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Definition
Explanation
Assertiveness training is based on the principle that we all have a right to express our
thoughts, feelings, and needs to others in a respectful way. When we don't feel like we can
express ourselves openly, we may become depressed, anxious, or angry, and our sense of
self-worth may suffer. Being assertive means finding the right balance between passivity and
aggression .It means having a strong sense of yourself and your value, and acknowledging
that you deserve to get what you want.
Purpose
The purpose of assertiveness training is to teach persons appropriate strategies for identifying
and acting on their desires, needs, and opinions while remaining respectful of others.
Developer
Techniques of Assertiveness
Broken Record:
The "broken record" technique consists of simply repeating your requests or your refusals
every time you are met with resistance.
Fogging:
Fogging is a useful technique if people are behaving in a manipulative or aggressive way.
Rather than arguing back, fogging aims to give a minimal, calm response using terms that
are placating but not defensive, while at the same time not agreeing to meet demands.
The Stuck Record Technique:
The Stuck Record technique involves repeating what you want, time and time again, without
raising the tone of your voice, becoming angry or irritated.
Positive Enquiry:
Positive enquiry is a simple technique for handling positive comments such as praise and
compliments. Positive inquiry asks the compliment-payer for more detail about what they
liked and agree with it.
Negative Enquiry:
Negative enquiry is the simple techniques for responding to criticism .negative inquiry
replies to the critic by asking for more details about what they did not like.
Negative Assertion:
Negative assertion can help you to accept your mistakes and faults without having to
agree with hostile criticism.
I-Statements:
I-Statements can help you focus on and be clear about your own thoughts and
feelings.. The real focus in I-statements is on the "I feel," "I want", “I think” part of
the statement.
Tips to become more assertive