Discovering

PERSONAL
RELATIONSHIP
GROUP 4
 Objectives ;
• discuss an understanding of
teenage relationships, including the
acceptable and unacceptable
expressions of attractions
• express their ways of showing
attention, love and commitment :
• identify ways to become
responsible in relationship
 “When we love, we always
strive to become better than we
are. When we strive to become
better than we are, everything
around us becomes better too.”
— Paulo Coelho
Relationsh
ip people and a state of
• a state of relation between

connectedness especially an
emotional connection
Personal
Relationship
• relationships between people,
especially those between
friends, lovers and family
members
RELATIONSHIP
REQUIRES:

LOVE COMMITMENT ATTRACTION RESPONSIBILTY

 RESPONSIBILITY
• the special force that binds you to the cources of
action demanded by that force. A form of
trustworthiness; the trait of being answerable to
someone for something or being responsible for
one's conduct LOVE
• strong affection for another arising out of kinship
or personalities << maternal love for a child>>
• attraction based on sexual desire <<affection and
tenderness>>
• affection based on admiration, benevolence, or
common interests << loveCOMMITMENT
for old schoolmates>>
• the act of binfing yourself (( intellectually or
emotionally) to a course of action
• the message that makes a pledge
ATTRACTION
• the act, power, or property of attracting
 What do we mean by Personal
Relationships?
The concept of relationships is very broad and
complex. These bonds often grow from and are
strengthened by mutual experiences.

RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT STATIC. They are

continually evolving, and to fully enjoy and
benefit from them we need skills, information,
inspiration, practice and social support.
 3 KINDS OF
PERSONAL
RELATIONSHIP
 FAMILY
• family is an essential component
of relationships. The Bureau of
Census defines family as "two or
more persons who are related by
birth, marriage or adoption and
who live together as one
household.
• Some typical characteristics of a
family are support, mutual trust,
regular interactions, shared
beliefs and values, security and a
sense of community
FRIENDS
• a friendship can be thought of
as a close tie between people
that is often built upon mutual
experiences, shared interest,
proximity, and emotional
bonding
• Friends are able to turn to
each other in times of need
PARTNERSHIP
• romantic patnerships,
including marraige, are close
relationships formed between
two people that are built upon
affection, trust, intimacy, and
romantic love.
• We usually experience this
kind of relationship with only
one person at a time
WHY PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS ARE IMPORTANT

LIVE LONGER BE HEALTHIER

DEAL WITH
FEEL RICHER
STRESS
LOW SOCIAL SUPPORT IS LINKED TO A NUMBER OF
HEALTH CONSEQUENCES:

DECREASED
DEPRESSION IMMUNE
FUNCTION

HIGH BLOOD
PRESSURE
25 COMMON
RELATIONSHIP
PROBLEMS
AFFAIRS/ INFIDELITY/ CHEATING

• includes one night stand, emotional

infidelity, internet relationship
SEXUAL LIFE STAGES
(sexting), long and short-term ISSUES
affairs and financial infidelity

Responses to prolonged period of

SIGNIFICANT TRAUMATIC stress, such as work or school-
DIFFERENCES IN related stress, long term illness,
OR LIFE mental health issues, financial
CORE VALUES
CHANGING problem, and many more
AND BELIEFS
EVENTS
Bored in or with HAVING
DEALING
your relationship
WITH A BLENDED
JEALOUS FAMILY
PARTNER ISSUES

DOMESTIC KNOWING YOU

VIOLENCE, WHICH SHOULD NOT UNREALISTIC
INCLUDES VERBAL HAVE GOT EXPECTATIONS
AS WELL AS MARRIED IN THE
PHYSICAL ABUSE FIRST PLACE
EXCESSIVE RELIANCE ON SOCIAL
MEDIA, AT THE COST OF THE one-sided LACK OF
RELATIONSHIP
responsibility RESPONSIBILI
TY

LACK OF LACK OF
MANIPULATIO SUPPORT COMMUNICATION
N
 PERCIEVED LACK OF MENTAL
CONCERN, CARE AND
CONSIDERATION/ HEALTH
ATTENTIVENESS
PERSONAL
DISAPPOINTMENT ISSUES
S

LONG TERM LOSS OF

INTIMACY
STRESS
LACK OF
SIGNIFICANT AN
SUPPORT
DIFFERENCED IN OPINION
UNSUPPORTIVE
ON HOW TO DISCIPLINE/
DEAL WITH THE CHILDEN PARTNERT
DURING
PREGNANCY
NURTURE YOUR
RELATIONSHIP
Connect with
your family
Practice
gratitue
remembering to say "thank you" can
set off spiral of trust, closness and
affection
 Learn to
forgive
it's normal for disagreements or betrayal to
arise in relationship, but your choice about
how to handle the hurt can have a powerful
effect on the healing process. Be willing to
lay down your anger and move on
 Be
compassionate
Compassion is the willingness to be open to
yourself and others, even in a painful times
with a gentle, non-judgemental attitude. In
this way, you are able to open the gates for
better communication and a stronger bond.
 Accept others
Try to understand where the person is coming
from rather than judge them. As you do for
yourself, have a realistic acceptance of the
other's strength and weaknesses and
remember that change occurs over time
Create rituals
together
In order to keep the relationship, make
an effort to connect.
Spend the right
amount of time
together
BASIC RIGHTS
IN A
RELATIONSHIP!
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THE RIGHT
TO HAVE
1 2 TO HAVE
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BUTTER PASSPO KILOGR
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MARE Y FLY OF
POINT RT AM
TO HAVE HEARD BY AND FROM
VIEW, EVEN
EMOTIONAL THE OTHER EXPERIENCE ACCUSATIO
BAD WIN IF THIS
WINGS TRAVEL MEASURE
SUPPORT AND TO D N AND
DREAM NOT LOSE DIFFERS
INSECT FOREIGNE MENT
SCARY RESPOND
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WEIGH
FROM YOUR
SLUMBER N FLOWER DGED AS
OVERSEA SCALE
PARTNER'S
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NIGHT TO LIVE
VICTOR BUTTER TO BE
PASSPO
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MARE Y FROM
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FREE FROM FREE FROM
EMOTIONAL LY ASKED,
CRITICISM ANGRY
BAD AND
WIN WINGS RATHER
TRAVEL
AND OUTBURSTS
DREAM PHYSICAL
NOT LOSE INSECT FOREIGNE
THAN
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 CONSIDER
DEVELOPING THESE
ASPECTS
1
PATIENCE
Patience is essential to a healthy relationship. There are times when others will respond to us in
a disappointing way. when this occurs, it's important to communicate our disappointment, but
also to give the other person space. Be willing to give the person some time to reflect,
indicating that you are ready to talk when they are ready. If the person is never ready to discuss
the situation, you may need professional help to resolve the issue, or ask yourself wether or not
you want to continue the relationship.

2 HONESTY
To build honesty in a relationship, you should communicate your your
feelings openly, and to expect the other person to do the same. Over time, this
builds trust
 CONSIDER
DEVELOPING THESE
ASPECTS
KINDNESS 3

You need to be considerate of other's feelings and other people need to be considerate of yours.
Be kind when you communicate. Kindness will nurture your relationship.

RESPECT 4

This is the cornerstone of all healthy relationships. We need to respect others because it means
that we accept them for who they are and how they see things in their own perspective
 10 RULES FOR YOU MUST
FINDING LOVE LOVE
COMMUNICATI
ON IS
AND CREATING YOURSELF
FIRST
ESSENTIAL

LONG-LASTING NEGOTIATION
AUTHENTIC PARTNERING IS
A CHOICE
WILL BE

RELATIONSHIP REQUIRED
YOUR
CREATING RELATIONSHIP
LOVE IS A WILL BE
PROCESS CHALLENGE BY
RENEWAL IS
CHANGE
THE KEY TO RELATIONSHIPS YOU MUST
LONGEVITY PROVIDE NURTURE THE
YOU WILL
OPPORTUNITIES RELATIONSHIP
FORGET ALL
TO GROW FOR IT TO
THIS THE
THRIVE
always remember

Love should
never
hurt
Thank you
for listening!