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HOW DOES THE BODY RESPOND?
THE BRAIN (LION, LIZARD, LEARNING)
Happens in the same part of the brain as reward and Lizard (brain stem-not the smartest
emotion processing (prefrontal cortex) Learning part)
Lion - midbrain – the body’s fire
Emotional responses happen on 3 levels
alarm (the lion gets out of its cage
Bodily response (body’s reaction to the emotion) sometimes and get out of control -
need to learn how to put the lion
Increased blood pressure, increase heart rate, back in its cage)
adrenaline rush, cortisol release if you make a fist and put your
thumb behind your fingers it acts
Behavioral (outward expression seen by person’s Lion like the lion for a kid metaphor
actions) Lizard Learning brain - prefrontral
Experiential (internal experience of an emotion) cortex - thinking spot - it goes
on vacation when the fire alarm
Example: You almost get in a car accident goes off - needs time to get the
alarm turned off and thinking
brain to come back from
vacation
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HOW IS REGULATION LEARNED? THE SKILLS…LET’S BREAK THEM DOWN
◦ Preschool (reflective, begin to be able to do it on Co-regulation (adult helps to regulate the
their own) child)
◦ May require cues and support as they learn to
Usually infants require this type of calming
calm themselves
◦ School-age (guided by sense of self and the Children with attachment disorders may not
environment) have had the opportunity to experience this
◦ Know to talk about what they are excited about type of regulation
instead of jumping up and down Modeling
◦ Adolescence (hormones re-enter and creates
Demonstrate the appropriate behavior
upheaval)
◦ By this age self-regulation is an internalized
Adult labels the feeling and calms
skill themselves and then helps the child calm
down
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RELATIONSHIP BUILDERS IF YOU MAKE A MISTAKE…
Greet every child by name. Give compliments liberally.
Post children’s work around Call a child after a difficult How do you want someone to handle your
the room. day and say, “I’m sorry we
had a tough day today. I
mistakes?
Call/tell a child’s parent in
front of them to say what a know tomorrow is going to A calm, warm correction and redirection of
great day she is having or be better!” students are more likely to prevent further
send home positive notes. Find time to read to impulsive or challenging behaviors than a
Give hugs, high fives and individual children or a few rebuke that makes the student feel bad…
thumbs up accomplishing children at a time.
Do you think they woke up this morning
tasks. Find out what a child’s
favorite book is and bring it wanting to make that mistake?
When a child misses school
tell him how much he was along on a visit or read it to
missed. the whole class.
Acknowledge children’s Play with children, follow
efforts. their lead.
Emotional outbursts aren’t intentional ◦ How do you handle your own emotions?
Everyone is entitled to their emotions ◦ Children learn from what they see adults doing
Identify triggers and use them to teach problem
around them
solving Encourage kids to “take a calm down break”
Help children be aware of the stages in the build Praise their efforts to regulate their emotions
up of tension Aggressive and impulsive children receive more
Encourage children to talk about feelings negative feedback and less praise, even when they
are behaving appropriately
Point them out in books, classroom, faces, etc
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WHY SHOULD WE TAKE TIME TO TEACH IT? YOU DON’T NEED A CURRICULUM TO
TEACH SELF-REGULATION
Children develop the foundational skills for self-
regulation in the first 5 years of life Sensitive teachers and staff were consistent,
It can be incorporated into ordinary activities positive, warm, and appropriately responsive to
Children need many opportunities to experience and children’s cues
practice the skills with responsive adults and capable Making the changes will help the children who
peers have lower self-regulation abilities
Improved learning abilities and future reading and Make environmental changes (adapt to meet
math scores needs)
Poor self-regulation is associated with greater
likelihood of expulsion from school programs
Teaching a child how to appropriately express
themselves is more important than teaching them
coping strategies
Move with Me
http://www.latimes.com/videogallery/77007981/Healt
h/Try-This-Deep-down-wisdom-exercise
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BREATHING FOLDER
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PRACTICE THE STRATEGIES THROUGHOUT WAYS TO PRACTICE SELF-REGULATION FOR
THE DAY YOUNGER CHILDREN
The Freeze Game
When is the best time to teach a child how Red light – green light
to swim? Sleeping, Sleeping, All the Children are Sleeping.
Children pretended to sleep when the circle leader sang,
◦ When they are calm or drowning? “Sleeping, sleeping, all the children are sleeping.” Once
children were pretending to sleep, the circle leader said,
Have pictures of the strategies posted or on “And when they woke up… they were [monkeys]!”
a ring Drum Beats. Teachers used drum beats to represent
different actions that children can do while sitting (e.g.,
Have a calm down area clapping or stomping) or while moving around the room
(e.g., walking or dancing)
◦ This is not the same as a time out area! Practice a strategy at calendar/group time (can be a helpers
Practice the strategies often so they know job)
Practice strategies while waiting in line or walking between
how to use them when they are needed places
CHALLENGING BEHAVIOR
COMMUNICATES
• Communicates a message when a child does not
have language.
• Used instead of language by a child who has
CHALLENGING BEHAVIORS limited social skills or has learned that
AND MENTAL HEALTH: challenging behavior will result in meeting his or
her needs.
STRATEGIES AND IDEAS
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CHALLENGING BEHAVIOR WORKS
OLD WAY NEW WAY
• Children engage in challenging behavior
because “it works” for them. •General intervention • Intervention matched
• It serves 2 purposes: for all behavior to purpose of the
• Child gains access to something or someone problems behavior
• i.e., obtain/request •Intervention is reactive• Intervention is
• Child avoids something or someone •Focus on behavior proactive
• i.e., escape/protest reduction • Focus on teaching new
•Quick Fix
skills
• Long term
interventions
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WAYS TO SUPPORT ANXIOUS KIDS
CHILDREN WITH ANXIETY
Teach them what their body looks or feels like when
We all need a little anxiety… it is anxious.
Too much though and we get kids who are wound Teach them the self-regulation and breathing
up, distracted, have short attention spans, strategies
impulsive, asks many questions, shuts down… Seat them away from peers who are loud or
The brain gets high-jacked and can no longer misbehave
learn when it is anxious Signal the class before directions are given (flashing
Anxiety can be contagious!
the lights, clasping hands, etc.), as well as use visual
cues
Escape Option/Calm Down Pass: If the child becomes
overwhelmed, there should be a safe place where
he/she can go until nerves have calmed down.
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SUPPORTING CHILDREN WITH MOOD CHILDREN THAT STRUGGLE WITH SOCIAL
DISORDERS SKILLS
Invite them to live in THIS moment (instead of Social skills are defined as: the child's knowledge of,
living in the past, present and future at once) and ability to use, a variety of social behaviors that
are appropriate to a given interpersonal situation and
Mindfulness activities
that are pleasing to others in each situation
Dream journal (what would you like to dream A child's social competence depends upon a number of
about tonight) factors including the child's social skills, social
Practice labeling the emotions they are feeling, awareness, and self-confidence
discuss how to cope or handle the feelings May not be able to “read” social situations like their
peers
Sensory activities help to “pull them back” into
Usually have difficulty naming and identifying
the present moment
emotions in themselves and others
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RECOMMENDED WEBSITES
Collaborative for Academic, Social and Emotional
Learning (CASEL)
In Schools then Tools for Families (Parent Packet)
TACSEI
QUESTIONS OR www.challengingbehavior.org
COMMENTS CSFEL
csefel.vanderbilt.edu/
Lifeskills4kids.com.au (free ebook)
Breathing CD
www.miapsych.com
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YOU TUBE CALMING VIDEOS RESOURCES:
Cookie Monster & Calming: Allen, J. & Klein, R. (1996). Ready, Set, RELAX: A research
based program of relaxation, learning, and self esteem for
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FlNqAzm5agA children. Watertown, WI: Inner Coaching.
Second Step Calm Down for Older Kids Bodrova, E., & Leong, D. (2008, March). Developing self-
regulation in kindergarten: can we keep all the crickets in the
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tIiZHH92DL0 basket? Young Children, NAEYC.
Feelings Song: Bradley, R., Atkinson, M., Tomasino, D., Rees, R. (2009).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UsISd1AMNYU Facilitating emotional self-regulation in preschool children.
Institute of HeartMath. Boulder Creek, CA.
Children’s Meditation Song: Doucette, S. (2011, May). Why does deep breathing calm you
down? Livestrong.com
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tVM9JKbIIqU
Florez, I. (2011, July). Developing young children’s self-
Calm the Amygdala: regulation through everyday experiences. Young Children.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zs559guIGDo NAEYC.
Hopper, D. (2004, Nov). Life skills 4 kids: Relaxation skills 4
Belly Breathe: kids. Life Skills 4 kids.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_mZbzDOpylA
RESOURCES:
Scanlon, C. (2010). Emotion regulation in children: A
guide for teachers. University of Pittsburg.
www.sbbh.pitt.edu
Stepp, G. (2011). Teaching children the art of self-control.
Vision.org.
Webster-Stratton, C. Helping children learn to regulate
their emotions. University of Washington.
Wilke-Deaton, K (2013). Over 75 quick techniques for
children with emotional and behavior problems. CMI
Education Institute.
Willingham, D. (2011). Can teachers increase students’
self-control? American Educator. Summer, 22-27.
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What Caregivers Do
to Help their Students
Learn Self-Regulation
• Provide stability and consistency • Talk about your own feelings
- Clear rules, limit-setting - Model for children how to express
- Predictable routines and cope with big feelings