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Tuesday, October 1, 2013

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Wife missed things while dating hubby

Tomorrows Horoscope
By Bernice Bede Osol

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Dear Annie: I am a his personality or improve his 57-year-old woman, and my declining health and honesty. husband is 61. We met online Regrets in Paradise and spent weekends together Dear Regrets: The for seven months before counseling isnt for him. Its getting married. I was deeply for you. You feel trapped in love with him for the first with a man you no longer six months. wish to be intimate with, and Lately, my attitude and the future you see is that of feelings have changed patient and nurse. Theres no dramatically. This man drives point in beating yourself up me crazy and grosses me out. over what you didnt notice He is constantly clearing his when you were dating. That throat and blowing his nose. happens to everyone. The He is flatulent and burps question is what you are long and loud all day and going to do about it now. And night. Hes clumsy, and his thats where the counseling memory is going can help. You need downhill fast. He to sort out how becomes very you feel, whether defensive when I you are willing to try to talk to him stick it out and the about any of this. I emotional cost to still love him, but you. not romantically. I Dear Annie: feel more like a best Why do people friend. make a big deal I have to force out of men who are myself to kiss him, crossdressers? let alone sleep with I am 43 years him, and due to Annies Mailbox old, happily his denial, I have married and not lost a lot of respect for him. gay. Im a businessman, and This was not the man I dated. I wear lacy lingerie with He retired six months ago breast forms under my suits and now sits around all day every day. My beautiful wife getting stoned. He doesnt of 20 years thinks I look hot make friends, and he needs in lingerie. When we go out open heart surgery and a knee to fancy restaurants, I dress replacement and will require a up as a woman. Im very caregiver very soon. He knew passable, and our four teenage I was a nurse when we met, daughters are OK with it. and I think he married me There are straight women because of his overwhelming who wear mens clothing, fear of being alone. I have and I never hear anything spent decades taking care negative about them. A of people who are disabled, Happy Father and Husband demented and in denial. I now Dear Happy: Women who see this marriage as a live-in wear mens clothing generally job. do so because it is more He cant understand why comfortable. Men who wear my feelings have changed womens clothing, which is and blames me. I feel decidedly less comfortable, totally trapped. I bought the often do so because it gives house we are living in and them a sexual thrill or satisfies brought more money into the some emotional need. (Some marriage. However, because I women dress like men for the am entitled to his retirement same reasons.) The important benefit when he dies, he thing is that your wife and considers our financial daughters are OK with it. No contributions to be equal. one elses opinion matters. I didnt date for 12 years Dear Annie: I believe before I met him and thought Native New Yorker, whose we were very compatible. I scratchy voice makes people should have lived with him think he is foreign, missed for at least a year, but I wanted out on a lot of opportunities to set a good example for my to have fun. His response children. Please dont suggest to questions regarding his counseling. It wont change origin should be: Im from Mars. Please take me to your leader. C. A polar bears skin is black. Its fur is not really white, but actually is clear.

WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 2, 2013 Go outside your comfort zone in terms of getting involved in the year ahead. If you don't voice your opinion, you will have no right to complain. Back away from anyone who doesn't treat you properly. If you believe that you serve the best, you'll get it. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -- Past lessons will be a guide to a difficult situation that you're now facing. You'll need to act judiciously to keep the peace, and wisely to see through rampant misinformation. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) -- Don't complain if someone asks you to do something. The fuss it will cause won't be worth the aggravation. Get the job done and move on to the things you'd prefer to do. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) -- Fix up your space and find a way to budget for something you'd like to purchase. An emotional matter will escalate if you haven't been completely honest about the way you feel. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) -Keep life simple and get what needs to be done out of the way. Avoid dealing with unpredictable people. Team up with those willing and able to contribute consistently. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -Use your energy wisely and protect yourself against injury. Think matters through before you make a decision. Poor money management will require an unusual solution. Add to your skills and knowledge. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) -- Take note of what everyone around you is doing, and use what you learn to reduce your overhead and home in on exactly what's required to achieve success. ARIES (March 21-April 19) -- Share your thoughts and ideas and indulge in activities that allow you to show off your skills. Although you will attract attention, a humble and gracious attitude must prevail. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) -Consider innovative ways to make your work more efficient. Forming an alliance with someone who has discipline and a work ethic similar to yours will lead to greater freedom. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) -- Collect your thoughts and find a way to deal with a challenge before matters become costly. More effort toward improving your home or family life will be required. CANCER (June 21-July 22) -- Avoid melodrama. You don't want to miss an opportunity due to a last-minute change. Don't feel inconvenienced by what others do -- embrace life and enjoy the ride. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -- Appease whoever is standing between you and your goal. Making an effort to keep the peace will buy you the freedom to indulge in activities that interest you. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) -- Jump on the bandwagon and enjoy whatever is being offered up by friends, relatives or neighbors. Active participation will lead to all sorts of interesting people and destinations. COPYRIGHT 2013 United Feature Syndicate, Inc.

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