Social Comparison ‘’ How do I compare to Others Image ‘’ How do I significant
my peers.’’? others see me?
• Maybe I should focus on my - I sense myself as significant as life
strength instead of looking at my weakness, itself is, I am significant on my own let me ask myself what my strengths are. version as who I am and if I would do And also, be okay with my imperfections good things, build good relationship to I’ll just keep trying to improve myself, others then maybe I can become worthy or more self-love and loving my imperfections significant in the eyes of people especially maybe in this way I would be a perfect one. to those people who already know what I am inside and out. Whenever I could contribute legacy to them and someday would lingers to their ears that I have done this kind of benevolence, I could be even more significant as they see me through.
Your Interpretations’’ How do my own feelings and
behaviors? - The only things we can control in life are our thoughts, feelings and behaviors. If we can manage those, we can achieve our goals and gain success in life. If we know how our minds work, we can be intentional about influencing out things and feelings patterns . we can evaluate reality more clearly, make better decision and improve our ability to achieve our goals in life.