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P R IN C E T O N NE W 'E R S E Y
P R E S E NT E D B Y
Ru f us H . L e F e vr e
B W EW ‘ ’
PRE FAC E .
TH E SE d el i ve r ed a t the re q u es t of the
l ec tu r es ,
F a c u l t y of U ni o n B i b l i c a l S em ina ry D ay t o n O hi o , , ,
of t he ir be i n g prese n ted t o t h e p u bl ic B ut a ft e r .
t hey ha d b e e n del i ve r ed a r eq u es t c am e fr o m t he
,
S em i n ar y t ha t t he ir c o nt e nt s m i ght b e p ut int o
perma n e nt fo r m a n d g i v e n a l a rger h ea ri n g .
be in g l e ft as o ri g inally del i ve r ed .
pa r ed in t he m i ds t of th e ev er p r ess in g d uti e s of a -
Re v I L B ookw a l t e r un de r th e tit le
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T he F a mi ly ,
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S c hool an d p u bl i s h ed from ti me t o ti me i n th e
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L B O O 'WA L TE
. R .
DA YT O N , O HIO , A u g us t , 1894 .
C O NTE NTS .
P R E F A CE
I NT RO D U C T O N
I
CH AP TE R I .
F I R ST L E CTUR E — TH E F A M I LY AS A N I N S T IT UT I O N .
D ut y o f M i ni s ters —O ri g i n O f t h e Fa m i l y — D ivers e
V ie ws C hri s tia n ie
V w — M arri a g e — I t s B a i
s s —Typ e s
o f Fa m i ly L i f e — G ree k s Rom a n s H e b re w s —C h ri st s
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Te ac h i ng — C e l i b ac y — Th e F a m i ly t h e Fou n d ati o n O f
t h e S o c ial O rd er —P eri l s T h re a te n i n g th e H o m e
T eachi ngs of Pl at o a n d O t h ers — E ra ti c M o ve m e n t sr
CH APTE R II .
S E CO N D L E CT U R E — T H E H U S B A N D A ND WIF E A ND TH E IR
RE LA T I O N S .
Typ e F a i ly to b e C
of m o ns —
i dere d D el i cac y
o f I nter
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fere nce by t h e M i n i ster Th e M i n i s ter s Infl ue n ce ’
Th e H u s b a n d a nd W i f e — M arri a g e a U n i o n f o r L i f e
T e nd e n c y to L oos e n e s s o f t h e M a rri a ge Re l ati on
S ec u lariz atio n o f M arri ag e —Th e Re l i gi o u s C ha racter
o f M r iag e
a r — Th e C h o i c e o f a C o m p a n i o n M i 'ed
M arri a ge s P rotes ta nts and C a thol i cs — C hri s ti a ns
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a n d h
t e U n re g e n era te — S c ri p ture E 'a m pl e s a n d
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C ON T EN TS
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P AG I
T e hi g
ac F a m i l ie s
n s ith I rre l i gi o us M e m b ers
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W i s e a n d U n w i s e M arri a g e O f M i n i s ters — E qu a l ity
o f H u s b an d a n d W i f e — T h e H u s b a n d t h e N o m i n a l
H ea d o f t h e Fa m i ly —H u s ban d a nd W i f e S h o u ld
S h a re D uti es Sac ri fi c e s Re s p o ns ib i l ities a n d C o u ns els
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— Pa re n t ag e — S i ns A ga i ns t Pa re n tag e — N e c es s ity O f
t e P re s erv ti o
h a n O f t e F
h a m i l y
— Th e F am i ly t h e
S o u r c e o f t e C hurc
h h — Th e P rote c tio n o f L a w
Th e L a w o f G o d to b e Ob s erve d
CH AP TE R I I I .
TH I R D L E CT U RE —T H E RE LA T I O N B ETWEE N P A REN TS A ND
C HI L D REN
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T e C hi ld M a k e s t h e M a n — Th e I n fl ue nc e o f t h e H o m e
n h h —
u p o t e C i ld I n c reas e d A tte n tio n No w G ive n to
C h i ld re n L iterature O f t h e S u bj e c t —Th e M i n i s ter s
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th e C h i ld N e c e ss a r y — S c ri p ture T e a c hi n g — C hri s ti a n
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N urture a Re l i g i o u s D uty Pre p a rati o n O f th e M i n i s
ter to G ive I ns tru c ti o n u p o n th e S ubj e c t — A F e w
B o o k s M e n ti o n e d —B o o k s S h o u ld b e Pl a c e d i n t h e
H a n d s o f Paren t s M i n i s ters S h o u ld b e E ' a m pl e s i n
G oo d H o e G ver e t Th e Pl a n o f G o d —N ota
m o n m n —
bl e E 'a m pl es O f t h e T ra i n i n g o f P i o u s Pa ren ts
R e l i g i o u s H o m e s t h e S o urc e O f Po w er a n d t h e
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C H A PT E R IV .
W O R D S TO P A REN TS .
pe c ifi c I nstru ctio ns n o t N ee d e d a s M u c h a s a D ee p
S e nse o f D ut y —M a terial C o m fo r t n o t S u ffi c ie nt
A tte nti o n t o C hara cter N e c e ss a r y —O rd er E ss e ntial
T rue M eth o d o f G o vern m e n t — R u l i ng by A utho r ity
F u ndam e nta l —H O W t o Mai ntai n A uth o rit y — P un
C O N T EN T S V
P A GI
ati on O f Am eri ca
A PPE N D I ' .
TH E F A M I LY S CH O O L .
A NE W M O V E M EN T N EE D E D
FA L S E M E T H O D S O F S E CU R I N G O B ED I EN CE
TH E D U T Y O F M I N I ST ER S
S E L F DEN I A L
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L I TT L E T H I N G S
A G O O D M O T H ER
INTRO DUC TIO N .
wh i ch the o t he rs m u s t b ui ld t h e s u bj e c ts w ith
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firs t o rda i n ed ha s t he c a r e O f t h e p h ys i c al t he m en
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has the c o ntr a c t o n ly fo r o n e t h e S p i r i t u al a n d
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viii I N TR O D U C TI ON
H ow Jes u s t he grea t t e ac he r t o u c hed a n d u p
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ga rd O f mo ral bea ut y w he n s h e w as yo u n g a n d
i mp ressi ble ' T he fr uit i s b itt er n o t less be c a u se ,
G o d s o r de r s e t a t nau gh t t e l ls t he story
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T h i s b oo k wi ll be a n in sp ir a ti o n to fa t hers ,
o n del i c ate po i n t s of th e s u bj e c t .
T he a uth o r by n at ur e a n d g r a c e by t h e h om e
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hi s ow n ho u se by h is e x per i e n c e a n d s u cc ess as a
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p ubl ic t ea c he r i s fi tt ed t o S peak o n th i s t oo m u c h
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s ymm et ry an d ex p e r i e n c e
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G A F UN 'HOUSE R . . .
UN O N B
I A S MN
IB L IC L E I A R Y,
D A N O O A g t 1894
YT O , HI , u us , .
THE FAMILY,
C H AP T E R I
F I R ST LE C T UR E — TH E F A M I L Y AS I N S TIT U TI ON .
_M Y D E A R B RO T H ER : I t h as b ee n a l o ng cherishe d d e s ire
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or D ut y o f Parents to Their Chi ldre n F or
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a n d m o s t b e n efi c ial to t h e s tu d e nt s .
Y o urs tru ly ,
G . A F U N 'H O U S ER
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10 T HE F A M I LY
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Of the home O f family government and train
ing — is seen in clearer light and very probably ,
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tensibly not o such direct l y
r — w ere even every
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directly through those w ho a r e them s elves to
b e the i nstr u ctor s o f parents an d w h o are b y
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where is i nter est real interest in the su bj ect The .
hus b and and wife parents and chi l dren and of its
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I nstitu tion wi l l be our topic this morning E ven .
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H istorical and S ocial S tudy state the whole ques ,
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said in interpretation and expansion of M oses
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p u t asunder Thus
. are marriage and the family
o f d ivine appointment and n ot the creation of ,
experience .
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to his wife : and they twain S hall be o ne fl esh .
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ter of the hus b and and wi fe The race might .
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d ivine institution the truth that it is such o r in ,
m on ,
the family w as debased parentage dis ,
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Christ s time had disappeared But withal .
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a community o f —
material goods but because the ,
d omestic li fe .
d estructive of it .
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We have seen that marriage the constancy ,
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ruins anot her suppose d to be made ' a ll done
within a month ' A n d a s I have stated the ,
o f the fami l y .
C H AP T E R II .
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S E C ON D LE C T U RE T H E H U SB AND A ND WI FE A ND
TH E I R RELA TI O N S .
Institution .
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We g l anced at its origin ( d ivine
origin ' its fundamental basis ( marriage '
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touched upon its history noted its relatio n to the
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mem b ers o f the family what should we p l ace a s
the proper fulfi l ling of their re l ations ' Upon
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that are ot C hristian po l ished b ut n ot pious , .
says : “
The nature O f the marriage state does
not admit o f its being the su bj ect o f e x perimenta l
and temporary arrangements and fl eeting part
n er s hi ps .The union i s and Should b e f or l ife
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ought to be so in ou r own country .
as ministers .
conception “
. I t does n ot in the least recognize
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any peculiarly sacred character in the institution .
time j oyous .
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d o with people s courtships say you
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either pro , ,
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riage . H e is simp l y to be a faithful overseer of
his fl ock j ealous l y watching over their Spiritua l
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a Christian “
Be ye not unequally yoked to
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gether with un b elievers .
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S hall it go with father o r with mother — b e C ath
olic o r P rotestant ' I f promi s es were made at
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take a wi fe of the daughters o f Canaan but of ,
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Canaan N either shalt thou make marriag es
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s on Joshua in his dying coun ,
( Josh 2 3
. 1 2 The reason
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for this singular
and di fficult regulation is given in the fourth
verse of D eut 7 : F o r they will turn away thy
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go d s . H ere is wel l stated a great princi ple as ,
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the L ord as s ays P au l ( I Co r 7 :
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y o k ed together with unbe l ievers etc P aul had ,
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tu d es of b elievers in o u r day not only is b eing
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unequal an d very unfortunate marriage
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tw ai n shall be one .
TH E F AM I L Y
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family to its high ends ought n ot to marry , .
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less but which must be named the destruction
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sin . O ne of our writers upon this su bj ect asks ,
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M ust it always remain true that in A merica
wea l th and prosperity of the fami l y put a pre
mium upon its decay
I have neither time nor disposition to d well upon
the diverse methods o r to weigh the supposed
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wor k s as E thics O f M arriage b y H S P omeroy
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MD . In the closing sentences of D r D uryea s
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P AREN T S AND C H I LDREN 53
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dren s bands and other like agencies
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on Chi l d Training-
O f the earlier works that
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ture H orace Bushne l l well says This subj ect is
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Thus it becomes the minister s duty and privi
lege to take an interest direct and practical in the
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and in my younger days gave the parents o f
my flock full and frequent instructions how to
rule their households and train children ; but
since I ve severa l o f my own my inclination and
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ability along that line seem to have declined .
O n e has said : “
TO be fed and clothed are among
the minor rights which children may demand of
parents .I t is their right to learn from their
parents both by precept and e x ample those prin
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c i pl es o f truth o f honor
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o f personal purity in
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W hy not s a y the y l et the chi l d have his o w n
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sons sons ;
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that they may teach their chil
dren ( D eut 4 : 9 . A nd these words ,
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wi l l n ot depart from it ( P rov 2 2 : “
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command and teach .
PA R EN TS AND C H I L DREN 61
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haps entirely new to make their homes really
orderly and Christian .
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stu dy it as set forth in the Bible as laid before
God s people by the H oly S pirit This will open
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indeed Then read the abl e b ooks now growing
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at H ome by R ev John S C A bbott
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Gentle M easures in the M anagement Of the
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Y oung by Jacob Abb ott
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Christian “
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Go d s providence he has become the head o f a
household may be able to j oin with the wife and
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ensamples to the flock we see the i m m eas ur,
PA R EN TS AND C H I LD R EN 65
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66 THE F AM I LY
The great general fact back o f all and that ,
fi tn ess o f things
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f o r w e can s ee that it is fit and
mothers .
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L uther s pious mother gave the stamp to his
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life N ote the mother s we ll known influence in
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influence directed by a pious mother said VVa s h
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i ng ton “
is the source Of my success
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John .
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j udicious training of my parents .
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mother .
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I stand before y ou t o night to d eclare that i f I
h ave ever accomp l ished anything in the world if ,
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through the influence of that mother .
an d force does Sh a i r p s ay “
Co ll ege learning is
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learned in chi l dhood at his mother s kn e e ’
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It is to thoroughly good and righteou s family
life that the church must look f o r it s gr eatest
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e l ement o f strength To e x alt this fact in the
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W O RDS TO PAREN T S .
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nize the d uty and j oy ful l y give their l ives to its
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performance of provi d ing to the best Of their ,
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says respecting this point : I t is a parent s privi
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lege and it is a parent s duty to make his
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so,
a parent s mission would be sadly limited in
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work for his chi ld ren .
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and where fores o f even the wisest requirements .
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means honor and Obedience '
S uch is the
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be a man who ruleth we l l his o w n house and
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g eneral ,
i t should not b e done by harsh or severe
methods Gentle measures natural measures are
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but the i ncidental one the very last resort .
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Child in A nger It is one o f the most timely
and valuable chapters in his excellent book .
o t t
u i — no true fulfilling o f the d uties of parents
or of children L ove is n ot on l y the greatest “
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thing in the world but it is the very life and
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the parent begets love in the child and the child s ,
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tro ll ing force with both M r H opkinson S mith
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wrote to fathers : “
O pen your heart and your
arms wide for your daughters and keep them ,
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Open ; don t l eave all that to their mothers A n .
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D on t look at him from th e second story win dow -
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of your fatherly superiority and e x ample M an y .
80 T HE FAM I L Y
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parent s must
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The poor little creature is never
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to a nagging habit There is constant danger
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where let the chi l d s individuality be recognized
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should even indulge the child s desires when they
are of an innocent kind and have no harm ful
tendencies P roper indulgence is not at all in
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82 TH E F A M I LY
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but they are a l so taught sel f taught i n the -
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no t your children to wrath .
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against the home s best good In such cases the .
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attendance at the services o f God s house ob ser v ,
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ance o the L ord s day i f these conditions are
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o w n children
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. A nd s o do we come b ack to the
general truth the momentous truth the truth
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The P arents A ssociation of A merica I ts ob .
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To aff ord to parents Opportunities for coopera
90 TH E FA MI LY
a ll .
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To assist parents to understan d the b est prin
ci pl es and methods o f education in a l l its aspects ,
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To secure greater unity and continuity of
education by harmonizi ng hom e and school
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training etc ,
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TH E F A M IL Y S C HO O L .
B Y RE V . I L
. . B OO 'WA L T ER .
I . A NE W MO V EM E N T N E EDED .
a n d th o u ght fu l me n ha ve g iven it as th e i r j u dg
ment t h a t mo re c a n be do n e by p ar e nts a t h o m e in ,
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92 T HE FAM I LY
d r e n fr om t he fi r s t t o t he seve n th or e i ghth y ear t o ,
secur ed O f t h e i mpo rt a n c e of t h i s s u bj e c t an d t h e
, ,
gre at nu mber of d iv o rc es t he fr eq u e nt o ut b ur s t s
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j ec t an d r e c o m me n d in g t h e sa me as t op ics fo r c o n
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ve n t i o n s ser mo ns an d l ectures
, , S ur ely t h e alarm
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S o a l s o in almos t e ve r y l in e of b u s iness an d ,
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p r e c ep t u po n p r e c ep t unti l t h e Chr i s ti a n c o n
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s oci ety .
II . FALSE ME T HODS OF SE C U RI NG O B ED I EN C E .
o f the c h i ld r e n c an n o t be se c ur ed by lov e an d m i ld
m e ans th e n t he d i v ine o r der sho u ld as far a s
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i s h n es s is bo un d in t he hea rt of a c h i ld ; b ut t h e
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r od of c o rrecti o n s ha ll d riv e it far from h i m To .
in a b ur s t of an ge r g iv e s th e c h i ld an unm e rci fu l
blo w ( perhaps upon the he ad ' a n d thus the ,
all t h r o u gh l i fe .
and I c a n n o t tru s t yo u a n y m o re T hu s th e p a r .
new hat o r s o m e c a n dy
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I was o n c e in a C hri s ti a n
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w ants yo u t o do it b ut h e w o u ld n o t do it S h e .
fel t s o m ewha t d i s c o n c e rt ed S he n o w t r i ed a n o th e r
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dev i c e S he s ai d Joh n n y i f yo u w i ll do it I
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w i ll b u y yo u a ni c e sti c k of c a n dy Joh n n y n o w .
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e y e an d sa i d t o hi s mo t he r I f y ou w i ll b u y m e
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two stic k s of can dy I w i ll do it S he p ar l e y e d .
i t w i ll be in h i m n e ver t o d o a k in d act t o a n y
o n e un les s he sees in it a t t he same ti me s om et h i n g
t ha t w i ll be n efi t h i m s el f
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m is c h ie f to t he futur e l i fe a n d c h a ra ct e r O f t he
c h i ldr en C h ee r fu l an d h a ppy O bed i e n c e by t he
.
c h i ld r e n t o t he ir pare n t s S ho u ld be re n dered ,
ve r y l o v e a n d pa rent al c ar e fo r t h e m It is all .
III . TH E DU T Y OF M I N I S T E RS .
p e n a n d from t he p u lp it a bo ut th e foll
,
o w i n g
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apology i s ge n e rally made : W ell it I s a del icat e ,
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m atter t o m e ddl e with the l itt le d uti es an d dom es
t i c a ff a ir s of t h e fam i ly B esi de s b ut few of us .
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t he r e t o rt P hy si c i a n he a l th yself an d Y o u
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r epro v e r eb u ke e x ho rt w ith a ll lo n g s u ff er in g
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a n d do ct r i n e I f t he above e x c u ses are val i d
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m i ght h a ve sa i d O my L ord it do e s n o t be c om e
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grew so sh ar p th a t we c o u ld n o lo n ge r wo r k
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t oge t he r b ut ha d t o s ep arat e
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P e t er s c as e i s .
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a n d o n t hem t ha t a re o ut of t he w a y ; fo r th a t h e
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able w o rshi p J esus says . I f thy r i ght han d ,
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O ff e n d th e e cut it o ff a n d cast it fr o m thee an d
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I f an y m a n wi ll come aft er me le t him d en y ,
1 00 TH E F A MILY
himse l f and take up his cr o ss d ai ly a n d follo w
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me . It is a fear fu l fa ct th a t by Si n the human
fami ly has b ec o m e invo l ve d in an a wfu l state
of dep r av it y w hich sh o ws itse lf ev er yw h e re in
,
t o e v e r y mo ther a t th e b irth Of ev e ry c h i ld T a k e
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of a n d t ra in th e c hi ld r e n in the i g n o ra n c e an d
h elpless n ess of in fan c y B ut ho w much i g n o rance .
pa r e nts .
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D r T ru mb u ll s ay s
. A s a ma tt e r of fa ct th e
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T hey ha ve n o t t he w is do m a n d c o u rage to c ar r y
t h i s ma tt e r t hro u gh t o s u c c ess ; for they i mag i n e
t ha t t o le t a c h i l d the firs t t wo or t hree ye a r s of it s
,
m u c h w hi pp i n g ye t a n o c c as i o n al u se of t he r od
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m a y b e n e c essary . H e t ha t spa r e t h his r e d hate th
h is s o n : b ut he t h at loveth hi m c h as ten e t h h i m
be ti mes P are n t s S ho u ld g i ve c o n st a n t a n d care
fu l a t te n t i o n to t he l it tle t h i n gs a t home a n d n e v e r ,
s a d thin gs o c c u r alo n g t h i s l in e I on c e k n ew a.
d i ed A n d t he par e n t s ha d th e b itt e r r efl e c ti o n
.
i n hi s w a y t ha t t he c o n fere nce o ft e n ha d tr o u bl e
,
m an y unp l e a s a nt t h i n gs t o e n d ur e T he c h i ef .
spoke o f hi m in h i s pr es e n c e as t he s m ar t es t of
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W ise t ra i n i n g c a n s e c ur e i t M a n y a m an s l i fe i s
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m a de s a d th ro u gh h is h opeles s l a c k of th a t self
c o ntr ol t o w h ich h e c ou ld have be en h elped in
chi ldhood i f o n ly hi s pa r e n t s h ad underst ood his
,
'
n eeds a n d be en fa it hfu l acc o rd in gly
,
.
F ro m W ha t ha s bee n s ai d we lea rn th a t th e e as y
,
I m yself sho u ld be a c as t aw a y -
.
V . L ITT LE T H I NG S .
It is th e l itt le thin gs of hu ma n l i fe a n d of t h e
fa m i ly that are most l i kely t o es c ape th e att e nti o n
O f pare n t s altho u gh th ey ar e O f v as t i mpo rt a n c e
, .
, ,
is la n d in th e o c ea n u po n wh i c h grea t c iti e s ar e
b ui lt T he l itt le d r ops of wa t e r th a t fall u po n th e
.
s t reams a n d th e se c o n v er ge a n d fo r m th e m i gh t y
,
r i ve r s u po n w hi ch flo ats the c o m me rc e of t h e
w orld . S o also t he S p irit an d l itt le a c ts of th e
, ,
pare n t s in t h e h ome l i fe wi ll e x e rt a de c i s i v e
i n fl u e n c e u po n th e c hara c t e r of t he ir chi ldre n ,
n ot i c e is t ake n O f it w i th t he remark : O h t h i s is
,
“
,
s u c h a l it tle t h i n g a n d t he c hi ld i s so yo u n g tha t
, ,
it do n t ma t t er or amo u n t t o a n y t h i n g L e t t h e
’
.
g r ea t trut h of God a n d o ur a c c o u n t ab i l i ty t o h i m ,
a n d of wha t is d u ty c a n be t a u gh t in Si mple
,
B y th e c ar efu l t ea c h i n g a n d e a r n e st prayers O f
my mo t her before I wa s seve n ye a rs O l d a deep
,
r i gh t a n d w r o n g of G od of h eave n of hell of a
, , , ,
T ho u gh I delayed a lo n g t i m e ye t at t he age of
,
t we nt y on e I w a s c o n ver t ed a n d bega n t o le a d a
-
n e w l i fe .
t he pr in c i pl es of ho n e st y a n d t r ut hfu l n e ss sho u ld
be c arefu lly ta u gh t bo t h by pre c ept a n d e x ample
, ,
me n an d wo m e n w o rt hy of t r u s t in an y position
t o w hi c h t hey m a y be c alled .
t o th e a ge a n d s tr e n g th O f t he c h i ld bo th o f t h e ,
st ro n g m u s c les an d a v i go r o us v irtu o us mi n d an d
, ,
he a r t I k n o w it is sa i d th a t all work an d n o
.
“
makes J ac k a l az y ra s c al A n d t h e world i s fu ll of
.
“
t o se t as i de God s a n c i e nt de cr ee In th e swea t of
’
,
t hy fa c e s h a l t th e n ea t b r ead An d w h oe v er tri es
t o ge t b r ead o ther w is e wi ll fi n d t ha t d i sas t e r w i ll
c o m e in s o m ew h er e a n d at some ti me ,
E m pl o y .
k i t ch e n in th e s h op or i n t he stor e ca n be m ade a
, , ,
a n d a l a v ish w a y of s p en d i n g m o ne y fo r a n y
i s h ri val r y ma n y p a re n ts in t he ma tt e r o f c o st ly
, ,
t h i s g r e at wr o n g with o ut an y th o u gh t O f w h at an
e n dle ss l e gac y o f futur e s orr o w an d d i s tre ss th ey
ar e lay in g u p fo r t he ir lo v ed o n es T o remedy .
VI . A G OOD MOT H E R .
o r i e s t o t he p u bl i c .
M y m o th e r s m aiden na me wa s E l i z abe t h L an d is
’
.
m embe r O f th e M e nn o n it e C hu r ch a ve r y h o n es t , ,
u na ss u m in g p i o u s C h r i s ti a n ma n b enevo le n t in
, , ,
“ '
S pirit O ft e n h av in g
,
b i g mee ti ngs a t his h o use .
f o un de r O f th e c h u r c h of t he E va n gel i c al A sso c ia
ti o n . D urin g his labors amo n g t he sp iritually
dead chur ch e s a g r ea t a n d ge n ui n e rev i val of r el i
,
b ri gh t in th e S p i r it of S a i n t P au l made an o th e r
, ,
p as t o r al v i s it s c am e
,
t o th e ir h o u se M y fa t h e r .
u po n h e r in a ver y ea rn es t ma n n e r a n d sa i d , ,
“
W i ll yo u do thi s : whe n yo ur h u sb a n d c ome s
h ome t ell hi m o f t he c o nver s ati o n w e h ave had
, ,
do so T h o u gh my fa th e r w a s n o t at that ti me a
.
a n d c h e er fu lly c o n se n t ed t o h e r r eq uest ; an d
aft e r t ha t fam i ly prayer was a perma n e nt i n s ti t u
ti o n i n o u r home M y mo t her was a very m o de st
.
,
wo u ld s i n g a l i t t le Ge r ma n hym n a n d t he n k n eel ,
d ow n a n d pray This s h e wo u ld do n o ma tt e r
.
,
ple we r e subj e c t t o ma n y p ri va ti o n s a n d m u ch
h ar dsh i p V ery few l uxuri es or eve n c o m fo rts
.
, ,
w a s kep t u p u n i n terr u pt e d l y I do n o t c la i m t ha t
.
a n d t au ght u s t o p ra y S he was k in d a n d a ff ec
.
t i o n a t e ye t firm a n d labored t o r e c e i ve o ur a tt e n
, ,
c ame t o o ur ho u se we n t aw a y emp t y M y fa t he r .
in 1 8 38 .
—
T h ere w e r e nine c hi ld r e n fi ve boy s an d fo ur
g i rl s S eve n of them have a l r eady c rossed the
.
a r e a ll s a ve d an d happy in h ea v e n NO do u b t t h i s .
r es u l t is l ar gely d u e t o mo t he r s p ra ye rs c o u rage
’
, ,
T h es e circumstanc es O f lo n g a g e ca n n ev er b e
forgo tt e n T h ou g h I am n ow beyo n d t hrees c or e
.
yea r s an d t e n ye t the y a re as vi v i d in my m i n d
, ,
d ut y be n o t n egle ct ed .
le arn ed woma n as a w i fe a n d mo t he r c a n do i f s h e ,
wi ll in h er r e tir ed sp h ere to br i n g ab un da nt an d
,
t he ho u sehold of c h i ld r e n a n d br i n g t hem u p in
,