Quotes by Susan C.

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Art of Connection: 8 Ways to Enrich Rapport & Kinship
for Positive Impact
― “Like the butterfly, you will also go through stages of change, rebirth,
and new beginnings for transformation and renewal. Use these changes to
create a clarity of purpose for a personal renaissance. Break out of your
comfort zone, shed old layers, and stretch in your potential to become your
best self. Be free of outdated limitations, experience rebirth and take
flight.”
“A discreet person . . .

• is strong, yet humble;

• expresses genuine concern and interest;
• exercises caution to avoid unnecessary risks;
• knows intuitively when a situation or conversation is heading in the wrong
direction;
• does not need to tear others down to build himself up;
• refrains from using foul language or speaking brashly;
• regulates her reactions and responds appropriately;
• takes the higher road rather than wrestling in the mud;
• remains gracious and poised in the heat of the moment;
• refrains from unnecessary confrontations;
• does not break confidence or share other people’s secrets with which they
have been entrusted;
• communicates with deliberation and confidence.”

― “80% of success is just showing up!”

-You Can Show Up By . . .

• Participating.
• Sharing ideas.
• Being dependable.
• Keeping your word.
• Taking the initiative.
• Volunteering to be of assistance.
• Being there when a friend needs you.
• Raising your hand and asking questions.
• Attending your children’s sporting events.
• Taking your place and claiming your space.
• Demonstrating that you have something to offer.”

- 8 Ways to Shine a Positive Light on Others

1. Let the other person appear smart. The person who desperately tries to
be the smartest person in the room inevitably comes off as the least.
2. Don’t bring attention to anything which may embarrass another person.
Whether your conversation partner has poor grammar, a pimple on his
chin, or lacks social grace, a discreet person does not say or do anything
which would make another feel ashamed, embarrassed, or humiliated.
Allow the other person to maintain his own grace and dignity.
3. Ask their opinions, seek their advice, ask them inquiring questions. By
allowing them to reveal their opinions and knowledge, you will
demonstrate respect and make them feel important.
4. Practice patience. Sometimes it takes a person a moment to gather her
thoughts, process information, or respond appropriately. Your patience is
respectful and appreciated.
5. Maintain your calm. Rather than react with anger or defensiveness,
regulate your response and shift the energy into a more positive direction.
6. Put your ego aside. Allow another to triumph and enjoy the spotlight.
7. Be aware and concerned for the feelings of others.
8. Purposely seek ways to put others at ease and make them feel
comfortable.”
-“Zip Your Lip & Bite Your Tongue

The discreet communicator knows when it's time to speak and when it's
time to listen. He conscientiously refrains from opening a topic of
discussion if it is bad timing or inappropriate. He will stop, look, learn, and
listen for cues to ensure he doesn’t get caught with his foot in his mouth.”