Carl and Frank need to resolve their differences over their family business for Carl's health. They should communicate openly and listen to each other with logic rather than emotions, involving their wives. Carl needs to forgive himself and Frank to reduce his stress. They should be objective, clarify issues, and agree on a common goal for dividing the company. Consulting third-party professionals could help with dividing the business and facilitating communication.
Carl and Frank need to resolve their differences over their family business for Carl's health. They should communicate openly and listen to each other with logic rather than emotions, involving their wives. Carl needs to forgive himself and Frank to reduce his stress. They should be objective, clarify issues, and agree on a common goal for dividing the company. Consulting third-party professionals could help with dividing the business and facilitating communication.
Carl and Frank need to resolve their differences over their family business for Carl's health. They should communicate openly and listen to each other with logic rather than emotions, involving their wives. Carl needs to forgive himself and Frank to reduce his stress. They should be objective, clarify issues, and agree on a common goal for dividing the company. Consulting third-party professionals could help with dividing the business and facilitating communication.
Jenifer Frenita Naila N. S. Komara Ng Kara Sevania Daniel Kenneth Cruz Gian Levin S. Batac
BRAWLING BROTHERS Case
ARTICLE | 1 NOVEMBER, 2002 01:04 PM | BY FAMILY FIRM INSTITUTE
Discussion: How might Carl and Frank resolve their differences?
Carl and Elaine should understand that Carl’s Health is the priority, and the company will be of no use to them if Carl dies. Humility on Carl’s end would be a great benefit for him, forgiveness and acceptance comes next. They will do this not for Frank but for Carl.
Open Communication and Listening - Though it is difficult, Elaine is right. They
should bury their pride and reach out to Frank’s Family. The approach should not be hostile and full of emotions but with logic and the right reasoning. Involvement of Wives during the communication process to moderate and intervene. Forgiveness - Carl might think that asking for forgiveness is only for Franks, It is more about him. He can forgive himself for his actions and ask for forgiveness from Fank. There is always an honor in humility. He cannot risk heightened emotions from stress Be Objective - Clarify the things that need to be addressed. Have a common end goal and agree to terms and not break in along the way Consult third-party professionals - They can be of help in the division of the company and intervene during communication. (Lawyers, Industry Experts, Relationship experts etc.)
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