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The fear of finding oneself alone – that is what they suffer from – and so they don’t find
themselves at all.” (Andre Gide, The Immoralist)
Introduction: History
Human beings are social by nature and often fear isolation. A lack of social support in the
prehistoric age would be highly disadvantageous, and thus natural selection would have
favored social behaviors and a fear of isolation. If alone for too long, our mental health
would suffer, leading to depressed mood, insomnia, and even psychosis. The history of
solitary confinement and exile as punishment illustrate how deep the fear of isolation is in
humanity.
Solitude is heavy, as we are forced to confront our own insecurities and unresolvced
emotions. Those who find solitude too heavy might resort to cling to others to ensure they
never left alone to their own thoughts. This in turn limit the chance for self discovery and
change, and would leave one in perpetual stagnation. If one were to attach their self worth
and esteem merely to their relationship with others, they would eventually get lost in the
crowd they surround themselves in, becoming a mere sheep in the herd.
Meaning can be found and personal growth stimulated when we cultivate, in solitude, a
relationship with some form of creative work that consumes our attention.