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From the passionate Eros to the nurturing Agape, join us in unraveling the intricacies of
love that have resonated through centuries, offering timeless insights into the complexities of
human relationships and the depths of our shared emotional landscape.
▪ LESSON PROPER
“Love is a wildly misunderstood although highly desirable malfunction of the heart which
weakens the brain, causes eyes to sparkle, cheeks to glow, blood pressure to rise and the lips
to pucker” - Anonymous.
Courtship- refers to customary practices in the pursuit of attracting and winning a partner
selected for consensus relationship. The practice of courtship varies according to the culture of the
person, place, and the time.
It also becomes evaluative process with regards to testing compatibility, maturity, integrity,
loyalty, patience, and commitment.
Marriage
It is considered an institution because the essence of its part of a normative system built on
beliefs, social norms (folkways, mores, laws), and values.
The folkways include customary and traditional marriage practices; the mores include
acceptable relationships and laws include requisites and regulations in contracting marriage.
THEORIZING LOVE
According to this, a person falls in love because of the attraction (chemistry), they seem to know
each other, common interests, and similar background and values. In addition, we are not really
selecting our partner, as the partner (and how we relate to them) is pre-determined by the trauma of
Types I and/ or II. The partner is selected (not choses-n) by unconscious factors- people simply
cannot help it.
Eros. From the Greek word for “erotic or passionate”; a passionate physical and emotional
love based on aesthetic enjoyment; stereotype of romantic love.
Ludus. From the Latin word meaning “sport or play, a love that is played as a game or
sport, conquest.
COLLEGE OF EDUCATION
Storge. From the Greek word meaning “friendship” ‘; an affectionate love that slowly
develops from friendship, based on similarity.
Pragma. From the Greek word meaning “practical”; love that is driven by the head, not the
heart; practical and non-emotional.
Mania. From the Greek word meaning “frenzy”; highly volatile love; obsession; fueled by
low self-esteem.
Agape. From the Greek word meaning “divine or spiritual”; selfless altruistic love; spiritual;
true love.
Eros. (RED) Eros love refers to a type of sensual or sexual love. Eros lovers are passionate and
romantic and seek out other passionate lovers. They thrive on the tantalizing nature of love and sex.
They have an ideal mate in their mind’s eye and believe there is only one true love in the world for
them. Sexual activity usually occurs early in the relationship and the sex is passionate and exciting.
Once sexual activity takes place, the Eros lover is usually monogamous.
Ludus. (BLUE) This love is playful, flirtatious, and carefree. Ludus lovers do not care much
about commitment as having fun and being spontaneous. Variety is the spice of life and for them
the more partners the better. Ludus lovers do not share intimacy; love for a Ludus person is fun,
easy, and nonchalant.
Pragma (GREEN) “Ludus + Storge” Practicality and logic guide this type of love. With pragma
love, the costs and benefits are carefully weighed before entering into a relationship. It is non-
emotional and based on certain criteria like education level, religious beliefs, and social status.
Agape. (ORANGE) “Eros + Storge” Agape love is selfless, enduring, and unconditional. It is a
love that provides intrinsic satisfaction. Inherent in agape love is patience, kindness, and
permanence. Agape is considered the purest and truest form of love.
physical attraction. That’s where the terms “erotic” and “erotica” came from that nowadays describe
human sexuality.
It is common to mistake lust – or sexual desire – for romantic love. Sexual attraction can be a
potent and overwhelming sensation, and even fool the brain into questionable decision-making.
However, although the sexual desire is not a type of love in and of itself, it is frequently an essential
component of love, especially between romantic couples.
Ludus shares many qualities with Eros, but it is not limited to physical or sexual relationships.
Ludus love can also comprise non-sexual activities such as dancing, drinking, and other sensory
pleasures that one can enjoy.
that you can nurture and cultivate these, leading to happier and healthier connections and a more
fulfilling life.
https://www.greecehighdefinition.com/blog/9-different-types-of-love-according-to-the-ancient-
greeks
▪ REFERENCES
https://dailyinfographic.com/different-types-of-love
Maddox, L.A. (2023). Love In Greek: Classical Ideas Of Love And Romance. Retrieved from
https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/love/love-in-greek-classical-ideas-of-love-and-romance/
Disclaimer: Not all texts in this module are original of the writer. Some of them are excerpts from the references that are mentioned in this module.