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Also, this is the time when teenagers could begin experimenting with sex, as well as other
adult actions, many of which could lead to harm.
(Ellsworth, A, 1998)
Lastly, teenagers may have doubt about undertaking new ventures in life.
(Ellsworth, A, 1998)
Slavin on Physical Change
Slavin writes that during this time period in a child’s life, they seek to be seen as
more mature and grown-up.
Also, Slavin explains that physical appearance is part of Susan Harter’s eight
adolescent concepts, tying into the theory of self-concept.
Lastly, Slavin writes that physical appearance is bar none the greatest influencer
of internal and external feelings related to a sense of self-worth and confidence
levels in children of this age.
(Slavin, 2021, Pg.60-62).
Observation of My Cousin’s Physical Change
My cousin is of course experiencing puberty, and thus has grown quite tall in the past few
months. She says this is a source of insecurity for her, as many other girls in her grade are
shorter than her, showing that what Washington.Edu wrote about is in fact true in regards
to my cousin.
She also has a sense of insecurity about being in the band at school, as she does not want
to be judged for that, akin to how children are supposedly scared to undertake new
ventures.
Overall, does meet milestones for physical developments.
Recommendations for Physical Development
The best thing a parent can do to help their children in regards to physical matters is:
Be willing and able to discuss body changing.
Dissuade your child from engaging in one-on-one activities (dates for example), and be
cognisant of where they are at all times.
Educate both girls and boys about puberty, which includes topics such as menstruation, and
help the children develop confidence in their changing body.
Lastly, a parent can encourage their child to try new things, and not to become discouraged
from new adventures or undertakings in life.
(University of Washington, 1993, Physical)
Emotional Development
Several common behaviors for an 11-12 year old child include being angry, mainly about
being told what to do, and fighting against routines
Also, being moody, and hyperbolizing situations is a frequent occurrence, as well as being
dramatic about situations where it is not appropriate.
The last trait that is important to note is the concept of being scared and anxious about
many things in life.
Also, children of this age will perhaps seek out business/monetary opportunities, and have a
desire to be involved in a community, as well as becoming aware of a world outside of their own.
(University of Washington, 1993, Cognitive)
Lastly, children at this age require at the minimum, 9-12 hours of sleep a night for their brains to
fully develop.
(Riley Children’s Health, 2021, 6-11 Year Olds)
Three Psychologists on Cognitive Development
Slavin discusses three different psychologists and their views on childhood development.
Piaget would say that my cousin is in the formal operational stage of life, meaning that the child has the capability to solve
complex issues via experimentation. In addition, “abstract and symbolic” reasoning occur. This ties in with Bronfenbrenner’s
discussions (listed below) which involve being able to think about abstract concepts, such as politics and law.
Vygotsky writes that development can happen in several ways, but for me, I believe the importance of cooperative learning
(learning with peers) and scaffolding (breaking the problem down) are two ways in which I have seen my cousin grow.
Bronfenbrenner claims that the macrosystem of life should be part of an individual's world at around this age. Based on the
cognitive data earlier in this presentation, we can infer that children aged 11 should be able to comprehend complex issues
outside of their own life, such as culture, politics, laws, etc, meaning that my cousin should have some level of
comprehension of the previously mentioned aspects of society and life.
(Slavin, 2021, Pg. 36)
Observation of My Cousin’s Cognitive Development
My cousin firstly, LOVES talking about politics, and I actually used to talk to her and teach her
about what I was doing in Political Science. This affirms Bronfenbrenner's assertion that children
are able of comprehending concepts such as law, rules, and politics.
In talking with her, it is clear she questions authority, which I think is a good thing. She was asking
me why her mom and grandma try to have such a level of control over her life, a definite tie in to the
University of Washington’s research.
I once taught my cousin how to play some songs on the piano, and we learned to play some
christmas songs last month for a family gathering. She showed me what Christmas songs she knew,
and I would follow on my saxophone. We had a “Vygotskian cooperative learning” moment.
Overall, she does meet the cognitive development milestones.
Recommendations for Cognitive Development
According to Washington.Edu, the most important things parents or mentors can do for
children this age are:
Do not become defensive when the children question your authority. Keep a steady stream of
confidence, and in keeping with this theme, do not become outraged when your child does, as
this calm keeps them in line.
Discuss ways to make money, which satiates their entrepreneurial needs or monetary desires.
Allow them to become part of a community, whether that be in school, (clubs, sports) or a
local event, (trash clean-up, marathon)
(University of Washington, 1993, Cognitive)
Social Development
According to Washington.Edu, common developments in the social world for a child at the
age of 11-12 include being hard to reside with for others living with them, as well as being
critical of adults. Similarly, many teenagers desiring a level of independence that is not
congruent with their age.
During this age, children want to appear cool and accepted by their group of friends.
(Ellsworth, 1998)
Also, children begin asking questions about religion, and begin “hero-worship”, as well as
still continue using black and white reasoning.
(University of Washington, 1993, Moral)
Kohlberg’s Moral Development
Slavin discusses Lawrence Kohlberg’s stages of moral development. Kohlberg wrote that
people pass through six stages of moral development in their lives, each layer being
increasingly involved and difficult to comprehend than the previous.
For an 11-12 year old, the category most befitting would be stage three or four.
In stage three, morality is essentially a way to harmonize with a group to not cause issues.
Children at this stage can put the proverbial “other person’s shoes” on. They are not as
concerned with what will get them in trouble, or perhaps as to what feels good, and
instead moved onto a higher level of reasoning.
(Slavin, 2021, 53).
Observations of My Cousin’s Moral Development
My cousin did tell me that she had drunk liquor previously, as her friends were doing it as well. Also, she
joined a dance team because her best friend was doing it, and she did not want to be left out, or different, this
is relevant to Washington.Edu’s moral development sections, meaning that children of this age will
experiment with things that perhaps they know are “wrong” but will allow them to stay included in their
group.
She did discuss how she did not like when kids act up at school, as it wastes time, but she is afraid to say
anything, as not to become ostracized from her peers, showing how children do not want to “rock the boat”
when it comes to social issues with their peers.
My cousin did begin the play the cello, and while she said it was hard in the beginning, she stuck with it, as
she knew it would be worth it in a few months when she could really play, even though it would have been
easier to quit, which shows the moral development of being able to see a long term reward.
Overall, she does again meet the developmental milestones.
Recommendations for Moral Development
According to Washington.Edu, parents can do several things to aid in a child’s moral
development.
Firstly, parents can teach children how to examine the morality and the effects of a
decision or of a group, as well as how to become cognisant of the harmful and often
common effects of peer pressure.
Teach children how their decisions have consequences, positive or negative, and how you
reach those decisions.
(University of Washington, 1993, Moral)
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Morin, A. (2021, December 1). What to expect from your child at every developmental age and stage. Verywell Family.
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