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Ego States
Ego state: Observations about self
I find myself very hign on RP (8) because I think that
people do need my help. This may be due to previous
spiritual practice I had which used to tell me that those
people who don’t follow your path are fallen and they
must be deliveredd through Divine message that you
have as you are very special. So even though I have quit
this practice for good before 3 years, still this past haunt
me due to my past conditionings.
Transactional Styple
Transactional Styple: Observations about self
Life Positions
Life position: Observations about self
Drivers
Drivers: Observation about self
Try hard
Be perfect
Please others
I try too hard many times and hence it affect my mental
as well as physical health. Sometimes expect others also
to work hard. Same goes with be perfect drive where I
try to be as perfect as I can so I push myself too much
not caring about the timeline about my own well being.
Stroking profile
Stroking profile: Observations about self
I have explored and found out that I don’t ask for strokes
from my intimate ones. I simply expect them to
understand my feelings and search for strokes. Due to my
drivers like “ Please others”, I don’t feel comofortable if I
win a award or appreciation. E.g. I will say “ Allah
meherbaan to Gadaah pehelwan” if I receive appreciation
as from previously quit practice of spirituality, every
credit was given to God but self was neglected totally.
Injunctions
Injunctions: Observations about self
Don’t succed, Don’t, Don’t be close, Don’t be child, Don’t
be important, Don’t grow up.
The above mentioned are some of the injuctions I have
due to some issues in my childhood of wrong parenting.
Don’t succed is because my Father thought I had better
opportunities than what he had in his childhood. Don’t is
because in my early childhood as I was alone child of
parents, they were over protective towards me. Don’t be
close because of my mother’s spiritual practice she did
not allow myself to come closer to her. Same goes for
Don’t be important, this was because of religious reason
where we are asked to be as simple and not important.
My father was more attached to me as a kid than a grown
up one hence this injunction of “ Don’t grow up”
developed. My mother wanted me to be a mature kid
always hence “Don’t be child” injunction developed. Also
I was good at paining and other creative work like music
however they wanted to me to be engineer hence “ Don’t
be you” was delveoped.
Discounting
Discounting: Observations about self
I am part of a family where instincts are discounted and
do does the options. Due to which I developed loser’s
script as I was discounting optios many times. My father
has “ Be strong” driver hence ne many times discounted
many serious problems; to show the world that he has
withstood the tough situations. Due to all these situations
around me I also developed similar discounting
behaviours.
Racket Feeling
Racket Feeling: Observations about self
I noticed that my racket feeling is that of Anger. This
happens when my father asked me to repeat my
statements 4-5 times as he has hearing issues. Then I
shout but he names it as arrogant. This angers me more.
Due to this I have hard time with my juniors as inspite of
telling them commit lot of mistakes which angers me.
Racket Feeling
Racket Feeling: Observations about self
I noticed that my racket feeling is that of Anger. This
happens when my father asked me to repeat my
statements 4-5 times as he has hearing issues. Then I
shout but he names it as arrogant. This angers me more.
Favourite Games
Favourite Games: Observations about self
“NIGYSOB and I told you so”.I usually wait for my juniors
to commit mistake and then shout at them how they
were not paying attention to my instructions. NIGYSOB is
the game which is played between me and my Father.