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POSITIVE
Eastern Philosophy Doctrine of Opposites
NEGATIVE
• the boss
• co-workers
• workload
• capability
• capacity
STRESS
SITUATIONS
At Home
• family members
• children
• helpers
• neighbors
STRESS
SITUATIONS
Time
Management
• conflicting
priorities
• procrastination
• workload
• U and I principle
STRESS
SITUATIONS
Resource
Management
• budgeting
• income
• savings
• expenses
STRESS
SITUATIONS
Personal
Relationships
• spouse
• in-laws
• relatives
• friends
STRESS
SITUATIONS
Personal
Habits
• vices
• likes/dislikes
• peer pressure
• parental
intervention
Just say, “I’m sorry. I
can't do this right now.”
Use a sympathetic, but
firm tone. If pressured as
to why, reply that it
doesn’t fit with your
schedule, and change the
subject.
If you’re uncomfortable being
so firm, or are dealing with
pushy people, it’s OK to say,
“Let me think about it and get
back to you.” This gives you a
chance to review your
schedule, as well as your
feelings about saying "yes" to
another commitment, do a
cost-benefit analysis, and
then get back to them with a
yes or no.
If you would really like to do
what they’re requesting, but
don’t have the time (or are
having trouble accepting that
you don’t), it’s fine to say, “I
can’t do this, but I can…” and
mention a lesser commitment
that you can make. This way
you’ll still be partially
involved, but it will be on
your own terms.
WE ARE ALL BORN EQUAL …
Maraming Salamat
Po!
CLIFFORD A. PARAGUA
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