Narcissism is a personality disorder characterized by a pattern of grandiosity, a lack of

empathy for others, and an excessive need for admiration. While not all individuals who
exhibit narcissistic traits have a personality disorder, those who do may display the following
nine characteristics:

Grandiosity: A narcissist may have an exaggerated sense of self-importance and a belief that
they are better or more important than others.
Excessive need for admiration: A narcissist may seek constant attention, praise, and
admiration from others, and become angry or frustrated if they feel they are not receiving
enough.
Lack of empathy: A narcissist may have difficulty understanding or caring about other
people's feelings and needs, and may be indifferent to the impact their behavior has on others.
Sense of entitlement: A narcissist may believe that they deserve special treatment,
privileges, and benefits, and may be unwilling to acknowledge the needs or rights of others.
Arrogance: A narcissist may have a haughty or superior attitude, and may feel that they are
above criticism or reproach.
Envy: A narcissist may be envious of others' successes, and may belittle or undermine those
they see as competitors.
Manipulative behavior: A narcissist may use others for their own gain, and may lie, cheat,
or exploit others to get what they want.
Lack of accountability: A narcissist may refuse to take responsibility for their mistakes, and
may blame others or make excuses for their behavior.
Intense reactions to criticism: A narcissist may respond to criticism or rejection with anger,
defensiveness, or emotional withdrawal, and may seek revenge or retaliation against those
who challenge them.

Type of therapy
There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question, as the type of therapy that is most
effective for a narcissist will depend on a variety of factors, including the severity of their
condition, their willingness to engage in therapy, and the underlying reasons for their
narcissism.
That being said, some forms of therapy that have been shown to be effective in treating
narcissistic personality disorder include:

Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT): CBT is a form of talk therapy that focuses on changing
the thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors that underlie narcissistic behavior. In CBT, a therapist
works with the individual to identify negative or distorted thought patterns and replace them
with more realistic and healthy ones.
Schema therapy: Schema therapy is a type of psychotherapy that is designed to help
individuals with personality disorders, including narcissistic personality disorder. The goal of
schema therapy is to help the individual identify and change deep-rooted, maladaptive
patterns of thought and behavior.
Psychodynamic therapy: Psychodynamic therapy is a type of talk therapy that is designed to
help individuals explore their unconscious thoughts, feelings, and (motivations. In
psychodynamic therapy, a therapist works with the individual to uncover the underlying
causes of their narcissistic behavior and to develop a deeper understanding of themselves.
Group therapy: Group therapy can be helpful for individuals with narcissistic personality
disorder, as it allows them to practice interpersonal skills and receive feedback from others in
a safe and supportive environment.
It is important to note that treating narcissistic personality disorder can be a challenging and
complex process, and individuals with this condition may require long-term treatment and
ongoing support to achieve meaningful change.

Is it curable?
While there is no "cure" for narcissistic personality disorder, research suggests that a
combination of psychotherapy and medication can be helpful in managing symptoms and
improving overall functioning.

How do you convince a narcissist?

It can be challenging to convince a narcissist to seek therapy, as they may not recognize that
they have a problem or may be resistant to the idea of seeking help. However, here are some
strategies that may be helpful in encouraging a narcissist to go to therapy:

Appeal to their sense of grandiosity: Narcissists often have an inflated sense of

self-importance and may respond positively to the idea of receiving expert advice and
guidance. You can emphasize that therapy is an opportunity for them to work with a highly
trained professional who can help them achieve their goals and reach their full potential.
Focus on their goals and desires: Narcissists are often highly motivated by their own desires
and goals. You can highlight how therapy can help them achieve their personal or
professional goals, such as improving their relationships, advancing their career, or enhancing
their social status.
Express concern for their well-being: Narcissists may respond positively to the idea that you
are concerned for their well-being and want to see them succeed. You can express your
concern in a non-judgmental way and emphasize that therapy can help them address any
challenges or difficulties they may be experiencing.