Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Development Organizations (D.O.)
• The World Bank (US)
• OPEC Fund for International Development (Austria)
• Asian Development Bank (Philippines)
• Islamic Development Bank (Saudi Arabia)
• Adapts international standards and to recommend
practices for regulating air navigations and encourage the United Federation of Travel Agents Association (UFTAA)
improvement of the art of aircraft design and operation for
• Universal Federation of Travel Agent Association (UFTAA)
peaceful purposes.
is an association of travel agents and tour operators. It is one
• Aims to promote safe, regular and economical air of the largest organizations in the field of travel and tourism
transport, faster air commerce and study problems connected industry.
with the industry.
• In 1919, International Federation of Travel Agencies
• Involves standardizing of tickets, prices, airline air way (IFTAA) was established in Brussels. However, in 1996 IFTAA
bills, baggage checks and other documents. merged with the Universal Organization of Travel Agents
(UOTA) with the objective to ensure better coordination,
International Air Transport Association (IATA) cooperation among travel agents and to spread the
professionalism at the globe.
• The new organization established was known as Universal
Agent Association (UFTAA) and its main objective of the
association is the promotion, development, and expansion of
the travel and tourism industry worldwide, founded on 1996 in
Rome.
• It offers its members all the necessary material,
• World’s first international scheduled services (IATA) professional and technical advice, and assistance to enable
started, it formerly known as International Air Traffic them to take their proper place in the economy of world
Association. tourism.
• IATA founded in Havana, Cuba. • It unites and consolidates the federation of travel agent’s
National Association to enhance and promote the interest of
• In 1945 it has changed its name to the International the members.
Air Transport Association.
• IATA is closely associated with International Civil
Aviation Organization (ICAO). American Society of Travel Agents (ASTA)
• It helps in global planning of international timetables • The American Society of Travel Agents (ASTA)
and has formulated a single formula for tickets and airway bills established in New York in 1931.
as well as it simplifies the travel and shipping processes, while • It is the world’s largest professional travel trade
keeping costs down. It allows them to operate safely, securely, association and earlier it was known as American Steamship
efficiently, and economically under clearly defined rules. and Tourist Agent’s Association (ASTAA).
• Aim is the promotion and advancement of the interest of
World Travel & Tourism Council (WTTC) travel industry and safeguarding of the traveler.as well as it
promotes the ethical practice in tourism industry.
• The only global forum whose members are the top
decision makers in the travel and tourism industry. The 150
members are the CEO, President or Chairman of – airlines, REGIONAL TOURISM ORGANIZATIONS
airports, hotels, cruise lines, travel agencies, tour operators
and travel technology suppliers.
• The only body representing the private sector in all parts Organization of Economic Cooperation and Development
of the industry worldwide. (OECD)
• Designed to achieve the highest sustainable economic
growth and employment and raise standards of living of
member countries.
• Country Assistance Program Evaluation 26194, June 2008 Area I: East Asia (PRC, Taiwan, Korea & Japan)
Philippine Country Assistance Program Evaluation: Increasing Area II: Southeast Asia (ASEAN membership countries &
Strategic Focus for Better Results Indo-China)
Pacific Asia Travel Association (PATA) Area III: Oceania (Australia, New Zealand & the Pacific
Islands)
Area IV: Indian Sub-continent (India, Pakistan, Bangladesh &
Sri Lanka)
• APacCHRIE chapter was formed in 2002 to promote
academic and research exchanges among hospitality,
foodservice and tourism educators and industry practitioners in
The Pacific Asia Travel Association (PATA) Asia Pacific.
was founded in 1951.
• PATA is a non-profit travel industry association.
NATIONAL TOURISM ORGANIZATIONS - Philippines
• PATA focuses its attention on travel opportunities in the
member countries and develops awareness among the travel
trade. Department of Tourism (DOT)
• Headquarters of PATA is in Bangkok. • Primary government agency charged with the
• The main aim of PATA is to develop, promote and responsibility to formulate tourism policies, plans and projects
facilitate travel to and within the Pacific areas and South-East for the development of tourism as an engine of socioeconomic
Asian region. and cultural growth.
• Early leader in recognizing the need for environmental • Spread the benefits of tourism to wider segments of the
ethics. population.
• Initiated the PATA Code for Environmental Tourism • Ensure the safe, convenient and enjoyable stay and travel
of the foreign and local tourists in the country.
• Tourism Slogans
Caribbean Tourism Association/Organization (CTA)
Visit Philippines
• Encourages and Assists in the development of tourism
throughout the Caribbean Area. WOW Philippines
Asia-Pacific Economic Cooperation (APEC) It’s More Fun in the Philippines (2012 – present)
• Aims to establish coordination of national economies for • Current Secretary of DOT: Bernadette Romulo-Puyat,
the benefit of countries in the Asia-Pacific region assumed office on May 11, 2018.
Asia-Pacific Council on Hotel, Restaurant, and Institutional • Sponsors, conducts and supports festivals and cultural
Education (APacCHRIE) activities in Intramuros.
• The Hospitality & Tourism Educators • Give grants, contributions and donations for the
restoration, repair and maintenance of historic structure of
• Asia Pacific CHRIE or better known as APacCHRIE is a Intramuros.
Federation of the I-CHRIE. Members of APacCHRIE constitute
all countries at the Pacific Rim who must also be a registered
member of ICHRIE. The Geographical boundary of
National Parks Development Committee (NPDC)
APacCHRIE can be segmentized to four areas as following:
Undertake development of new parks.
• Upgrade and maintain park facilities. • Created in 1951, HRAP membership includes luxury,
deluxe, and standard hotels, leading restaurants and food
• Facilitate private sector participation in appropriate groups, schools and universities offering hotel and restaurant
aspects of parks development and maintenance. management resources, as well as allied industry partners.
• Parks under NPDC: Rizal Park, Paco Park, etc. • These are represented by hotel managers, restaurant
owners, university deans and CEO.
• Mission:
Tourism Infrastructure and Enterprise Zone Authority
(TIEZA) Formerly known as PTA or Philippine Tourism • To undertake programs and projects that will upgrade and
Authority. professionalize the industry such as, but not limited to the
setting up and operation of a Hotel and Tourism Institute of the
• Develop, manage and supervise tourism infrastructure
Philippines. To promote and foster high ethical standards in
projects in the country; the primary objective of encouraging
business resulting in fair and honest competition.
investments in TEZ’s (Tourism Enterprise Zone).
• To provide industry representation in matters of
• Principal agency responsible for the timely collection of
government regulatory policies/laws/rules affecting the
travel taxes:
industry.
(50%) of the proceeds from the travel tax collections shall
• To exercise dynamic leadership in promoting goodwill,
accrue to the TIEZA.
understanding, fellowship within the hospitality industry both
(50%) goes to CHED provided that they shall give priority to national and international.
tourism – related educational programs and courses.
(10%) share for the National Commission for Culture and the
Tourism Educators of Schools Colleges and Universities
Arts.
(TESCU)
• In 1988, a group of educators from Metro Manila schools
Nayong Pilipino Foundation (NPF) offering tourism courses formed what was then known as the
“Association of Tourism Schools of the Philippines (ATSP).
• The Ang Nayong Pilipino Foundation Inc., simply known
as the Nayong Pilipino Foundation or Nayong Pilipino is a non- • The founding member-schools were Polytechnic
profit organization based in Manila, Philippines. University of the Philippines, San Sebastian College, De
Ocampo College, La Consolacion College, Centro Escolar
• It is an autonomous government corporation under the University, and the University of Santo Thomas.
Department of Tourism.
• Its founding president is Dr. Zenaida Cruz of PUP.
• Ang Nayong Pilipino Foundation Inc. was created primarily
to promote research development project on social sciences • In 1992, the constitution of the ATSP was amended and
and humanities and related fields. its name was changed to “Tourism Educators of Schools
Colleges and Universities” (TESCU).
• Founded: November 6, 1972
• Mission:
• To promote closer working relationship between educators
Duty Free Philippines (DFP) and industry.
• Duty and tax free merchandizing system established and • To unite all schools, colleges, and universities with tourism
operated by DOT. programs with the end in view of training and developing
students for a productive and meaningful career in tourism.
• To sponsor lectures, seminars, workshops and
Philippine Travel Agencies Association (PTAA) conferences in various fields of tourism.
• Aims to foster unity in the travel industry and to promote • To increase professional knowledge through interaction
the welfare of its members and the traveling public. with all levels of travel and tourism educators.
• Uphold dignity and the ethics of the travel and tour • To work with colleagues to advance the image and
business. understanding of travel and tourism educators within the
• To cultivate friendly relations between the Philippines and industry and the academic world.
other countries.
The Council of Hotel and Restaurant Educators of the
Hotel and Restaurant Association of the Philippines Philippines (COHREP)
(HRAP) • COHREP is the leading academic professional
• A non-stock profit organization, the Hotel and Restaurant organization promoting quality Hospitality and Tourism
Association of the Philippines (HRAP) is the umbrella Education in the Philippines.
organization that speaks for the hospitality industry. • Established in 1989 by a group of Hotel and Restaurant
Administration faculty members with Dr. Ignacio Pablo elected
as founding President.
• The group felt that with the growing needs of the HRA • The board was subsequently registered with Securities and
program, there was need to form a professional organization Exchange Commission (SEC) on January 5, 1981 as a non-
that would ensure the quality of program offerings by stock, non-profit technical foundation.
addressing needs of educators and helping each other meet
quality standards. • It is a tripartite body composed of representatives from the
government, private and labor sectors which aims to provide
• In 1991, the COHREP filed its SEC registration and was manpower development in various tourism enterprises.
formally recognized in 1992.
• In 1991, the Board of Trustees under HRIBFI Resolution
Mission: To promote teaching excellence in hospitality 009-91 agreed to rename HRIB as the Tourism Industry Board
education by providing venues to transform educators into Foundation Inc. (TIBFI) to be able to expand its coverage /
confident and values-laden professionals, committed to the membership to all sectors of the tourism industry.
development of competent graduates with employable skills.
• The conversion was finally approved by the SEC on March
25, 1992.
Association of Administrators in Hospitality Hotel and • Mission: To converge government, industry, education and
Restaurant Management Educational Institution training sectors in facilitating tourism human resource
(AAHRMEI) development.
Philippine Tour Operators Association Inc. (PHILTOA)
.
• The Philippine Tour Operators Association (PHILTOA),
• AAHRMEI looks back to its humble beginning when a Inc. is an organization of tour operators and allied members
group of 22 deans and faculty members met to establish what actively involved in the advocacy of responsible tourism.
is now composed of more than 2,300 strong members,
individual and institutional combined. • Founded in June12, 1986, non-stock and non-profit
organization.
• Sixteen years ago Mrs. Sylvia S. Ama, then the director for
Hotel, Restaurant and Institutional Management of DLSU – • The membership includes travel agencies, hotel, resorts,
College of Saint Benilde, conceived the importance of an transportation companies, handicraft stores, and other tourism-
organization to look into the concerns of Hotel and Restaurant oriented establishments and associations.
Management and other related courses.
• The Philippine Travel Mart (PTM) is the flagship program
• This idea came into reality in February 2001 when Dr. of PHILTOA.
Gloria Baken Wong-Siy was asked to join the trip to Singapore
to evaluate the performance of a 3 rd training partner together
with the CHED-NCR Director, Dr. Amelia A. Biglete who was The international character of modern tourism and the growing
impressed with the effect of the training abroad. influence of international agencies in various fields are shown
in the growth of international cooperation and organization in
• Thus, she instructed Dr. Siy to come up with a strong
tourism.
organization which could help CHED monitor the
implementation of the International Practicum Training Some countries and regions have felt the need to band
Program guidelines so that this program could be sustained. together to strengthen their respective tourism programs.
Countries that are often visited by tourists have a national
• Inspired with this idea, Mrs. Ama and Dr. Siy worked on
tourism office that regulates and promotes tourist activities
the Constitution and By Laws with the assistance of Dr. Adela
such as the Department of Tourism in the Philippines.
J. Ruiz and called for an organizational meeting on February
24, 2001. There are also several national professional tourism
organizations that work closely with the government to promote
• On February 27,2001, a meeting / workshop was held in
tourism in their respective countries.
Singapore and at the same time induction of officers of
AAHRMEI was held at the end of the activity wherein Dr. Siy as
the elected President.
• Since then, AAHRMEI worked hard and has lived to its
objective of supporting CHED, TESDA, DOT and other
agencies to complement other organizations in order to pursue
quality and excellence in the hospitality education.
• It has extended its effort by establishing linkages abroad
to gain recognition for the hospitality and tourism education in
the Philippines.
Tourism Industry Board Foundation Inc. (TIBFI)
• The Hotel and Restaurant Industry Board (HRIB) was
established in June 1980 by the National Manpower and Youth
Council (NMYC) in accordance with Article 50 of the New
Labor Code.
4. Make an orderly list.
1. knowing the meaning of every keyword, expression, Implement your chosen plan or combination of strategies.
Proceed with care, orderliness, patience, and persistence.
and symbol in the problem; Thoroughly check each step of your solution. Use assumptions
sparingly. If your plan does not lead you to a believably correct
2. determining the given data and whether they are answer, recheck your work. If your plan still fails, choose
sufficient; another strategy. This is how Thomas Edison worked until he
was able to produce the “perfect” bulb. It is always helpful to
start with a clean sheet of paper every time you recheck your
3. distinguishing which of these data are necessary to
work or change your strategy. You might not see the glitch in
solve the problem and which are superfluous; your solution if you go over a messy work with many erasures
or numbers superimposed on other numbers.
4. identifying what is not known and what is being
Principle 4: Look Back
required to be found; and
In any problem solving, looking back is as important as
5. establishing the limitations or conditions to which the understanding the problem itself. Reflecting on your work will
give you insights into why your initial plan did not work or why
given data are subjected. your adopted strategy worked in your favor. Going over your
work will enable you to appreciate the strategy and use it in
It is often helpful to restate the problem in your own words, list
future problem-solving activities. Checking your work ensures
down the given data, and draw a diagram or figure to better
that your answer is reasonably correct and whether you have
grasp the problem. Introducing your own notations or
truly answered the questions in the problem or not.
representations, such as when you let x be equal to an
unknown number or when you consider a shaded region of a
figure to represent a fraction of the area to be found, will give
you a better appreciation of the problem. Your ability to
represent mathematical information symbolically and visually
and restate it verbally is a sure sign that you have understood
the problem.
Principle 2: Devise a Plan
Devising a plan is strategizing. There are many ways to Process Flow:
approach or “attack” a problem based on its general nature.
Understand the Problem
1. Make a guess and check if it does solve the problem.
What are the given data?
2. Represent the unknown and write an equation.
What details are not known?
3. Look for a pattern either within the problem or from
previous problems solved. What is required to be found?
Devise a Plan
What is the nature of the problem? (arithmetic, algebraic,
geometric, probability, etc.)
Problem: If a woman is randomly chosen from a group of _______ occupied units on the fourth floor, and
mothers with exactly three children, what are the chances that
_______ occupied units on the fifth floor.
all her three children are male?
There seem to be four possibilities. A woman can have three,
two, one, or no male children. So, you may conclude that there
is one out of four chances or 25% chance that a randomly Real-Life Problem Solving for the Quick-Witted
chosen woman would have three male children. However, that
Unlike the ones above, some problems require quick thinking
is a wrong conclusion.
and immediate action to resolve them. In real life, we may
Solution: encounter such problems or find ourselves in a situation where
our loved ones or we are put in imminent danger or physical
Drawing a diagram (tree) and/or making a list of all possible harm. So as not to be frozen by fear and by a pretentious hope
outcomes will help obtain the correct answer. Let us designate of someone else lending a hand, we need to develop mental
B for boys and G for girls. alertness.
We all know what to do in case of a sudden power failure
at night in our home. We need to get our portable emergency
light on, be it a candle and lighter or matchsticks, flashlight, or
rechargeable lamp. To be prepared for such, we keep these
things in a place which we can easily grope our way in the
darkness. We then turn them on, check the windows, lock the
doors, and make sure everyone in the house is accounted for
and safe.
We also get prepared for fires and earthquakes by
knowing what to do during these emergencies and even going
through a fire/earthquake drill. Below are two columns you
need to fill out with the things you need to do in case of fire or
earthquake.
Illustrative Example 3
While most accidents happen due to carelessness, many
accidents are preventable only if we have been drilled on what
to do, much like in a fire and earthquake drill. Studying
particular critical situations and dangerous scenarios
beforehand can help us be more prepared on how to behave
and what to do. Now, let us examine together two situations
where quick-wittedness and fast action are indispensable.
Step 1: Identify the decision is a decisions intended for some problems that occur rapidly
and may cause serious consequences if not dealt with
You realize that you need to make a decision. Try to clearly urgency.
define the nature of the decision you must make. This first step
is very important. E. Problematic Decisions
Step 2: Gather relevant information Experts from outside the team may be called to give advice
Collect some pertinent information before you make your F. Consultative decision
decision: what information is needed, the best sources of
information, and how to get it. This step involves both internal consulting other people from outside the organization means
and external “work.” Some information is internal: you’ll seek it inviting others to serve as consultant.
through a process of self-assessment. Other information is
external: you’ll find it online, in books, from other people, and
from other sources. Difficulties in Decision Making
Step 3: Identify the alternatives
Fear of Consequences
As you collect information, you will probably identify several
possible paths of action, or alternatives. You can also use your Conflicting loyalties
imagination and additional information to construct new Interpersonal Conflict
alternatives. In this step, you will list all possible and desirable
alternatives. Hidden Agenda
Blundering Methods
Step 4: Weigh the evidence
Inadequate Leadership
Draw on your information and emotions to imagine what it
would be like if you carried out each of the alternatives to the Clash of Interest
end. Evaluate whether the need identified in Step 1 would be
met or resolved through the use of each alternative. As you go Involvement in Decision Making
through this difficult internal process, you’ll begin to favor
certain alternatives: those that seem to have a higher potential A. The Plop
for reaching your goal. Finally, place the alternatives in a
The group makes a decision by not making decision
priority order, based upon your own value system.
B. The One-Person Decision
Step 5: Choose among alternatives
This is quickly made, but later when the decider depends in
Once you have weighed all the evidence, you are ready to
free or voluntary support from others to implement it.
select the alternative that seems to be best one for you. You
may even choose a combination of alternatives. Your choice in C. The Handclasp
Step 5 may very likely be the same or similar to the alternative
you placed at the top of your list at the end of Step 4. One person makes a suggestion another says what a
marvelous idea and without further discussion, the matter is
Step 6: Take action decided.
D. The Clique
Is made by a small group who plans beforehand to get their
way.
E. Minority
Not consciously organized as those of clique, but a few
powerful personalities dominate the group.
F. Majority Vote
This is often the most effective way to make decision.
G. Silent Consensus
Unanimous agreement is sometimes assumed, when some
members have not felt free to disagree and have kept silent
H. Consensus
This is an agreement involving compromise or the combination
of various possibilities after all opinions have been heard.
P.E
ork, sociology, and mathematics. happily upon return, and show normal exploration and lack of
fear when the parent is present
insecure avoidant infants show little distress upon
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Types Intimate relationships separation and ignore the caregiver when they return; they
explore little when the parent is present
insecure ambivalent infants are highly distressed by
•
relationship counselors. Two popular definitions of love are style, disorganized, so called because the infants’ behavior
Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love and Fisher's theory of appeared disorganized or disoriented.
love. Sternberg defines love in terms of intimacy, passion, and •
Siblings - Sibling relationships have a profound effect on
commitment, which he claims exist in varying levels in different
social, psychological, emotional, and academic outcomes.
romantic relationships. Fisher defines love as composed of
Although proximity and contact usually decreases over time,
three stages: attraction, romantic love, and attachment.
sibling bonds continue to affect people throughout their lives.
Romantic relationships may exist between two people of any
Sibling relationships are affected by parent-child relationships,
gender, or among a group of people.
such that sibling relationships in childhood often reflect the
• Romance - The single defining quality of a romantic positive or negative aspects of children's relationships with
relationship is the presence of love. Love is therefore equally their parents.
difficult to define. Hazan and Shaver define love, using
Ainsworth's attachment theory, as comprising proximity,
emotional support, self-exploration, and separation distress Other examples of interpersonal relationship
when parted from the loved one. Other components commonly
agreed to be necessary for love are physical attraction, • Egalitarian and Platonic friendship, Enemy
similarity, reciprocity, and self-disclosure.
• Frenemy — a person with whom an individual maintains a
• Platonic love - As the Merriam Webster dictionary friendly interaction despite underlying conflict, possibly
explains platonic love as, " love conceived by Plato as encompassing rivalry, mistrust, jealousy or competition
ascending from passion for the individual to contemplation of
the universal and ideal." It is a love that is affectionate but not • Neighbor, Business
sexual; in modern terms it can be easily be mistaken for a relationships, Partnership, Employer and employee, Contractor
sexual relationship. , Customer, Landlord and tenant, Coworker, Official
were often marked by fear, either of rebellion or abandonment, 1. Acquaintance and acquaintanceship – Becoming
resulting in the strict filial roles in, for example, ancient Rome acquainted depends on previous relationships,
physical proximity, first impressions, and a variety of other of taking care of others and have difficulty fully developing their
factors. If two people begin to like each other, continued identity on their own.
interactions may lead to the next stage, but acquaintance can •
continue indefinitely. Another example is the association. Narcissists - Narcissists focus on themselves and often
distance themselves from intimate relationships; the focus of
2. Buildup – During this stage, people begin to trust and care narcissistic interpersonal relationships is to promote one's
about each other. The need for intimacy, compatibility and selfconcept. Generally, narcissists show less empathy in
such filtering agents as common background and goals will relationships and view love pragmatically or as a game
influence whether or not interaction continues. involving others' emotions.
3. Continuation – This stage follows a mutual commitment to
quite a strong and close long-term friendship, romantic
relationship, or even marriage. It is generally a long, relatively Importance
stable period. Nevertheless, continued growth and
development will occur during this time. Mutual trust is
important for sustaining the relationship.
Human beings are innately social and are shaped by their
4. Deterioration – Not all relationships deteriorate, but those experiences with others. There are multiple perspectives to
that do tend to show signs of trouble. Boredom, resentment, understand this inherent motivation to interact with others.
and dissatisfaction may occur, and individuals may
• Need to belong - According
communicate less and avoid self-disclosure. Loss of trust and
to Maslow's hierarchy of needs, humans need to feel love
betrayals may take place as the downward spiral continues,
(sexual/nonsexual) and acceptance from social groups (family,
eventually ending the relationship. (Alternately, the participants
peer groups). In fact, the need to belong is so innately
may find some way to resolve the problems and reestablish
ingrained that it may be strong enough to overcome
trust and belief in others.)
physiological and safety needs, such as children's attachment
5. Ending – The final stage marks the end of the relationship, to abusive parents or staying in abusive romantic relationships.
either by breakups, death or by spatial separation for quite Such examples illustrate the extent to which the
some time and severing all existing ties of either friendship psychobiological drive to belong is entrenched.
or romantic love.
• Social exchange - Another way to appreciate the
Terminating a relationship importance of relationships is in terms of a reward framework.
This perspective suggests that individuals engage in relations
The American Psychological Association has summarized the that are rewarding in both tangible and intangible ways. The
evidence on breakups. Breaking up can actually be a positive concept fits into a larger theory of social exchange. This theory
experience when the relationship did not expand the self and is based on the idea that relationships develop as a result
when the breakup leads to personal growth. They also of cost-benefit analysis. Individuals seek out rewards in
recommend some ways to cope with the experience: interactions with others and are willing to pay a cost for said
rewards. In the best-case scenario, rewards will exceed costs,
• Purposefully focusing on the positive aspects of the producing a net gain. This can lead to "shopping around" or
breakup ("factors leading up to the break-up, the actual break- constantly comparing alternatives to maximize the benefits or
up, and the time right after the break-up") rewards while minimizing costs.
• Minimizing the negative emotions • Relational self - Relationships are also important for their
• Journaling the positive aspects of the breakup (e.g. ability to help individuals develop a sense of self. The relational
"comfort, confidence, empowerment, energy, happiness, self is the part of an individual's self-concept that consists of
optimism, relief, satisfaction, thankfulness, and wisdom"). This the feelings and beliefs that one has regarding oneself that
exercise works best, although not exclusively, when the develops based on interactions with others. In other words,
breakup is mutual. one's emotions and behaviors are shaped by prior
relationships. Relational self-theory posits that prior and
existing relationships influence one's emotions and behaviors
in interactions with new individuals, particularly those
Pathological relationships individuals that remind him or her of others in his or her life.
Studies have shown that exposure to someone who resembles
a significant other activates specific selfbeliefs, changing how
•
one thinks about oneself in the moment more so than exposure
Abusive - Abusive relationships involve either to someone who does not resemble one's significant other.
maltreatment or violence from one individual to another and
include physical abuse, physical neglect, sexual abuse, and • Power and dominance - Power is the ability to influence
emotional maltreatment. the behavior of other people. When two parties have or assert
•
unequal levels of power, one is termed "dominant" and the
Codependent - Codependency initially focused on a other "submissive". Expressions of dominance can
codependent partner enabling substance abuse, but has communicate intention to assert or maintain dominance in a
become more broadly defined to describe a dysfunctional relationship. Being submissive can be beneficial because it
relationship with extreme dependence on or preoccupation with saves time, emotional stress, and may avoid hostile actions
another person. There are some who even refer to such as withholding of resources, cessation of cooperation,
codependency as an addiction to the relationship. The focus of termination of the relationship, maintaining a grudge, or even
a codependent individual tends to be on the emotional state, physical violence. Submission occurs in different degrees; for
behavioral choices, thoughts, and beliefs of another person. example, some employees may follow orders without question,
Often those who are codependent neglect themselves in favor
whereas others might express disagreement but concede Social media - Social media has changed the face of
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• Confucianism - Confucianism is a study and theory of Interpersonal communication is the process of face-to-face
relationships especially within hierarchies. Social harmony— exchange of thoughts, ideas, feelings and emotions between
the central goal of Confucianism—results in part from every two or more people. This includes both verbal
individual knowing his or her place in the social order, and and nonverbal elements of personal interaction.
playing his or her part well. Particular duties arise from each
person's particular situation in relation to others. The individual
stands simultaneously in several different relationships with What are interpersonal skills?
different people: as a junior in relation to parents and elders,
and as a senior in relation to younger siblings, students, and Interpersonal skills are traits you rely on when you interact
others. Juniors are considered in Confucianism to owe their and communicate with others. They cover a variety of
seniors reverence and seniors have duties of benevolence and scenarios where communication and cooperation are essential.
concern toward juniors. A focus on mutuality is prevalent in
East Asian cultures to this day. These skills involve the ability to communicate and build
relationships with others. Often called people skills, they tend
to incorporate both your innate personality traits and how
you’ve learned to handle certain social situations. Effective
• Minding relationships - The mindfulness theory of interpersonal skills can help you during the job interview
relationships shows how closeness in relationships may be process and can have a positive impact on your career
enhanced. Minding is the "reciprocal knowing process involving advancement. Some examples of interpersonal skills include:
the nonstop, interrelated thoughts, feelings, and behaviors of Active listening,
persons in a relationship." Five components of "minding"
include: Teamwork, Responsibility, Dependability, Leadership,
Motivation, Flexibility, Patience, Empathy
1. Knowing and being known: seeking to understand the
partner
2. Making relationship-enhancing attributions for behaviors: Why are interpersonal skills important?
giving the benefit of the doubt
Strong interpersonal skills can help you during the job interview
3. Accepting and respecting: empathy and social skills process as interviewers look for applicants who can work well
with others. They will also help you succeed in almost any job
4. Maintaining reciprocity: active participation in relationship by helping you understand other people and adjusting your
enhancement 5. Continuity in minding: persisting in approach to work together effectively. For example, while a
mindfulness software engineer may spend the majority of her time working
on code independently, she may need to collaborate with other
programmers to effectively bring a product to market.
In popular culture
Interpersonal skills examples
Popular perceptions - Popular perceptions of intimate
•
Unlike technical or “hard” skills, interpersonal skills are “soft”
relationships are strongly influenced by movies and television. skills that are easily transferable across industries and
Common messages are that love is predestined, love at first positions. Employers value interpersonal skills because they
sight is possible, and that love with the right person always contribute to positive work environments and help maintain an
succeeds. Those who consume the most romance-related efficient workflow. Here is a list of interpersonal skills for you to
media tend to believe in predestined romance and that those identify interpersonal skills you may possess that are valuable
who are destined to be together implicitly understand each to employers:
other. These beliefs, however, can lead to less communication
and problem-solving as well as giving up on relationships more • Active listening- Active listening means listening to
easily when conflict is encountered. others with the purpose of gathering information and engaging
with the speaker. Active listeners avoid distracting behaviors
while in conversation with others. This can mean putting away
or closing laptops or mobile devices while listening, and asking
and answering questions when prompted.
• Dependability - Dependable people can be relied on in
any given situation. This can include anything from being
punctual to keeping promises. Employers highly value
dependable workers and trust them with important tasks and
duties.
• Empathy - A worker’s emotional intelligence is how well
they understand the needs and feelings of others. Employers
may hire empathetic or compassionate employees to create a
positive, highfunctioning workplace.
• Leadership - Leadership is an important interpersonal
skill that involves effective decision making. Effective leaders
incorporate many other interpersonal skills, like empathy and
patience, to make decisions. Leadership skills can be used by
both managers and individual contributors. In any role,
employers value people who take ownership to reach common
goals.
• Teamwork - The ability to work together as a team is
extremely valuable in every workplace. Teamwork involves
many other interpersonal skills like communication, active
listening, flexibility and responsibility. Those who are good
team players are often given important tasks in the workplace
and may be seen as good candidates for promotions.
How to improve interpersonal skills
1. Attend workshops or online classes. There are several
workshops, online classes and videos on ways you can
practice building interpersonal skills. While many are free,
some are available at a cost.
2. Seek out opportunities to build relationships. If you
work from home or do not otherwise have many opportunities
to build interpersonal skills, you might consider joining a group.
This could be related to your work like networking or industry-
specific groups, or simply a group that shares a similar interest
or hobby.
3. Be thoughtful about ways your interactions could
improve. Take time to review the interactions you have and
consider ways you could have interacted more effectively. This
might be certain words you said, ways you reacted or body
language you used.
4. Ask trusted friends or colleagues for constructive
criticism. It is helpful to get a third-party perspective about
your skill level and specific ways you can improve. Ask friends
or trusted colleagues to provide constructive criticism regarding
your interpersonal skills.
5. Observe other positive interpersonal interactions. It
can also be helpful to learn by seeing others use interpersonal
skills. Observe positive interactions of those around you and
apply those qualities you admire to your own relationships.
Seek out mentorship. Asking someone you trust, admire and
respect to counsel you on improving interpersonal skills and
advancing in your career overall can be an extremely effective
way to learn.
An Excerpt of Jesuit Version
According to Fr. Balaguer, he and Fr. Vilaclara arrived in
Rizal’s prison cell around 10 o’clock in the morning. He
mentioned in his letter and affidavit that their encounter with
Rizal started with a discussion of some articles of the Catholic
faith. They debated on issues such as the supremacy of faith
over reason and the dogmatic differences that divided
PHILIPPINE HISTORY Catholics and Protestants. Since time was not on their side,
they persuaded Rizal not to spend so much time discussing
The background of Rizal’s retraction was retrieved from faith-related issues and focus instead on how to die in the state
Ricardo R. Pascual’s book entitled “Dr. Jose Rizal Beyond the of grace so that he could enter heaven. They explained to him
Grave: A Vindication of the Martyr of Bagumbayan.” that they could not administer the sacraments he needed
without him signing a retraction letter and making a profession
On May 18, 1935, a document was discovered in the of faith. Fr. Balaguer mentioned that Rizal softened a bit when
vault of the Archbishop of Manila by Father Manuel Gracial. he warned him that his soul would go to hell if he did not return
This document, among others, is the much debated "original" to the Catholic fold. He reminded him that outside the Catholic
of Dr. Jose Rizal's retraction of his anti-Catholic writings and Church, there was no salvation (Extra Ecclesiam
propaganda as well as his affiliation to Masonry. With its Catholicamnulladatursalus) (Cavanna 1956, 8). The two
discovery, the Church and her devotees claim with proud mien Jesuits left Rizal’s prison around lunchtime, with Rizal still
that this document supposed and believed to have been undecided over whether to sign the retraction letter or not. The
mislaid was in fact lying all the while in this "providential vault" Jesuits went straight to the archbishop’s palace and informed
- a very providential omission according to the Catholics - only their superiors of what had transpired during their first meeting
to be brought to light in this "providential hour." Thanks to the with Rizal.
Providential Hand that directed the events that way. It only
seems too "providential" all the way through. Frs. Balaguer and Vilaclara returned to Rizal around 3
o’clock in the afternoon and tried until sunset to persuade him
Upon this discovery also, many of the opposite opinions to recant. They were still not able to convince him to sign the
suggest some attending circumstances that may discredit the retraction document. Their third meeting with Rizal took place
execution "in good faith" of this priceless document. Some say at 10 o’clock that night, and it was during this meeting that they
it was forced upon Rizal, and there are examples of forced showed Rizal the two retraction templates Fr. Pi had given
retraction which are cited as proof. The usual answer is that them. According to Fr. Balaguer, Rizal found the first template
force is not fitting in the character of Rizal as a means to make unacceptable because it was too long and its language and
him do something against his will. This contention that force style were not reflective of his personality (Arcilla 1994, 114).
cannot be used upon Rizal, because that hypothesis does not So Fr. Balaguer withdrew it and offered the shorter one. Rizal
fit itself with the character of Rizal, who simply cannot be did not sign it right away because he was uncomfortable with
coerced by force to do something much against his will, is an the statement “I abominate Masonry as a society reprobated
ingenious argument, for indeed Rizal was a person of manly by the Church.” He said he had met Masons in London who
character. But it is also to forget that despite his manly had nothing against the Catholic religion. Rizal wanted to
character, Rizal succumbed to force, however much he hated emphasize that Philippine Masonry was not hostile to
it. The proof of which is his own forced death, which he Catholicism and that Masonry in London did not require its
protested against with his innocence. members to renounce their faith. The Jesuits allowed Rizal to
revise the retraction template, and his final version read, “I
abominate Masonry as the enemy of the Church and
reprobated by the same Church” (Cavanna 1956, 9). After
Last Part of the Letter of Fr. Vicente Balaguer S.J. to Rev. making other minor changes to the draft, Rizal signed his
Pio Pi retraction letter before midnight. Fr. Balaguer handed it over to
Yes, my dear Father, I can affirm with full certainty and Fr. Pi, who in turn submitted it to Archbishop Bernardino
Your Reverence tell all the Manila Christians and that entire Nozaleda (Guerrero 1971, 459).
country, that Rizal was never irreligious or bigoted, never an For the full text of Jesuit version of Rizal’s retraction, visit
enemy of the Church; that he was a young man waylaid for this link: https://www.jstage.jst.go.jp/article/seas/8/3/8_369/_pdf
some time by factors around him; that he was a good patriot,
and desired in good faith the welfare and the independence of
his country; that he confessed to me in the chapel that he had
never approved armed revolution; that he had hoped to win An Excerpt of Cuerpo de Vigilancia Version
autonomy and later independence through legal means. But
deep in his heart, he was in the beginning and at the end of his In his affidavit, Fr. Balaguer declared that he talked to
life a good Christian. Let them honor the memory of Rizal, a Rizal three times on December 29, 1896. The first time was in
good Christian at heart, the first hero of the Philippines. the morning, from 10 to 12:30. It was during this meeting that
he presented the retraction template to Rizal but the latter did
For the full text of the letter of Fr. Vicente Balaguer S.J. to not sign. Moreno Jose Rizal, Phil. Revolution, Cuerpo de
Rev. Pio Pi, visit this link: Vigilancia 381 confirmed this meeting, including the
http://www.philippinestudies.net/files/journals/1/articles/2013/pu presentation of the draft retraction. But he reported that Rizal
blic/2013-2112-1-PB.pdf was talking not to Fr. Balaguer but to Frs. March and Vilaclara.
Moreno also confirmed that Frs. March and Vilaclara returned
to Rizal around 3 o’clock in the afternoon. Fr. Balaguer claimed
in his affidavit that he was one of Rizal’s afternoon visitors. Fr.
Rene Escalante (2019) discussed two different versions of Balaguer continued that the third time he talked to Rizal was
Rizal’s retraction. around 10 in the evening. He had another lengthy and
passionate discussion with him for more than an hour. It was to Aguinaldo the cessation of agitation in exchange of
on this occasion that Rizal finally signed his retraction letter. pardon.
Moreno confirmed that Rizal had visitors after dinner, but the
persons he identified were Señor Andrade, Señor Maure, and There are also not a few people who believe that the
Frs. March and Vilaclara. Again, Fr. Balaguer was not autobiography of Josephine Bracken, written on February
mentioned, and the time of the meeting was 9 o’clock and not 22, 1897 is also forged and forged badly. The document
shortly before midnight. Neither did Moreno’s report mention supposedly written by Josephine herself supported the
that they discussed issues concerning faith and the retraction. fact that they were married under the Catholic rites. But
The narrative is short and ends with Rizal going to bed. upon closer look, there is a glaring difference between the
penmanship of the document, and other letters written by
For the full text of Cuerpo de Vigilancia’s version of Rizal Josephine to Rizal.
retraction, visit this link:
https://www.jstage.jst.go.jp/article/seas/8/3/8_369/_pdf Surely, we must put the question of retraction to rest,
though Rizal is a hero, whether he retracted or not, we
must investigate if he really did a turn-around. If he did
not, and the documents were forgeries, then somebody
Peter Jaynul V. Uckung (2012) discussed the authenticity has to pay for trying to deceive a nation.
of Rizal’s Retraction.
It was supposed to have been signed by Jose Rizal
moments before his death. There were many witnesses,
most of them are Jesuits. The document only surfaced for
public viewing on May 13, 1935. It was found by Fr. Manuel
A. Gracia at the Catholic hierarchy’s archive in Manila. But
the original document was never shown to the public, only
reproductions of it.
However, Fr. Pio Pi, a Spanish Jesuit, reported that as
early as 1907, the retraction of Rizal was copied verbatim
and published in Spain, and reprinted in Manila. Fr. Gracia,
who found the original document, also copied it verbatim.
In both reproductions, there were conflicting versions
of the text. Add to this the date of the signing was very
clear in the original Spanish document which Rizal
supposedly signed. The date was “December 29, 1890.”
Later, another supposedly original document
surfaced, bearing the date “December 29, 189C”. The
number “0” was evidently altered to make it look like a
letter C. Then still later, another supposedly original
version came up. It has the date “December 29, 1896”.
This time, the “0” became a “6”.
So which is which?
Those who strongly believed the faking of the Rizal
retraction document reported that the forger of Rizal’s
signature was Roman Roque, the man who also forged the
signature of Urbano Lacuna, which was used to capture
Aguinaldo. The mastermind, they say, in both Lacuna’s
and Rizal’s signature forging was Lazaro Segovia. They
were approached by Spanish friars during the final day of
the Filipino-American war to forge Rizal’s signature.
This story was revealed by Antonio K. Abad, who
heard the tale from Roman Roque himself, them being
neighbours.
To this day, the retraction issue is still raging like a
wild fire in the forest of the night.
Others would like to believe that the purported
retraction of Rizal was invented by the friars to deflect the
heroism of Rizal which was centered on the friar abuses.
Incidentally, Fr. Pio Pi, who copied verbatim Rizal’s
retraction, also figured prominently during the revolution.
It was him, Andres Bonifacio reported, who had intimated
language, and a simple conversation can be considered forms
of traditional media. Moreover, it remains to be a reliable
platform for relaying information and knowledge to humans
across territorial divides. Except for telegram and telephone,
traditional media tends to be one-directional. It facilitates a
one-way communication where the person on the receiving
end cannot respond or give real-time feedback on the
information or message relayed to him or her.
Meanwhile, new media are a means of mass communication
that rely on or use computer technology as the platform.
Feedback from the recipient to the creator of the message or
CONTEMP information is minimal, if not inexistent. These are blogs, vlogs,
social media, email, websites, chatrooms, etc. New media’s
GLOBAL MEDIA advantage over traditional media is its flexibility; it is more
Globalization is not only economical, wherein the flow of accessible than traditional media. It allows individuals to be
goods, capital, exchange of commodities, trade, and others are involved in a communicative process to give feedback to each
conducted on a scale that involves a highly interconnected, other’s opinions, information, or messages in real-time, as
integrated, and interdependent world. However, aside from evidenced by our use of mobile phones, chat rooms, social
this, this process also involves a cultural aspect involving the media, etc. In addition to allowing two-way communication,
flow of ideas, people, practices, knowledge, and culture. This is new media bypasses communication time-space dimensions
achieved through the development and use of technologies more conveniently than traditional media. At present, we can
across international boundaries. communicate with our relatives or friends from other parts of
the world in different time zones in real-time, thereby enabling
We can communicate by appealing to each one’s different connectivity that traditional media was unable to attain. Media
senses, such as the sense of smell, sight, hearing, taste, and scholars also argue that media enables communication and
touch. Predominantly, we relay our messages or ideas through allows for practice or culture to be transferred or practiced by
our sense of sight or hearing. Society has become increasingly other groups. The information, content, knowledge, and
complex, thereby making direct communication an increasingly messages carried through media alter the traditional
complicated matter. The majority of Filipinos at least have one understanding of people’s culture, ways of life, and beliefs to
relative or knows someone who is an overseas Filipino worker. integrate new and different ways of life of other groups of
We cannot visit them where they choose to work, but we want people. With continuous exposure to various aspects of the
to communicate with them consistently. Before the Internet was social existence of other groups, it becomes increasingly
invented, relatives of OFWs communicated with their loved familiar and integrated into their ways of life. This phenomenon
ones through postal mail, voice tapes, long-distance telephone shrinks the vast and diverse groups of people in different parts
calls, or telegram. of the world into groups sharing similar identities and practices.
Sexual Development is a lifelong process that starts at the The Cycles of the Human Sexual Response
moment of conception (Tsiaras, 2016). It is a part of human
development. 1. Excitement (desire/arousal) - a sudden increase in
3 Reasons Why an Individual's Sex Is Important in Life- blood pressure, pulse, and increased blood supply to
long Development the surface of the body resulting in increased
temperature
1. Develop attitude and behavior patterns
2. Plateau may feel physical and emotional excitement
2. Learning Experience
and have physical sensations of sensitivity, warmth,
3. Parent's attitudes and significant others and even appear flushed.
Freud's Psychosexual Stages of Development 3. Orgasm - is a feeling of intense pleasure that happens
during sexual activity. It's sometimes called coming or
climaxing. (What is an orgasm? , n.d.)
“Homosexuality is a romantic and/or sexual attraction Artificial methods are diverse methods of contraception to
between members of the same sex.” (Chapter_7_- prevent a woman's conception. Artificial contracept ion
_Sexual_Self_with_Gender_and_sexuality_(1).pdf, depends on the individual's health status, age, sexual activity,
n.d.) Bisexuals are those who can be romantically or sexually and/or the number of sexual partners. Samples of artificial
attracted to the same sex and the other sex. Some male methods are oral contraceptives, transdermal patch, vaginal
homosexuals prefer the term "gay," and some female ring, subdermal implants, hormonal injection, intrauterine
homosexuals prefer the term "Lesbian." device (IUD), chemical barriers, diaphragm and cervical cap,
male and female condoms, etc.
Transsexuality
These are people who believe that they were born with
the body of the other gender. Transsexuals sometimes seek
sex-change operations, which undergo several steps such as
intensive sexual counseling, hormone injections, living as a
member of desired sex for several years, surgery.
NATURAL & ARTIFICIAL METHODS OF CONTRACEPTION
Natural Contraception
This is a classification of birth control types that depend
on observations on a woman's body through monitoring and
recording different fertility signals during her menstrual cycle.
Though there are different methods, one may predict when a
woman will be more likely to get pregnant. Natural
contraceptives may be through abstinence, calendar method,
symptothermal method, ovulation detection, lactation
amenorrhea method, and coitus interrupt us. (Chapter_7_-
_Sexual_Self_with_Gender_and_sexuality_(1).pdf, n.d.)
Sexual Disorders
disorder causes significant distress, substantially
Paraphilia is a frequent, intense, sexually arousing interferes with daily functioning, harms another person, or
fantasies or behaviors that involve inanimate objects, involves someone who has not given consent.
children, or non-consenting adults, or suffering or
humiliation of oneself or the partner.