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Introduction
Focalization The specialist has double The client is the center and
focalization and is the context provides a
required to take into perspective of evaluating
account the context in both the client and counselor.
which aid is provided.
Counseling skills can be very important because they are helpfull in getting
information, giving the counselor a position from where he can influence the
interviewer. The starting point in emphasizing ethics comes from the client, the
client's ethical expectations that seem simple at first glance. Usually, the client’s
ethical expectations refer to: the trust invested in the specialist, the respect received
from counselor and counselor’s competence:
• confidence – involves a certain risk from the
client who asks for help and protection of personal information which is disclosed
by the client. To ensure the integrity of the relationship, the counselor and client
will check if they have the same objectives in solving the problem;
• respect - refers to the willingness to accept
and capitalize the differences between people. The counselor will work to raise the
self-esteem of the client, stating that he is a person who deserves respect. The
counselor is challenged in his practice to try to understand and accept the
differences between people, rather than to judge people who seem strange;
• competence - requires proper use of
information, of the counselor’s knowledge. The counselor will avoid to experiment
with the client the unknown techniques in its professional formation or to use
skills in solving their own problems.
After establishing the purpose of the interview the counselor will start to
gather basic information such as age, marital status, family details and medical
history. He will be careful, also, at the general health of the client and at the
subjective relationship with his body. The counselor will ask a series of questions
like(Assagioli,1974, p.93):
There were serious illness in childhood or adulthood?
- The client has a psychiatric history?
- The client has ever had treatment for psychological problems?
- How would the client define his health?
- The client gets, or previously had a consistent medication?
- The client is considering himself strong or weak, healthy or unhealthy?
The counselor will allow the dialogue to develop, giving the client space
for spontaneous self-expression, introducing the following questions when the time
is right:
Difficult aspects of the clients life will be left for later, to
establish an authentic report, marked by trust, presence and security for the
client; when the client feels safe to be more open and honest, he might
reveal more from the perspective of his own motivations. Well-trained
counselor will feel that the time has arrived and will begin to explore the
emotional level, exploring the general feelings of the client and its current
problems.
Areas that are needed to be explored are centered on the following
questions that are addressed to the client:
- What is his relationship with the emotional experience?
- How it relates with his own feelings?
- Tends to express, or suppress them?
- His parents were free in expressing their emotions?
- What kind of models did the parents offer?
Gathering information on the subject offers greater openness to
the counselor, a very important situation if the counselor will work to
transform the basic patterns, rather than relieve symptoms.
The counselor can continue with other questions such as:
- What role did the client have in his family?
- He was a peacemaker, a rebel, a good girl or a clown??
This will help the counselor understand the client's family system.
- Why did he came to counseling and what does he hope to
achieve?
- What are the biggest challenges in the life of the client?
- What is the real reason for coming to counseling?
- What are his deepest fears and how does he perceive them?
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During the interview, the counselor will listen actively and will
reflect, reflect and paraphrase clients communication. This helps establish
a relationship and a common language, and allows the client to be seen,
heard and understood. The counselor will encourage him to ask questions
if they arise during their dialogue.
References
1. Assagioly,R.A., (1974) Psychosintesis: A manual of principles and
techniques, N.Y.HobbsDorman; Baltimore: Penguin
2. Clarkson P., (2003) The Therapeutic Relationship,Whurr Publishers,
London and Philadelphia
3. Culley, S., Bond, T., (2004), Integrative Counseling Skills in Action, 2nd,
Edition, Sage Publications, London.
4. Drobot, L., (2009), Consiliere şi psihoterapie integrativă, Ed. Mirton,
Timişoara.
5. Hough, M., (2010) Counselling skills and Theory, Hodder Education
6. Sutton J., Stewart W (2008) Learning to Counsel Develop the skills, insight
and knwledge to counsel others, Spring Hill Hause