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Mavis Klein
To cite this article: Mavis Klein (1977) “Stroking Up” Our Children, Transactional Analysis Journal,
7:4, 306-309, DOI: 10.1177/036215377700700406
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etc. (The behaviors in A 2 which the By this stage A 2 has acquired the capa-
parents stroke at this stage tend to be an city to think deductively and is functionally
extension of the Al and A 2 behaviors complete. Through the recent stroking to
they stroke in earlier stages.) A 2 of educational attainment, the
energy cathected into C 2 and A 2 is much
STAGE VI -13-16 YEARS more equalized now than it has been since
C2 age six, but P 2 still needs its share of
cathexis for the early harmony of Stage
IV to be restored.
A2
P2
C1 PARENT
A 1 1 P1
I
The child is suddenly overwhelmed by
the biologically-determined surge of sexual
aggressive energy into C I , and manifestly
demands its fulfillment as if in infancy
again. But, unlike Stage III of which it is
so reminiscent, where the parents added
content to the still evolving personality,
there is now no escape for the child from
the established realities of A 2 and P 2'
Much as he might wish, he cannot escape
into the naivety of infancy and he is
desperate for help. Instinctively, parents The child knows now that he still needs
"stroke up" P I with 'Don'ts' and appeal his parents to help him achieve this final
to A 1 with spending money in order to stage in his maturation. But usually, for
redress the balance within C 2, while a complex of reasons including sexual
teachers do their best to keep on "strok- rivalry with his same-sexed parent and
ing up" A 2• But P 2 remains essentially the taboo against intimacy with his
swamped. opposite-sexed parent, he needs to play
This is a holding-on stage and healthy games around getting this need fulfilled.
development through it depends on Often he will use his A 2-now capable of
parents' self-confidence, through their deduction and sophistry-to launch a
own Al awareness, in keeping their A 2 in two-pronged attack on his parents' A 2
the executive while stroking from PI to and P 2 with his now self-confident A 2,
their child's P I and A r- but covertly he is begging for P 2 - P 2
strokes from them, which will achieve the
final balance of cathexis in his own Ego
STA GE VII - LA TE ADOLESCENCE States necessary for him to leave home
C2 A2 safely and function as an autonomous
adult. His healthy development through
this stage depends on his parents' aware-
P2 ness of the game he is playing and their
self-confidence in insisting (without
humiliating him through open confronta-
C1 A1 P1
tion) on the Parent's as well as the Adult's
right to autonomy within the personality.
308 Trans. An. J., 7:4, October 1977
"STROKING UP" OUR CHILDREN
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