CASE STUDT: 15 YEAR OLD BOY

I have two children. Elder son is studying 10 th class and younger son is studying 5th class in Vijayawada,
we are facing some problems with my elder son. Here, I am mentioning the points:

● Actually he is very intelligent student since from beginning.

● He grasp the subject while teachers explaining in the class so he didn’t spend much time for
studying. Teachers also appreciate him.
● We moved to Vijayawada six months back.

● Most of the time he wants to spend time with phone, TV and sleeping yet he is getting good
marks (Ex: 19/20, 18/20, 191/2/20)
● His attitude is changed since from three months. He is saying that I have no interest to eat, to do
any work like so.
● We asked very pleasantly what is wrong with you. After so many ytimes we asked he revealed
all.
● His classmate proposed him. After two days of thinking he is also said ok. They are
communicated each other often.
● Earlier I asked him about that girl, then he said that at that time no issues we are just having
brother sister relation later friendship and then became love.
● We can’t believe sir, because he is never Rd close to the girls since from the beginning. He said
that my friends encouraged me and if I said no then she may feel that is why he said ok.
● We guided them sir, this is not correct age for all these you are just in infatuation. Just ignore all
and concentrate on studies only. He said ok.
● We gave sometime to him to tell that girl about to cut the communication among them but he
didn’t do.
● So we went to principal mam and told everything. After listening all mam also got shock because
she also never expect this from my son. Because she had very good opinion about him.
● Mam discussed with my son and girl in the presence of their parents and us also.

● My son promised it couldn’t be repeated in future and said sorry to us and their parents. And he
promised to concentrate on studies only.
● From that day he was moody. Less talking with us and keep silence at home.

● I asked him observing. The he said it is difficult to me to forget that girl.

● I motivated him about his studies, future plans, family situations and everything. After listening
all, he said ok mom, I will listen to your words and I can study.
● Now also he is not studying sir and arguing with us for every silly reason.

● Mainly he is intentionally not taking food properly and saying I am very weak, head is roaming,
headache like this everyday while he is awaking.
● You are scolding me for small things. You are not listening my words, not giving priority to me
and my wishes like this he is saying.