INTRODUCTION

In an effort to recognize the diversity of families we define family as an arranged group,

usually related by blood or some binding factor of commonality, where individual roles and

relationships modify over time. Family relations are typically long term and generally have a

period in which common space is shared. Pearson suggests that families share similar

characteristics as they tend to be, organized, a relational transactional group, sharing a living

space for prolonged periods of time and a mixture of interpersonal images that evolve through

the exchange of meaning over time.

STATEMENT OF THE PROBLEM

Family laughs with us, cries with us, but is always ready to support us whenever we need it.

This doesn’t mean that families don’t have problems. Each family is unique and each family has

its problems and issues. But some most common family problems plague each family alike. The

most common family problems are distance, parenting disagreements, communication,

arguments and conflicts, money problems, rebellious children, and work-life balance.

RESULT AND DISCUSSION

Distance, whether of work or emotionally, can take a heavy toll on a family and put a strain

on the family relationship. If you have kids, then distance – often for an extended period – can be

challenging to bear through. Issues can also arise if you’re not keeping enough distance, too.

Spending too much time with the family can also become a problem. Every relationship, even

a happy and successful family, needs space, even if you’re a stay-at-home parent.

Every parent has a different view when it comes to raising their child. For many, how they

raise their children can come from their own childhood experiences and upbringing. If you and

your partner disagree on parenting styles then it’s a good time to talk it out. Discuss the pros and

cons and understand their views on your parenting style.

Most disagreements, fights, and arguments are caused by poor communication or lack of

communication. Adults and children all need space to explain their problems in all fairness.

Making assumptions, even in the case of a family, is not the right thing to do. A common problem

with a blended family can be a lack of communication. Having a step-parent, step-sibling can be

disconcerting at first, and openly communicating might be a problem in the beginning.

Disagreements, conflicts, and fights are a part of a family dynamic. We all are entitled to our

opinion however, arguments and conflicts can damage relationships within a family if not resolved
in time. Emotions should not get the better of you during arguments. We may say something hurtful

even without meaning to. Arguments are not a bad thing at all. They are normal but if they get out

of hand then they could be a problem.

One of the biggest stressors in any relationship can be finances. Financial stress can raise

tension and create dissonance in a family relationship. Arguments about money and money

management are common family problems that need to be addressed.

A common problem between parents and children comes when children become rebellious

and refuse to listen to their parents. From raising toddlers to teens, times can certainly be

challenging. Rebellious children can test your patience and will push all your buttons. In such

situations, remember that while you may not be able to control your children’s actions, you can

control how to teach them the consequences of their actions.

Another common family problem can be not having a healthy work-life balance. With both

sets of parents working more and more, it can create a certain problem when it comes to balancing

work and life. The need to provide for the family and the want to spend time with them can cause

an unhealthy work-life routine.

RECOMMENDATION in Short-term Solutions

Get some space for yourself. Engage in a productive hobby or do something you love. Too

much distance and/or not enough distance can put a strain on a family relationship. Instead of

focusing on the words, focus on the why of the other person’s actions and behavior. If the

disagreement is turning into a fight, call a time-out and come back to the point when you and the

others have had time to cool down.

RECOMMENDATION in Long-term Solutions

Learn to compromise if you and your partner has different parenting style. It is better to raise

your children keeping in mind both parents’ values. Explain to the family that each of them is

welcome to express their honest views. Encourage them to communicate openly and fairly. Even

parents and grandparents are entitled to their views. Cutting back on unnecessary expenses – on
either side – can also help. Financial troubles test a relationship in ways not many things do. If

you and your partner are open to solve the issues together, you can get through tough times

together. Set a positive example of how you react to your emotions. If you are dealing with

an angry teenager, then you can try listening to their grievances and discuss with them, offering

them advice only if they ask you for it. One of the best ways your child can learn is by making

mistakes. Let them. As a team, you and your partner can offer them support and help when you

see them flounder. Make time for family when it comes to family time.