The document discusses how giving and receiving compliments can positively impact self-esteem and relationships. Giving compliments makes the giver feel grateful for others while boosting the receiver's confidence. Developing self-esteem involves challenging oneself, accepting personal flaws, and avoiding comparisons to others. Classmates can help each other by recognizing strengths, engaging introverts, and complimenting insecurities.
The document discusses how giving and receiving compliments can positively impact self-esteem and relationships. Giving compliments makes the giver feel grateful for others while boosting the receiver's confidence. Developing self-esteem involves challenging oneself, accepting personal flaws, and avoiding comparisons to others. Classmates can help each other by recognizing strengths, engaging introverts, and complimenting insecurities.
The document discusses how giving and receiving compliments can positively impact self-esteem and relationships. Giving compliments makes the giver feel grateful for others while boosting the receiver's confidence. Developing self-esteem involves challenging oneself, accepting personal flaws, and avoiding comparisons to others. Classmates can help each other by recognizing strengths, engaging introverts, and complimenting insecurities.
1. How did you feel as you were giving compliments?
- At first, I am hesitant to give compliments because I thought it would make the
other person feel uncomfortable and things between us would be awkward. However, it felt nice to give others compliments because they actually need it. I felt grateful when I give compliments because I know that I’m sincere plus it’s giving others the feeling of appreciation. I like others to feel that I appreciate them and that they should not feel insecure because I wholeheartedly accept them.
2. How was it like to get a compliment from somebody?
- It is boosting my confidence, it makes me wanna show more and be free of how I
really am. Receiving compliments on the thing that I thought is the ugliest part of me really makes me emotional because I would have never thought that someone appreciates my flaws.
3. How can giving words of affirmation help you?
- Giving words of affirmation helps me in building stronger relationships with
others. I consider it as self-respect when I know that I motivate people and realize their self-worth.
4. What can you do to develop your self-esteem?
- I can develop my self-esteem by challenging myself. Think negatively and make
it a motivation to do greater things, to surpass the limits. I, myself can only be confident if I believe in and accept myself. Also to stop comparing myself with others and always put in mind that we are different and unique, be kind to me, and take proper care once things go wrong.
5. How can you help develop your classmate's self-esteem?
- I can help develop my classmate’s self-esteem by recognizing them. Introverts
can be extroverts if I will engage with them by laughing with them, asking their advice, and importantly complimenting them, especially on things that they felt insecure about.