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Expressing yourself assertively is a core skill that everyone needs to learn. Being
assertive can help you express yourself effectively, taking actions using nonverbal skills and
standing up for your point of view. These 20 assertive communication exercises and activities
can help your students improve their assertive communication skills and be heard without
being aggressive or dismissive.
1. Practice Active Listening
By teaching a student to listen actively, you are teaching them to show mutual respect to the
speaker and foster other social skills that they need in order to give an assertive response.
Your students can practice these skills with a friend. Give each person a standpoint and
remind them to maintain eye contact and remain calm throughout.
2. Model Behavior
One of the first things to teach when teaching students assertive communication is teaching
them appropriate assertive behaviors like saying no, standing their ground, and talking about
their feelings. A great way to teach these behaviors is by modeling.
3. Play ‘Mystery Bag’
This fun game is a simple way to teach students to have confidence in themselves and their
guesses. Place a few mystery items in a bag and let students guess what’s in it. They need to
share what they think and then explain why they think it’s a certain item.
Find five small objects to put in a bag (draw string
bags work well since you can make the opening fit
just over your child’s arm so they cannot see
inside). Have your child choose one object, feel it
in their hand without taking it out of the bag, and
have a guess at what it is. Then take it out to see
what it is. Encourage them for guessing! Let your
child find objects and have you guess. Discuss
how it takes courage to try something new and have a go at something. It’s great if
you can focus on having fun, and not let your nerves about the situation prevent you
from enjoying yourself.
4. Role Play
Role Play is one of the best ways to teach assertive communication. You can assign roles to
different students and talk them through how to best assert themselves when communicating
with the other person.
Role play being friendly by meeting a new person.
Role play meeting a new friend by introducing your students to a puppet ( hand
puppets, stick puppets, or craft dolls would work great). Let your students practice
introducing themselves and ask the puppet if they would like to play. You may like to
visit a playground after this activity, with each person’s goal being to meet someone
new.