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Toxic positivity arises from an unrealistic expectation of having perfectly happy lives all the time. When
this does not happen, people "can feel shame or guilt" by being unable to attain the perfection desired.
Toxic positivity is actually a form of gaslighting, the term for when someone causes you to question your
own sense of reality. It can cause people to dissociate themselves from their negative feelings,
rationalize unacceptable experiences, and even gaslight others in turn.
While toxic positivity may not be ill-intentioned, it can still be unproductive and hurtful. People may feel
like their emotions are dismissed or like the other person doesn't understand, care, or empathize. This
can prevent them from being vulnerable and sharing their struggles in the future.
Toxic positivity involves dismissing negative emotions and responding to distress with false reassurances
rather than empathy. It comes from feeling uncomfortable with negative emotions. It is often well-
intentioned but can cause alienation and a feeling of disconnection.
Below are some common expressions and experiences of toxic positivity to help you recognize how it
shows up in everyday life.
Below are some common expressions and experiences of toxic positivity to help you recognize how it
shows up in everyday life.
Toxic positivity is the belief that no matter how dire or difficult a situation is, people should maintain a
positive mindset. While there are benefits to being optimistic and engaging in positive thinking, toxic
positivity rejects all difficult emotions in favor of a cheerful and often falsely-positive façade.