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Crossroads Grace Leadership Development 2-15-2015

Leading Yourself
The Happiness Advantage

1. Leadership Process:

Leader

Results

Follower

a. Leader is you
Follower is you
Results are personal accomplishments
b. Why set goals, seek results?_____________________________________
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c. Which comes first? Goal attainment or ^
d. Happiness Advantage
i. Video: Shawn Achor 12 mins
ii. Observations/comments on video:__________________________
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e. It is about learning how to cultivate the mindset and behaviors that
have been empirically proven to fuel greater success and fulfillment. It
is a work ethic. (p. 24)
2. Setting Goals: The Zorro Circle
a. Feeling of control whether it is actually controllable doesnt matter.
(p. 130)
What is out of control in your work or personal life?
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b. Internal locus of control
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External locus of control


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c. Verbalizing stress & helplessness when control lost (p. 136)


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d. Identify what aspects you do have control over and dont. (p. 137)
Cant Control
Can Control
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Crossroads Grace Leadership Development 2-15-2015

e. Identify quick small goal to accomplish in area where control exists. (p.
137)
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f.

Dont sabotage it: Video: Derek Siver 4 mins

3. Follow Through: 20 Second Rule


a. What you want to start doing:__________________________________
Instead of doing:________________________________________________
b. Willpower tank (p. 152).
i. When do you run out of willpower? ________________________
ii. What do you do when willpower is gone? ____________________
c. Activation Energy
i. Acting habitually
1. Excellently (p. 146):_______________________________
2. Wastefully:______________________________________
ii. To act via willpower
iii. Redirecting activation energy (p. 160-161)
1. Lower it for______________________________________
a. Decrease number of choices by:_______________
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b. Rules to lower it:___________________________
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2. Raise it for_______________________________________
a. Increase number of choices by:________________
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b. Rules to raise it: ___________________________
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4. Parallel Christian Principals:____________________________________________
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5. How does this help you to:
a. Lead yourself better?___________________________________________
b. Lead others better?____________________________________________
c. Follow better?________________________________________________
d. Help your leader to be a better leader?____________________________
e. Help your follower to be a better follower?_________________________
6. Next Week:________________________________________________________
7. Journaling in your notebook

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