PRO
The liberal position regarding sex is that any type
of non-harmful or non-exploitive sexual conduct
is morally permissible and should be legal.
Positions:
1. Freedom
2. Cultural relativism
3. Different strokes.
Sexual activity serves a wider range of functions
than mere procreation. It strengthens a couple’s
relationship, enhances their feelings towards
each other, and gives people a great sense of
pleasure; these non-procreative functions apply
to many nontraditional sexual practices as well as
they do to traditional ones.
children thrive just as well in many nontraditional
family settings as they do in traditional ones.
Certainly, all parents should give the highest
priority to their children’s wellbeing, but there
are ways of doing this without eliminating
nontraditional sexual practices.
There are ways of reducing the risks associated
with nontraditional sexual practices. Safe sex
reduces STDs, contraception use reduces
unwanted pregnancies, avoiding one night stands
reduces feelings of shame. With the right type of
risk management, the benefits of premarital sex
may outweigh the potential harms and risks.
1. Freedom: One of our most important values is
the freedom of individuals to act as they choose,
as long as their actions do not harm others, and
this includes nontraditional sexual activity.
Toleration of differences is an important
component of a free society, and, while
conservative critics might not especially like
nontraditional sexual practices, they are not
justified in attempting to suppress them.
2. Cultural relativism: Like many social values,
moral attitudes about sexual practices vary
dramatically from culture to culture, and our
society is slowly accepting nontraditional sexual
practices as a social norm. It makes no sense to
hold people to a nineteenth century standard of
sexual morality when our culture has shifted to
one that is so much more sexually permissive. 
CON
The conservative position regarding sex is that
sexual activity should take place only between a
man and a woman in a monogamous marriage.
Nontraditional sexual practices such as premarital
sex, is considered as immoral and should be
illegal.
Positions:
Natural law
Family values
Harm from STDs and pregnancy
 1. Natural law: sexual activity is for the purpose
of procreation, and purely recreational sex is
contrary to this natural aim. Human nature is not
open-ended, and does not allow for a free-for-all
of any conduct that we like. Our nature is defined
by a larger human good that is reflected in many
of our natural inclinations and functions
2. Family values: Nontraditional sexual practices
damage the social institution of marriage and its
commitment to raising children in the most
stable home situation. Society is not just about
the desires of individual adults, but also about
raising the next generation of citizens who will
carry on in our footsteps and hopefully improve
on what we have done. Nontraditional sexual
practices weaken family units by leading to single
parenthood, same sex parenthood, divorces,
marital conflict, all of which reduce a child’s
opportunity to thrive
 3. Harm from STDs and pregnancy:
Nontraditional sexual practices are accompanied
by serious harms, such as sexually transmitted
diseases, unwanted pregnancies, and
psychological feelings of shame. To the extent
that we judge the rightness of our conduct based
on their consequences, the negative side effects
of nontraditional sexual practices are enormous,
and not worth the risk. 
Freely chosen sexual actions of nontraditionalists
may have a negative impact on the lives of
traditionalists. Sexual permissiveness pervades all
aspects of culture including movies, television
shows, music, internet sites. This compromises
the abilities of traditional parents to raise their
children in a way that conforms to more
traditional sexual values.
Just because everyone is doing it does not mean
that society should approve of it. True, people’s
sexual attitudes and behavior do change with
cultural trends, but traditional sexual values have
withstood the test of time and remain an
important standard of morality amid cultural
shifts.
        3. Different Strokes: Some people are not Traditional monogamous marriage is a viable
suited for traditional monogamous marriage, and option for most people. Some may opt out if they
sexual alternatives should be available to them. find it too restricting, but that does not mean
To the extent that homosexuality is biologically society should approve of every sexual activity
grounded, it is not realistic to expect gays to that non-traditionalists choose to engage in.
change their sexual orientation, any more than it
is possible for heterosexuals to change theirs. 
The most pervasive nontraditional sexual practice
is premarital sex, and people largely approve of
it.
Pros Cons
 Once you get married, sex will be a part  The biggest disadvantage of having
of your life for obvious reasons. Hence, it premarital sex is that more often than not
is much better if you know about the it is not safe. In most cases,
same at an earlier stage of your life, and contraceptives are not used, which leads
there is no better way than experiencing it to STDs and sometimes even results in
firsthand. Here is a guide to first-time sex abortions. FAQs on induced abortion are
for women. answered here.
 In India, sex is considered a taboo and is  Having a physical relation with someone
generally not discussed in detail, which leads to greater emotional connect. In
leave us uninformed about it. It is such cases, if any of the partners is not
therefore much better to experience it faithful, it can be emotionally disastrous
before marriage so that you know how for the other partner.
your body reacts to the hormonal changes.  In many cases having multiple partners
Adjusting to the same after marriage may before marriage results in a need for
be a pain, especially when you have a variety, which can lead to infidelity
non-cooperating partner. among partners after marriage.
 Sex plays a big role in a successful  There is a factor of accountability that
marriage. Having premarital sex will help comes in after marriage which is often
you know and understand the sex absent before marriage. There is always a
positions you are comfortable in. Trying risk of you being duped by your partner
them out before marriage will make you into videos and pictures which can
more confident in bed. Here are top obviously wreck your life.
kamasutra positions to add that zing to
your sex life.
 Having a healthy sex life before marriage
results in better mental and physical
stability with your partner. Of course one
can argue that the same can be achieved
after marriage, but we are no longer living
in dark ages where child marriages were
rampant. It s more likely that you will
want to know and understand your partner
much before you actually get married.
 There will be awkwardness and it may
just be an exploration of each others
bodies when you have sex for the first
time. You may also face sexual problems
like premature ejaculation, erectile
dysfunction and even an allergy to your
partner s semen. It is always better to
solve these issues before marriage so that
you do not have to address them in the
future. Here are some tips to deal with
erectile dysfunction and premature
ejaculation.
 These days, people generally marry when
they are in their late 20s. However, your
body is mature enough for sex after 18. It
makes no point for one to starve for sex
for such a long time. You can never
predict the side effects it can result into. It
is important to remember that everything
has a right time and you can choose to do
it whenever you want to.