WHO CAN BENEFIT FROM COUNSELING WHAT IS NOT COUNSELLING INTRODUCE CARL ROGERS WHAT IS ND COUNSELING What is Counseling? A process in which the counselor enables, empowers and assists the client to understand his/her problems, explore & evaluate choices and take actions. Role of the Counselor • Enable caller to explore/examine many aspects of their life and feelings • Help the caller draw-out answers from within Need for counseling • Quite often, people go through such phases of life that affect their mood and behavior. • People may face certain problems that they don’t know how to handle. There may even be people in their life that they want to be with but are having trouble in the relationship. • Counselling can be very helpful in resolving all these situations and other mental health issues. Need for counseling • Career problems • Going through Depression • Going through Grief or Loss • Having Panic Attacks • Facing Emotional Turmoil • Suffering from Addiction • Facing Abuse • Anxiety Issues • Relationship Problems Who can benefit from counseling? Anyone who is going through some emotional stress or needs a new insights to an issue. Few of counseling benefits • Leads to self discovery • Develop Confidence, Hope, and Encouragement • Helps in The Management of Emotions • Contribute to Self-acceptance • Give Insight to Problems • Provides mental peace • Eradicate negative emotions What is not counseling? • Jumping to problem solving prematurely • Giving any form of advice solicited or unsolicited • Expressing opinions and judgements • Taking charge of the problem and attempting to solve it. • Trying to rescue people from their situations or problems • Giving hope, making promises or giving commitments to callers without any rational basis. • Taking responsibility for what the callers do or do not do with their lives.
Above are all directive counseling methods. They do not help.
Carl Rogers • American psychologist • Founders of the person-centered approach (and client- centered approach) in psychology What is ND (Non directive counseling)? • Creating a comfortable, open and helpful environment wherein callers can share their discomfort and conflicts without fear of being evaluated, judged, criticized or disapproved by us. • Listening and observing callers to fully understand what they are saying, how they are saying it and what they are going through when they are with us • Raising their self esteem through attention and active listening; acceptance and respect for what they are and also for what they are NOT as people; acceptance and respect for what they have done or what they have NOT done; all this irrespective of our opinion What is ND (Non directive counseling)? • Reassuring them that they have the strength to handle their situations and that we are there to help them in the process. • Bringing about changes in the callers through a process of sharing, ventilation and gaining new insights. • Assisting people to become adequate to solve their own problems • Giving information to strengthen decision making • Being emotionally very supportive during the coping and action process Characteristics of ND Counseling 1. It is a client-centered counseling. 2. It is based on the principle that a person has so much capacity and drive that he can grow and develop so that he may face the situations in reality. 3. In this school of thought, the counselor is passive to the maximum. 4. Its use reduces psychological tensions. 5. In this type of counseling, there is closeness between the picture of the self-drawn by the client and a desirable or an ideal picture of his own. Characteristics of ND Counseling 6. Through this counseling his psychological adjustment improves. 7. Client’s behavior is considered more matured emotionally. 8. A person is accepted in his originality and he is free to express his any attitude. 9. In this counseling, the entire responsibility is of client or the person. THANK YOU