Professional Documents
Culture Documents
1. Relationships
Culture influences how you get into and
keep a relationship.
2. Personality Traits
Culture influences whether and how you
value traits, such as self-esteem,
politeness, humility, and assertiveness,
also how you perceive hardship in life.
3. Achievements
Culture influences how you value specific
types of individual and group
achievements and how you define
success.
4. Expressing Emotions
Culture influences how you express
yourself and it will affect you emotionally.
SELF FROM THE PERSPECTIVE OF PSYCHOLOGY
Social Self – social skills and interpersonal True Self vs. False Self
relationships.
True Self – is described by our real
Spiritual Self – personality, character, feelings and desires.
and defining values.
False Self – is a side of us that has
Ideal Self vs. Real Self changed its behavior, inhibited feelings
and forced needs aside in order to
Ideal Self survive.
1. Notions influences by your parents It presents the idea of the onion, the
2. What you admire in others true self at the middle secured by outer
3. What the society sees as acceptable layers of a false self.
4. What you think is best your interest
According to John Bowlby and D.W.
Real Self – is who you are, it is how you Winnicott, a developmental psychologist,
behave in a certain situation. It is who you children are very adjusted to their
are in reality, how you think, feel, or act. parents’ feelings and needs. They
unconsciously acknowledge that they
The Importance of Alignment
need their parents’ permission in order
to survive, so they strive to meet their
Unified Self vs. Multiple Self
needs as much as possible.
If the real self is aligned with the way
The true self is the child’s real feelings,
that I want to be it is the ideal self, then
needs, desires and thoughts it is forced
I will feel aware of my mental well-being
further and further inside the bulb. Yes,
or peace of mind. If the way that I am is
we still have all of these feelings, needs,
not aligned with how I want to be, is the
desires and thoughts, it’s just that the
incongruence, or the lack of alignment,
altered false self dominates, it has to.
it will result in mental distress or
anxiety. The greater the level of Hence, this striving is important in our
incongruence between the ideal self and younger years, it changes us. The false-
real self, the greater the level of resulting self thought and behavior patterns we
distress. develop during childhood stay with us as
adults. On the other hand, they used to be
helpful; they often become a deterrent as
Unified Self – is also the self we show to we get older and gain more
people we trust and when we are independence. While some psychologists
alone. see the true self as black and white [true
self is good, the false self is bad], some
Multiple Self – it is our subself that forms maintain there are two types of false self
different behaviors in specific
a healthy false self and an unhealthy
false self.
Living Principles
Individualism vs. Collectivism
VIRTUE
A human being is an integral part of the
"To be able under all circumstances to
universe and society. People are
practice five things constitutes perfect
fundamentally connected. Duty towards
virtue; these five things are gravity,
all others is a very important matter.
generosity of soul, sincerity,
COLLECTIVISM IS STRONGER
earnestness and kindness." – Confucius
▪ Christianity
Search for Absolute Truth
▪ Rational
▪ More focused on Individual Events
▪ Scientific
and the role of the person.
▪ Logical Schools
▪ Searching outside yourself –
through research and analysis
Main Principles
▪ Feeling oneself as an element of the
Divine
▪ Life is a service (to God, money,
Search for Truth and
business, etc.)
Fundamental Research
▪ The truth needs to be proved. contemporary western discussion.
▪ The philosophic base for and culture [Gallinero, et al., 2018,p45]
of fundamental research is stronger.
Analytical – is an inclination to see
Individualism vs. Collectivism actuality as an aggregate of parts.
A human being has an individualistic Monotheistic – is engaged in the
nature and is an independent part of tendency toward unitary explanations of
the universe and society. phenomena and a closed system view of
INDIVIDUALISM IS STRONGER self.
Individualistic – is a quality of western
Goals and Key to Success thinking where self-expression and self-
MATERIALISTIC actualization are essential ways of
"The secret of success in life, and establishing who one is, as well as
subsequently of making money, is to discovering satisfaction in the world.
enjoy your work. If you do, nothing is Materialistic or Rationalistic – is
hard work – no matter how many western thinking tends to disregard
hours you put in." – Sir Billy Butlin explanations that do not use analytical
reasoning modes of thinking.
"Success is that old ABC – ability, breaks
and courage." – Charles Luckman Eastern and Western Differences
Western Culture – is more
"Flaming enthusiasm, backed by horse individualistic and trying to look for the
sense and persistence, is the quality that meaning of life there and now with self
most frequently makes for success." – at the canter as it is already given and part
Dale Carnegie of the divine.