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Intelligence
Elena Lukashevich - ELA Trainer, personal coach
Theoretical cycle
● Everything starts in 1920 🡪 it was called “Social intelligence” with the scientific predecessor
of Gardner’s Multiple intelligences.
Among them:
Intrapersonal and interpersonal intelligences where the most connected with emotional intelligence
It had no success at that time because people didn’t recognize properly the role of the emotions.
Interpersonal intelligence
Ability to understand intentions, motivations and wishes of other people,
allowing us to work well inside a team
Intrapersonal intelligence
Being conscious of our own feelings, and being able to express them
without being overwhelmed by them.
Understanding ourselves, our fears, our strengths and weaknesses. Being
able to use this information to pursue our goals.
The role of the emotions
Emotions filter during decision-making processes
● Scientifically they discovered that the AMYGDALA has a role of the “sentinel” and it is the first
receptor of any input from the outside, directly receiving inputs from the 5 senses
● It is like the short way: we firstly use the amygdala and only after some seconds the neocortex
starts organizing a more accurate response to the stimulus
● When the amygdala is on, every part of the rest of our brain is like kidnapped and she imposes her
commands
1. Choose three pictures that are representative of three different emotions, and
establish precisely the name of each emotion. Write down in your notes the
names of those emotions but do not reveal them to anybody.
2. Walk around the group tables and look at the pictures chosen by another
person: make hypothesis on what emotions could be represented in those
pictures. Write it in the paper next to each picture.
3. Finally, go back to your papers. Decide amongst the words written next to each
picture which is the correct one (or the one that is closest) and explains the
reason for choosing that picture.
What is Emotional Intelligence
This is the reason why many companies nowadays hire employees on the basis of their EI. (starting
from USA)
This doesn’t mean academic skills are not important. They are two sides of a coin and they are
complementary.
— Daniel Goleman
5 Pillars of EI by Goleman
● Divide in pairs
● Describe yourself to the other participant giving as much information as you can!
● You will have 8 minutes (4 for each participant): for 4 minutes you will be the
speaker, 4 minutes you will be the listener.
● Which are your main goals ? Why these goals are important for you?
Is it a SMART goal?
● Rewrite the goal ‘‘I will learn how to teach my students what empathy
is and how to develop it’’ in a smarter version.
S pecific
M easurable
A chievable
R elevant
T ime-bounded
Example
Now try to write a smart goal for yourself ! What do you want to achieve with your
students? How? By when? How are you going to measure it?
What empathy is – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Evwg
u369Jw&feature=youtu.be
ADVISING
ONE-UPPING
CONSOLING
STORY-TELLING
EMPATHIZING
SYMPATHIZING
INTERROGATING
EXPLAINING
FIXING IT
Fixing it
● A I’m worried about having enough money to pay my bills this month.
● B I’ll loan you the money.
One Upping
● A I got caught in traffic for 2 hours in 100 weather and no air conditioning.
● B That reminds me of the time our flight was delayed, but we were already in the cabin and were
not given the chance to wait outside and it was so hot in there…
Consoling
● A I just got the lab report back and it was what I most feared.
● B Cheer up, let’s go eat.
Advising
● A I’ve been trying to get this weight off and just feel frustrated.
● B When did you first start having this problem?
Explaining
● A I’m really upset. You promised to be here at 11 and it is now after midnight.
● B The reason I’m late is because an accident occurred in the highway and we got caught in traffic.
Empathy