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MarriageandParenthoodtheCatholicIdeal 10000035
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IN STITUTI ON AN D PURPOSE
CHOI CE OF A M ATE
M I' ED MARRIAGES
B E TWEEN H USB AND AND WIFE
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I NTRODUCTION
A MAN t h i nk s he is very clever i f he c an ma k e an
a éroplane Th é u s a n ds O f other men thi nk he is
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My experience shows m e that members
O f the Roman Catholic Church seldom come to
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sive Protestants said Yes
. Roman C a t holics
said N He could not re c all a single Protes
tant exception .
it s doo m is sealed .
T HOMAS J G ERRARD . .
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Fea r: of tin Nati vi ty, 1 9 m .
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shall be two in one flesh Having been thus.
All this poi nts to the fact that the marriage bond
is a law o f nature It is a mutual agreement by
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be two in one flesh Moses had taken into con
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bands says St Paul love your w ives a s C hrist
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God s minister confers on the man those soul
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en d for which marriage was institute d was a mos t
di fficult end to attain Indeed it were an im p os
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But if thou take a wife says St Paul
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tion o f the flesh . Those who enter this state ,
er g y the refreshment
, and the love needful t o
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Both a re equally con de mn ed by th e Ch r i stia n
law .
st a ted above .
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asunder .Here on the threshold o f the questio n
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come to pass .
CHOI CE OF A STAT E
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and he that giveth her not doeth better .
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him good .
can l i ve .
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better to marry than to burn And it is best of
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. It were better therefore to marry even with ,
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Redempti o n draws a fin e picture o f a young
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C HOI C E O F A M AT E
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t el lect in the man cannot make a woman s face
CHOICE OF A MATE 45
aspe ct .
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ments entered into without deliber a ti on a n d under ,
t o the confessor .
t o do so .
CHOICE OF A MATE 5 1
O f her people .
his wife and insure for her that resp ect care
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C HOICE OF A MATE 55
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The great principle to be kept before one s
mind therefore in the choice O f a mate is that
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M I' ED M ARRIAGE S
all beauti ful The ideal which she sets before her
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My lord he said the creature you gave me
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s in c e I returned this creature .
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My lord , he said I do n o t kn ow ho w i t is
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7 o M ARRIAGE AN D PA RENTH O OD
b utsomehow the wom a n gives me more annoyance
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than ple a sure I beg o f you to take her a way
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best he said
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Husbands love your wives The Apostle is
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intellige nc e .
u lt i e s
, t h e faculty o f loving and the faculty o f
thi nk i ng is not s o great as has been frequently
,
in the crafts .
a n d a tt en t i o n a f
fe ct hi s wife s feelings to w ard
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a ffectionate .
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Wives be obedient to your husbands in the
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Lord . Like all other social movements the ,
the husband .
CO NJ U GAL RE STRAINT
which m ake the marri age act lawful and holy The .
your incontinency .
g a t o r
y restrai n t has been practiced .
o f intense ,
strong love The marriage bon d is
.
by anticipation .
child .
ea sy to nurse .
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t reat m ent of t h s and s m l a r q u est on s i i i i
i s fo u n d n t he
followi ng boo ks , b bi
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B EFOR E AN D AFT ER C HILD B IRTH I OI
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s i c i a n,
but not the p riest m ust pour water '
, steril
when necessary .
g iv e i n t h e c a s e of dangerous c h ildbirth Sh e .
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c ept she says the sacri fice of a broken heart
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B ut , ev er y day t h at goes
B efore the gazer , n ew M adon nas r i se.
i s h ed by their o ffspring .
taking in marriage .
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This natural law moreover has in the m ean
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p leasure or forgetfulness .
c h i ldren both for this world and for the next The .
o r h ars hn es s .
the family ' Who has not observed the ugly self
c onsciousness pride a n d vani t y o f two children
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eve r y l ine In all sta g e s o f s o cie ty t h e work o f
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d e c adence .
side Himself .
greater glo r y of G od .
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tell h im he must n t The habit tends only to
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PARENTS AN D CHILDREN
parents .
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A parent s rights come before a neighbor s ’
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thy G od wi ll g ive thee .
eth the Lord hono r eth his p arents and will serve
them as his masters that brought him i nto the ,
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world .From the inward habit of mind and a ffec
tion there will flow forth the external reverence
of words and deeds .
end .
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dren says St Paul
, obey y our parents in the
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religious '
We are here dealing with what is called a voca
tion Now a vocation is a call from G od It is
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blessing
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Yes . All right minded parents and teachers
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discreet .
desirable thing .
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To put sexual images into a child s mind before
due time i s to start a ten d ency towar ds precocity
and moral d epravity The a rrival o f a new baby
.
a l luri ng .
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No ' When the right m om ent has arrived ,
impur ity .
CATHO LI C ED U CATION
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is kn o wn as method in educ ation has made
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ful fill its mis s ion it must aim at pro ficiency in the
natural a s well a s the supernatu ral in the natural ,
religion.
out h i s own will the ruling body has only the right
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a m ount of freedom It i s the head teacher of the
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school subj e cts with ex tras according to the
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have their place and so has th e doll and the doll s
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kingdom o f G od .
e nt s consideration
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may arise in which case it is th e parents du t y
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work o f parents .
TH E CATHO L I C FAM I LY
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M a ry The time at length comes when the child
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C atholic .
visitors .
e r en t i a l fear
, a fear by which one is afraid o f
o ffending love rather than a fear by which on e
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their parents .
when the parents are ove rtaken with old age the ,
foot.
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The fat h er o f the Catholic fa m ily therefore must , ,