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Only a Super Empath Can Destroy A Narcissist,

Here’s How!
Rajveer Singh ⋮ 10-13 minutes ⋮ 01/09/2021

In today’s article, we are going to talk about a very interesting topic, we are
going to talk about how and why can a super empath can destroy a narcissist.
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There’s nothing a narcissist loves more than an empath. What’s not to like? Their
good nature makes them willing to believe everyone is good-natured and of equal
value of the same kindness. They want to help people in need, especially those who
are vulnerable. Or, at least appear vulnerable.

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The narcissit’s perfectly crafted tragic backstory, filled with stories of them being a
victim, will make the empaths rush in to help. Their seemingly friendly and non-
judgmental nature will make an empath feel like they can confide in them, trust them
with their secrets. All of this makes them easy prey for the narcissist.

Too often, empaths who aren’t as emotionally strong get wrapped up in a narcissist’s
manipulations. Often, this happens because empaths notoriously have low self-
esteem, making them more prone to falling for a narcissist’s gaslighting and
becoming dependent on them. However, there are some empaths who are
unsusceptible to a narcissist’s tricks.

There are a few different names for these types of empaths, as researchers have yet
to coin a term for them yet. But they’re a type of empath who doesn’t meet the typical
empath profile. For the purpose of this article, we are going to refer to them as super
empaths.

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If you are an empath who feels you might have a narcissist manipulating you, and
you’re wondering if you have what it takes to destroy a narcissist’s ego, keep reading!
Because today’s great psychological topic is: How and why a super empath can
destroy a narcissist!

Before we dive in further, we’re going to go through the traits of a super empath and
how to turn your empathy into your own superpower!

Traits of a super empath: They’re sensitive to their surroundings. Attuned to other

people’s moods. Introverted. Intuitive. Easily overwhelmed or taken advantage of in
intimate relationships or friendships. Difficulty not caring about others for unselfish
reasons. Strong core-identity. Honest and frank.

Although it might seem as though all empaths are naive and easily manipulated, the
super empath doesn’t stand for it. Their honesty and frankness and self-love stump
the narcissist when their harsh cold insults used to devalue them don’t work. Super
empaths have a strong enough self-image to use their empathic powers to defeat
even the most cunning and calculated narcissists.

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Narcissists might be masters at reeling in the good-hearted, trusting, and caring

empaths. But if they mess with the wrong empath, whose traits are stronger than
others and know who they are underneath the manipulative lies, they can make any
narcissist crumble.

Remember, though, people diagnosed with a narcissistic personality disorder can

sometimes be dangerous. This doesn’t need to mean they’re violent, but they can
cause distress and harm in your life if you’re not careful. Getting revenge or being
determined to prove them wrong will only fuel the narcissist, giving them an even
more narcissistic supply. Narcissists thrive off any attention or reaction, whether it’s
positive or negative.

We here will never recommend acting in this manner for fun or to actively hurt a
narcissist, only do it to escape them. If you’re in a situation where you feel it’s
necessary, be sure to have a large support group that knows what is happening. This
is also important in case they decide to engage in a smear campaign to isolate you
from supportive people.

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You want people who love you to know that they might hear lies or your words taken
out of context to hurt you, but let them know in advance. Taking this lightly can result
in damaging consequences if you’re not careful, you never know the dark ideas they
might have in their minds.

So if you’re ready to hear how to destroy a narcissist with your empathetic powers,
let’s get started!

1. Their intuition can detect manipulations.

Empaths are very underestimated, especially super empaths. Their good-natured
personalities and tendency to be over-trusting can make them seem naïve, gullible,
or incapable of standing up for themselves.

It’s true, empaths can be naive and fall for lies because they see the best in
everyone. This might get them into a tricky situation with a narcissist because their
guards were down at the beginning. However, unlike people with lower empathy,

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they’re more intuitive and can see patterns developing much faster before they’re too
deep.

Super empaths can feel emotions and detect motives quickly. So, the moment an
empath feels maliciousness, especially when it’s so far off from their own natural
state, they know something is wrong. Normally a narcissist can’t keep their masks on
for an extended period of time and try to leave their partners dependent on them
quickly. But, the empath isn’t nearly as gullible as you might think. It might take them
a while to realize the narcissist is lying to make you swoon over them. But as soon as
their mask begins to slip, the empath catches on.

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2. They often have a core identity and high levels of

self-worth.
Super empaths have high levels of self-esteem, self-worth, and a strong sense of
identity. If you’ve ever wondered why having a good sense of self is important
because it is a bit of an abstract concept, here’s a perfect example.

Gaslighting is a common manipulation tactic used by narcissists. The term is derived

from the 1944 film titled Gaslighting and surrounds itself around a married couple.
Slowly, the wife starts believing she’s insane and loses sight of who she is.
Meanwhile, the husband is repeatedly dimming the gas lanterns and telling his wife
she’s hallucinating when she comments on the changing lights. Eventually, she’s
driven into insanity. So, how could a strong sense of identity have helped the wife in
the classic movie?

Well, if she had high self-esteem and knew exactly who she was, do you think she
would have believed she was hallucinating? She probably would have looked back
on her life and thought of all the times she hallucinated, noticing it was zero, and told
her husband to fix the lights because he’s the crazy one for not noticing.

A super empath with high self-esteem knows their worth and doesn’t forget who they
are, even when someone is telling them they’re wrong or crazy. Instead, they might
drive the narcissist crazy, sometimes making them a conquest. Their empathy makes
them perfect for giving the attention they crave and their self-esteem makes them
both, attractive, envious, and unattainable.
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3. Empaths listen carefully and remember the small

details.
Narcissists are, well, narcissistic. They tend to think that the smartest people in the
room and the only ones incapable of preserving information. It’s true, the average
person isn’t always listening to the important details. The thing with narcissists is that
they often don’t remember, or care to listen to the good details about you.

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If you bring up positive accomplishments, they’ll either ignore them or quickly devalue
them, often even pushing them out of their memory. Instead, they keep a mental
database of everything less than perfect you’ve ever done. A super empath, in
contrast, genuinely cares. When a narcissist is being vulnerable, even if their stories
are twisted with lies, an empath listens. And they remember everything. The good
and the bad.

Sure, a narcissist might use your flaws and mistakes against you to emotionally
blackmail you. But they will forget the small important details, like incorrect names or
other facts, due to not listening, which can ruin their credibility. In contrast, an empath
will remember everything the narcissist ever told them.

They will know exactly what to say to turn the tables back on the narcissist and retain
control of the situation by humiliating them. Humiliation is a narcissist’s biggest
weakness. Super empaths don’t revel in humiliating people or inflicting pain, but
they’ll do whatever is necessary.

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4. Empaths have cognitive and affective empathy.

Unlike narcissists, who have major impairments in their affective empathy but can still
manage some cognitive empathy, their counterparts have both. Super empaths can
use their previous experiences with them where they sensed true vulnerability to their
advantage. Along with that, they can also feel when their emotions begin to move
from cool and collected and when they’re about to crack with rage or shame.

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Although it’s rare for an empath, let alone a super empath, to use their empathy
manipulatively, it’s the only thing that really stumps a narcissist. Because it’s one
thing they’ll always lack.

5. Super empaths are unsuspecting.

Like we already mentioned, empaths and super empaths give off a naive innocence
that makes them appear as if they’ll be easy prey for the narcissist.

It’s likely the narcissist walks into the relationship assuming they will be the one to
destroy the empath, regardless of if it’s deserved. However, empaths don’t like to be
wronged by others. They’re kind, nurturing, and forgiving until someone crosses
them. Then, they’re unafraid to make sure some justice is made, usually by acting in
the same manner as they did. After all, they learned from the best.

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Super empaths are honest and frank. They don’t like to beat around the bush and
won’t play the games the narcissist wants to play. When the narcissist threatens to
ruin the empath’s reputation by sharing secrets to keep them dependent, the super
empaths will share their secrets first. Although empaths feel shame and guilt, they
will take the narcissist’s power away at every opportunity. And that will destroy the
narcissist.

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