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Bishnumaya Bhusal
Assistant Professor
Member, Mediation Council
Concept and Meaning of Mediation
• Intelligent
– Understands the nature of the issues.
– Socially and emotionally intelligent; can read the parties
and chose the right tactics.
• Trustworthy
– Can be trusted with information that one party doesn’t
want revealed to the other party.
Mediation is a process that moves through stages.
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