like, our bags and
shoes and other things we consider our own. It is a reflection of our personality,
our character and even our attitude.
that suggest good taste, may cause us certain sensations that can be affect our
attitudes and behaviors. We exude a pleasing personality, confident and
beautiful, because we are wearing the latest style in fashion, made out of quality
material, done by our favorite couturier, the fit of which perfectly flows with the
contour of our body. All these contribute to the feelings of assurance and self-
confidence.
The third essential part of Material self is our family, the source of our
life, the single, most important influence on a child’s life. At the first moment of
life, the child depends on the parents to protect and provide for his/her needs.
The parents are presents to serve as role model on how to act and experience
the world around him/her. A child grows up according to what he/she sees and
lives in the family. The kind of world he/she lives with his/her family could set
his/her sail towards life. His/her moral sense of value and personality are
shaped in the family. Based from our own experience, the world in which we
live shows us how truly our family influences us. Thus, as popularized by one
TV jingle, family is forever.
The family signifies love and hope; it gives the members a sense of
purpose and goal. As communicated within the family, every member strives to
live a life in accord with what the family aspires to achieve. With the family, we
share and celebrate our successes; it is, likewise, with the family that we seek
support and comfort if we fall short of what the members expect of us. Our
family is the replica of our self.
We value our dignity and integrity and respect our name because it
symbolizes us. We respect family principles, roles, and values. It is in our family
that we first learn and experiences respect for authority, as we look up to the
father as head, the mother as support, the children as followers or members.
In our family we learn the values of working together, respecting the rights of
members, cooperating with one another, and living in solidarity with the others.
These we bring with us to the wider community.
In the family, we live out family tradition, the ways of the family in the
past, lives out to the presents. For instance, we hear of family of doctors, of
politicians, engineers, or teachers. As the parents were, so are the children.
This is true in many families. This might even be true in your own family.
Setting aside family time is necessary to keep the bond and love for each
other alive. Members may spend time together through different activities, like
worshipping God together on Sundays and other occasions, spending weekends
together by the beach, travelling and vacationing together, or by simply
cleaning the house or the car, together. These allow members of the family to
play, laugh and eat together and other similarities activities. Being present for
and with one another enhances unity and closer relationship besides living out
the family values.
The fourth essential part of Material self is the home. Our home is our
source of life; it Is where our heart is. It is our sanctuary where we can relax,
rest and enjoy life with friends and family. It is in our home where we could be
our real selves. It is our safest refuge. It is a symbol of our security.
Some families put premium in the structure, style, size, and the over-all
make-up of their house because they reflect the economic and social status of
the family. While this is important, it is not always a guarantee that it is a home
based on the value of a happy home where everyone wants to experience
acceptance and whose rights are respected. Neil Young, in his song, Home,
Home, on the Range, expresses it eloquently: Oh, give me a home, where the
buffalos roam, where the deer and the antelope play; where seldom is heard a
discouraging word and the sky is not cloudy all day.
Our home can say a lot about us. It is a witness to out becoming who
and what we are. It is where we learned our first footsteps, uttered our first
words, learned how to make choices and decisions, whether to love or hate; It
is also where we first experienced success or failure.
On Material Possessions
Sad to note, but people are just willing to submit themselves to these
allurements. And they become materialistic. Commercialism and consumerism
have successfully created in us the desire to acquire more, to update and
upgrade our gadgets and buy more, to keep up with the trends.
We are what we buy and what we have. So, what should we consider if
we want to buy something or upgrade anything we already have? Our decision
will depend on some factors. For example, we need to confront ourselves with
this reality: Can we afford? If we can afford, is it necessary to buy it, upgrade
it, or we just simply want it?
So, we would want to keep it. As a child, we keep the things that we received
from a significant other, as something special and memorable. We are also
attached t family heirloom because of its sense of history and connectedness
with someone dear to us in the past. Added to these, we keep memorabilia that
we received from significant people whom we value, admire, and idolize in our
life.
Conclusion
ADDITIONAL READINGS
- https://www.slideshare.net/JehnMarieSimon1/understanding-the-
self-unpacking-the-self-the-material-self
- https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0167811620
30029X
- https://www.slideshare.net/Assassinspyguy/material-self-by-
william-james
Assessment
Assignment
References
published 2020)
- Bagozzi, R. P., Ruvio, A. A., & Xie, C. (2020). The material self.
https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ijresmar.2020.03.002JehnMarieSimon1.
Slideshare.net.
https://www.slideshare.net/JehnMarieSimon1/understanding-the-
https://www.slideshare.net/Assassinspyguy/material-self-by-
william-james