This document provides tips for using LEGO play to support children's social and emotional development. It recommends establishing agreements with children on compromise and joint decision making during partner builds. It also suggests intentionally disagreeing on build decisions a few times to hold children accountable and encourage sympathy, while expressing disappointment in a constructive way. Creating visual tokens or timers can help represent turns and sharing times during LEGO play.
This document provides tips for using LEGO play to support children's social and emotional development. It recommends establishing agreements with children on compromise and joint decision making during partner builds. It also suggests intentionally disagreeing on build decisions a few times to hold children accountable and encourage sympathy, while expressing disappointment in a constructive way. Creating visual tokens or timers can help represent turns and sharing times during LEGO play.
This document provides tips for using LEGO play to support children's social and emotional development. It recommends establishing agreements with children on compromise and joint decision making during partner builds. It also suggests intentionally disagreeing on build decisions a few times to hold children accountable and encourage sympathy, while expressing disappointment in a constructive way. Creating visual tokens or timers can help represent turns and sharing times during LEGO play.
together” 1 INVITE YOUR CHILD TO CREATE A PARTNER BUILD “This can be a build where we both get to decide what happens.”
“How can we build so each
of us gets what we want?” “Sometimes I’m going to ESTABLISH AGREEMENTS OF get my way. How do you think you can respond?” COMPROMISE AND JOINT DECISION MAKING 2 “What should happen if one of us gets upset about a building decision?” “I think a different block should go there. Can we change that?” CHOOSE A Express disappointment 3 FEW TIMES TO INTENTIONALLY DISAGREE AND HOLD THEM in a build direction to encourage sympathy. ACCOUNTABLE “Remember, before we started we agreed that we would compromise." Social = emotional Tips Create visual/physical tokens or Recall successful timers to represent turn and collaborations in new contexts, sharing times. Provide notice that e.g. “Remember the time we you’re using them. Use them in a compromised on that decision? variety of scenarios and take That can help now too…” them with you on the road!