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Unit 1- Giv ng, With olding and Reporting Permis ion - Clas 10Nepal - Part 1(1).

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UNIT- ONE
Giving, Withholding and
Reporting Permission
English, Class 10, Unit 1.mp4
Look in your book page no.1
Engage yourself
• Look at the pictures below, and answer the
following questions.

• a. Where are these people from?


• b. How do they greet each other?
Click on the link to learn about Japanese breakfast
culture.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zRIDcCLxdRI
Japan is a country that is big on manners, especially when it comes to eating
and dining. There a lot of things for a foreigner to learn when eating in public and
even at home. Learning these dining manners help avoid any embarrassment.

• Restaurants provide Oshibori, a hot steamed hand towel,
before a meal for customers to clean their hands. 
• Always say “itadakimasu” (Polite way of saying „I receive
this‟) before eating your meal.
•  It is extremely a bad manner to burp, blow the nose and
loudly chew with the mouth open while eating. 
• Slurping is encouraged in Japan as it is understood such that
one is enjoying the meal. 
• You should always pick up small dishes, like a bowl of rice,
and bring them closer to you when you’re eating something
out of them. 
• You should always eat everything on your plate (or at least try
your best to).
Difficult Word meanings page 1,2
• etiquette: good manners
• a global village: the world seen as a
community in which people are
connected
to reveal the body: to expose the body
sleeved tops: a garment covering the arm
time to relax and socialize: leisure time for social-
familial activities
• business banquets: business party, entertainment a
business card: a card containing useful
information about a person
• business hours: working hours on a day
• the reverse side: opposite way
• a professional duty: a duty or an obligation related to
the job
Reading / Study time page 1-3


Read the text (A World Guide
to Good Manners...), quickly
and underline the
words/phrases introduced right
before.
Match the words in column “A”with their suitable meanings in column “B” .
a. Etiquette I. a garment covering the arm
II. to expose the body

b. a global village III. opposite way


IV. the world seen as a community
in which people are connected
c. to reveal the body
V. business party, entertainment
d. sleeved tops VI. leisure time for social-familial
activities
e. time to relax and VII. good manners
socialize VIII. a card containing useful
f. business banquet information about a person
IX. working hours on a day
g. a business card
X. a duty or an obligation related
h. business hours to the job
i. the reverse side
j. a professional duty
Answers
I. etiquette: • good manners
II. a global village: • the world seen as a community
in which people are connected
III. to reveal the body • to expose the body
IV. sleeved tops: • a garment covering the arm
V. time to relax and socialize • leisure time for social-
familial activities
VI. business banquets: • business party, entertainment
VII. a business card: • a card containing useful
information about a person
VIII. business hours: • working hours on a day

IX. the reverse side: opposite way


a duty or an obligation related to
X. a professional duty: the job


Do works in pairs
Use the following words/chunks in sentences.
• a sample sentence
Etiquette- The festival etiquette for Hindu people is
different from Christian people.

Etiquette , a global village, to reveal the body, sleeved


tops , time to relax and socialize, business banquet, a
business card business hours, the reverse side, a
professional duty
Go through the text, and see how the words/phrases are
used in the context of the text. Copy the sentences that
contain the following words:-

etiquette, a global village, to reveal the


body, sleeved tops, time to relax and
socialise, business banquets, a
business card, business hours, the
reverse side, a professional duty
Read the text quickly, and find out the
answers to the questions given just
before the text
Suggested answers
a.The Canadians greet by shaking hands firmly while
looking straight in the eyes of the other person.
b. It takes two or three hours for Latin Americans to
complete their lunch.
c. People in Japan take off their shoes when entering a
restaurant.
Read the text, and decide whether the following
statements are true or false.
a. When an American meets us for the first time, we
shake hands.
b. In many parts of Asia, friends kiss on both cheeks
when they meet.
c. In Mexico, many people think that lunch is a time to
relax and socialise.
d. In India, we should take off our shoes when entering a
restaurant.
e. In Japan, we must present our business cards with
both hands.
f. In Spain, some businesses close in the early
afternoon for a couple of hours.
Suggested answers
• a. True b. False c. True d. False e. True f. True
Pair Works
Read the text again, and answer the following questions.
a. Mention any one difference between the American
and the Japanese greetings.
b. What type of clothes should the Muslim women not
wear in Muslim countries?
c. Is your main meal of the day same as that in
Britain?
d. In which countries do people prefer discussing
business during meals?
e. When is it necessary to print your business card in
the local language?
f. Where does physical distance between the
speakers play significant role?
Suggested answers
a. (i) Americans shake their hands firmly, whereas the Japanese
do not do so.
(ii) In America, there is a physical contact during greetings, but it
is not so in Japan.
(iii) The Japanese bow as per the degree of respect, but the
Americans do not do so.
b. The Muslim women should not wear clothes revealing their
body.
c. No, it is not. We have the main meal in the morning and in the
evening.
d. People prefer discussing during meals in Britain and the United
States.
e. It is necessary to print your business card in the local
language while you are going to a country where your language
is not widely spoken.
f. The physical distance between the speakers play significant
role in most South American countries and Mexico.
• Unit- 1
• A World Guide to Good Manners: How not to Behave Badly
• a. Mention any one difference between the American and the Japanese greetings.
• Ans- The Americans shake their hands while looking us straight in the eyes, whereas
the Japanese bow and the more they respect the person, the more they should bow.
• b. What type of clothes should the Muslim women not wear in Muslim countries?
• Ans- The Muslims women should not wear the clothes revealing the body in Muslim
countries.
• c. Is your main meal of the day same as that in Britain?
• Ans- No, it is not same as that in Britain. Our morning meal is the biggest meal of the
day.
• d. In which countries do people prefer discussing business during meals?
• Ans- In Britain and the United States, people prefer discussing business during
meals.
• e. When is it necessary to print your business card in the local language?
• Ans- In Japan, it is necessary to print your business card in the local language.
• f. Where does physical distance between the speakers play a significant role?
• Ans- In South America and Mexico, the physical distance between the speaker plays
a significant role.
Read the following text quickly, and answer these questions. Page No.1
• How do the Canadians greet each other?
• b. How long does it take for Latin Americans to complete
their lunch?
• c. Where do people take off their shoes when entering a
restaurant?
Suggested answers
• a. The Canadians greet by shaking hands firmly while
looking straight in the eyes of the other person.
• b. It takes two or three hours for Latin Americans to
complete their lunch.
• c. People in Japan take off their shoes when entering a
restaurant.
Vocabulary in use
Solve the crossword puzzle using appropriate words from the text.

• Across 1. uncomfortable; humiliating


• Down1. show 2. a part of a piece of clothing that 2. in a
strong or de¿ nite covers your arm way 3. opposite
4. co-workers
Suggested answers
• Across Down
• 1. EMBARRASSING 1. REVEAL
• 2. SLEEVE 2. FIRMLY
3 REVERSE
4. COLLEAGUES
what things are considered as good manner or not
in these situations:
• - while greeting people
• - while wearing clothes
• - while having food
• - while doing business
Writing a letter
• Write a letter to a foreigner who wants to live in your
community giving advice he/she wants to learn about
basic good manners on different occasions so that he/she
doesn’t look awkward in your community.
These basic information can help you
Cont………
 Nepali people greet saying „namaste’ together with joining both
palms. ‘Namaste’ is mostly done in formal occasions. In other
occasions, it is done for seniors.  Nepali people address each
other saying didi (“older sister”), bahini (“younger sister”), daai
(“older brother”), bhaai (“younger brother”), buwa (“father”) and
aamaa (“mother”) for a warm reaction.  The gesture of nodding
the head means you are interested to the interlocutor; shaking of
head left- right means you do not agree.  While meeting for the
first time, Nepali people ask each other‟s name, home town and
profession.  While eating, once you have touched something to
your lips, it is regarded as polluted (jutho) for everyone else.  If
you are eating with your hands, use the right one only. The left
hand is reserved for washing.  Men wear shirt/long trousers; and
women should wear a sari or Kurtha Suruwal on most occasion. 
You can shake hands with a stranger; kissing and hugging
another in public is not accepted.
the probable language items used while giving advice
and possibility (should/should not, can/cannot etc.). For
example:
a. You should take the way people consider as normal.
b. I suggest taking a holiday. I suggest (that) you take a
holiday.
c. It's generally best/a good idea to...
d. One idea is to ...
e. You can take pictures of historical sites available here.
f. One thing you could/should/have to do is ...
The parts of the letter.
• address line, date line, salutation line, opening courtesy
line, main body of the letter, complementary close line,
closing line, signature line, etc.
Sample letter

[DATE LINE] July 15


[ ADDRESS LINE] Kawasoti Nawalparasi
Dear Grace, [SALUTATION LINE]
I am happy to know that you are visiting Nepal next month. I am sure that you are going
to have a great time in Nepal. To make your stay more pleasant, I am going to advise you
regarding some cultural behaviour in Nepal. [COURTESY, PURPOSE AND OPENING
PARAGRAPH]
Nepali people are more silent, and you may have to ask quite a few questions initially.
You can ask questions about family, marriage and job. Nepali people feel more closed,
and stand much closer while communicating. They may even hold your arm/hand once
they become familiar with you. However, this does not occur between the male and the
female. Men and women do not touch in public. Even a husband will not kiss, hug or
openly hold hands or show other signs of affection to his wife in public. [BODY
PARAGRAPH 1]
Greetings are done by pressing both palms together at the chest level and saying
"Namaste ". People wiggle the head-back and forth to mean ‟yes‟; and move the head
from side to side to mean ‟no‟. Casual dress would be appropriate for men to wear to
work, unless they are in an official setting. Women should wear longer clothes covering
the body. In all cases, women should dress modestly with arms and legs covered.
[BODY PARAGRAPH 2]
I hope that you found the tips useful. I am waiting for your arrival in Nepal . [COURTESY
EXPECTIO LINE]
With best regards, [COMPLEMENTARY CLOSE LINE]
Tina Ale [NAME]
Grammar

Asking for Giving Withholding


permission permission permission
Can I (verb) Of course. Sorry, I’m afraid
…………… May I Yes that‟s fine. You can ….. But
(verb) .……………. That‟s OK. ……….
Is it OK if (subject That’s all right. I am afraid not
+verb) … You can’t possibly
Is it all right if
(subject +verb)
study the speech bubbles given in “Engage yourself‟
section. Which expressions are used for giving
permission, and which for withholding it.
• How do you ask for permission and respond to it for each
of the situations:
• Situations
• a. Asking to use the toilet during the class
• b. Trying the shoes on before making decision to buy
them
• c. Asking to share the seat on a bus
• d. Using a friend‟s pen
Conduct a repetition/cue drill using the following
structures:
• - Can I (verb)…………… -
• May I (verb).……………. –
• Is it OK if (subject +verb)… -
• Is it all right if (subject +verb)…...
Example:

• Asking to use the toilet during the class


• a. Can I use the toilet?
• b. May I use the toilet?
• c. Is it Ok if I use the toilet?
• d. Is it all right if I use the toilet?
The meaning of the modal auxiliaries 'can' and 'let' can also be expressed
by "be allowed/permitted to" without changing their basic meaning.

Examples:
a. I am allowed to take photograph here.
b. b. They are not allowed to leave the school. c. She is
allowed to sit here.
c. d. I am allowed/permitted to play here.
d. e. They are not permitted to speak English in Nepali
class.
Where is Pashupatinath Mandir?
Why do people go there?
Work in pair and write what the tourists are
allowed to do and not allowed to do there? .
Question
Write a letter to foreign visitors informing them about what
they can and cannot do in the Pashupatinatha Temple area.
Listening (pp. 6-7)
guess answers to the questions given:
a. Who are these people? (They are a daughter and her
parents.)
b. b. What are they talking about? (They are talking about
a tour.)
c. Listen and answer the questions using only the key
words/phrases.
Answer
• a. This afternoon
• b. Wash the school uniform
• c. Four
• d. Parents
• e. Mother
Listen and fill in the blanks
• Answer
• a. plans
• b. public
• c. Tejendra
• d. call
• e. see/ meet
Speaking
Read the following expressions. In which situation do you
use them?
Group A Group B
Of course. You can ..... but you mustn’t
Yes, certainly you can. Don’t let them .....
By all means. Sorry, I’m afraid .....
Yes, that’s fine. I’m afraid you can’t ...
Please you don’t hesitate to I’m afraid not.
Sure. I’m afraid I can’t let you
OK/Fine/All right if ..... I can’t possibly ..... That’s
OK/That’s fine.
That’s all right.
Let her sit here.
Go through the expressions above, and point out the
difference between Group A and Group B.
Answer
Expressions in group A are used for giving permission
Expressions in group B are used for withholding permission
Work in a pair
Study the following situations, and play the role of the people in the conversations below.
Have similar conversations in the following situations
Writing (page-10)

A. Read the invitation card, and discuss the given


questions in a pair.
a. Who is Karuna?
b. Name the parents of the bride and the bridegroom.
c. When is the marriage ceremony?
d. d. Where is the event going to take place?
1. Prepare a similar invitation card using the
following information
• . Bride: Rupa
• Parents: Mr. P. P. Rawat and Mrs. L. Yadav Bridegroom:
Kesar
• Parents: Mr. R. N. Chaudhary and Mrs. G. Mahato
• Date: January 12, 2018 Place: Bhrikuti Party Palace,
Butwal
• Hotel: A 2 Z, Chauraha, Butwal, 9700000000
2. Imagine your brother had an engagement with a girl.
Draft an invitation card for his marriage and show it to
your teacher.
Here is a brief description of Bhedetar by Arun Pradhan. Read the description,
and prepare a similar description of your place stating what the visitors can and
cannot do there. Paste a photograph of the place if possible. (page 11/12)
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TaS9f8jkD6I)

• Bhedetar is a transit point to Dhankuta from Sunsari district. It is 16 km north-


east from Dharan. It is at the top of a hill almost 1450 meters high from the
sea level. People from different places visit Bhedetar for a picnic in the winter
and to enjoy cool fresh air in the hot summer. Charles' Point, a peak the
British Prince Charles climbed in 1994, and now known as Bhedetar
Viewpoint, is a point one should reach. Visitors are allowed to take
photographs there.
• A road goes for Kamphek, Danda Bazaar and Ravi from Bhedetar. Visitors
can stay in cozy lodges and hotels there. A twenty-minute walk to the west
from Bedetar leads the visitors to the famous Second Pathibhara Devi's
temple. Hindus are allowed to worship the goddess. They say belief in
supernatural power is necessary to weave people together. In addition,
Bhedetar is a viewpoint of the beautiful scenery of the plains of Kosi and the
charming Himalayan ranges like Kumbhakarna and Makalu. Anyone can
easily catch regular buses or hire taxis at Bhanuchowk, Dharan for Bhedetar.

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