MOISES, Jocelyn D.

BAPoSci 1A

Do you agree that men can take care of children just as well as women can. Why or why not?
– Yes because honestly men are more lovable than women, I mean men loves to spoil their
children.
– Dipende, Ngamin iti lalaki ket haan nga kinanayun nga adda iti balay ngamin syempre lalaki
isu iti padre di pamilya iso iti rumwar ag birok iti trabaho.
– Yes because men can also take care of its children with or without the mother because its
their responsibility according to the law, children have the right to be treated well by their
parents. Both mother and Father.
– Wen ah met! Anak na ngarud alangan met nga haan na nga alagaan nga kasla pinagalagak,
mas nalalaing pay kitdi nga mangalaga ta naanos isuna dagiti annak na.
– Wen para kanyak, ngamin iti lalaki ket mas na an-anus nga agawir iti ubing wenno anak na
kaysa kanyak. Mandiyak lang ammo dadduma, basta parq kanyak lalaki pay iti mas nalalaing
nga agawir iti ubbing na.
For the five Mothers that I interviewed, one is saying that, it is the father / mother or both
parents responsibility to take good care of their children, equal treatment and attention that
should be given to their children, specifically in parental guidance. While the Second Mother
says that it kind of depends Because obviously a father should lead and work for his family, in
that case men are always not in the house for his children but the second Mother depended
that men can also be like a mother to its children but in a other ways that he can.
The three (3) left Mother claimed that men are more dominant in this kind of case because,
men are more lovable and have strong patience if one of its children having tantrums or getting
crazy over things, men loves to spoil their children honestly. Therefore , for the five Mothers
that i get along and chat with I assumed that Mens are more good in taking care of children
than women.
According to Sheila Mullet’s and Sara Ruddick ; Genuine caring is not a necessary to involve
under systematic conditions of domination and subordination, it is not about who’s working,
who knows everything, who can take good care about the children and who leads a family. It is
About how you care and protect your children as a parents, as a hero and guide them for their
journey to be a good person and be there to celebrate for achieving their goals in life. Taking
care of Childrens is not a game that who is stronger and more powerful is the one who is better
taking care of them. Both men and women are capable of maternal thinking Sara Ruddick said,
both men and women sure thing have different ways of guiding and how handling their kids,
but parents have only wants for their children and that is to protect them, doesn’t want to
involve in such things that may harm them. Parents know the best for its children even though
sometimes other kids, feels like chaining their feet for nothing. Both men and women can lead
the house or a family, because having a family is not a game and a competition where both
parents can compete to each other for who is more better handling a family and caring for their
children. It is a home, home that can satisfy and make you happy and contented after facing
problems, struggles etc. outside of the door.