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KEY To Stop Trying To Change
KEY To Stop Trying To Change
1 In an effort to gain better control of our lives, lots of us make promises to ourselves that we are going to do and be
2 better in the future: “I’m going to make major changes.” And there are many self-help books that claim to show the way –
3 books that tell you to tidy your room, to take up yoga or meditation (or both), to look for a new hobby or seek out new
4 experiences. Books that suggest you be more assertive or less assertive, that you start talking to strangers on the bus, etc.
5 But I can’t help thinking that if one of these books was genuinely effective, we wouldn’t need all the others – we could
6 simply follow the instructions. Unfortunately, despite what the books suggest, it’s not easy to make major changes. It takes
7 time to develop new habits and in the meantime there’s the ever present danger of falling back into your old ways. As the
8 famous American author Mark Twain said, “Giving up smoking is easy; I’ve done it hundreds of times.” The biggest
9 obstacle of all, it seems, is … ourselves. The French novelist Marcel Proust once said that it’s not about travelling to new
10 places, but about looking with new eyes. Perhaps the wisest sentence I ever heard is, “Wherever you go, there you are.”
11 So, instead of trying to change ourselves, we should try to know ourselves. When you know yourself well, you realise
12 that there are situations and places that are suitable for you, and those that aren’t. Rather than trying to change yourself,
13 change your circumstances. Put yourself in situations where the conditions suit you – discover what you are good at, when
14 and where you prosper and flourish.
I* COMPREHENSION (4 points)
CHOOSE AND WRITE THE CORRECT OPTION (A, B, C OR D). (1p: 0.5 points each)
*Obligatorio poner la letra, en mayúscula para no dar lugar a confusion, o letra muy clara.
1. The writer’s purpose is to
(a) warn people about the dangers of self-help books. (c) explain why self-help books don’t work.
(b) promote an effective self-help book. (d) encourage people to make major life changes.
2. The writer’s tone at the end of the first paragraph becomes
(a) angry. (c) sad.
(b) sarcastic. (d) happy.
WRITE TRUE OR FALSE. FIND EVIDENCE IN THE TEXT TO JUSTIFY YOUR ANSWERS (2p: 0,5 each)
* Si no justificáis las respuestas no puntúa. Deben ir entre comillas.
3. The author has found one very effective self-help book.
False: “But I can’t help thinking that if one of these books was genuinely effective, we wouldn’t need all the others
…”(line 5)
4. The writer mentions Mark Twain as an example of someone who found it hard to change old habits.
True: “… I’ve done it hundreds of times.” (line 8)
5. The writer feels that self-knowledge is the first step to happiness.
True: “… we should try to know ourselves.” (line 11)
6. Another good title for the text would be: “Change Yourself and Change Your Life”.
False: “Rather than trying to change yourself, change your circumstances.” (lines 12-13)
FIND IN THE TEXT (1p: 0,25 each)
7.1 ONE OPPOSITE FOR “unimportant” (adjective). major (line 2 / line 6)
7.2 ONE SYNONYM FOR “quitting” (verb). giving up (line 8)
8.1 ONE WORD MEANING “people you don’t know” (noun). strangers (line 4)
8.2 ONE WORD MEANING “to meet the needs of” (verb). suit (line 13)