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STEP TWO: Share how you feel about what happened (your
REACTION).
STEP ONE: Your goal in each step is to explain what you want
from a “Centered” place. Instead of “Spitting Out the
Hook,” you now want to avoid “casting out your own
hooks.” Remember, “Do Not Awaken Resistance.”
State calmly and clearly what happened (the EVENT)
that motivates your desire to talk with this person.
STEP TWO: Share how you felt/feel about what happened. (Your
feeling may be one we often identify as “negative”
but you’re naming the feeling, not hammering the
other person with it. There are no “negative”
emotions, only emotions. Be real; be accurate.