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GENDSO030 Acceptable behavior – behavior either

LESSON 1: SOCIETY AND BEHAVIOR praised or tolerated


Unacceptable behavior – behavior
Throughout this course, we will be either disliked, discouraged, or
discussing about the role of gender, punished
society, and its correlates on human Personality – characteristic patterns of
behavior. behavior
Habit – any regularly repeated behavior
Behavior is generally defined ways that that requires little or no
individuals interact thought and is learned rather than
with their environment, and can be innate.
observable or unobservable. Learning – any relatively change in
According to William Glasser, Behavior behavior as a result of experience
has four components: Experience – the conscious component
Thinking, Feeling, Action, and of human existence; results
Physiology. The interplay between from one’s interaction to the internal
these components make up the total and external environment
human experience. Reward – a type ofbehavior reinforcer
(something that
Society is defined as an aggregate of strengthens behavior):
people living together in a a. that is either the addition of
more or less ordered community. It is something pleasant or pleasurable
among the regulating agents of (i.e., food, money, freebies, etc.); or
behavior, providing information, b. the removal of something unpleasant
guidance, and in most cases, rewards or painful (i.e., choke or
and sanctions to encourage or training collar for dogs, tight harness for
discourage behaviors it considers horses, play restrictions
acceptable or unacceptable. Evaluation for children, etc.)
of the acceptability of certain
behaviors are often based on existing Punishment – a type of behavior
norms. inhibitor (something that weakens
behavior) that is either:
Behavior – our manner of thoughts, a. the addition of something unpleasant
feelings, and actions or painful (i.e., corporal
Thoughts – the cognitive component of punishment, detention, etc.); or
human behavior b. the removal of something pleasant or
Feelings – the affective component of pleasurable (i.e., cancellation
human behavior of rights/freedom privileges, withdrawal
Actions – the observable component of of positive regard,
human behavior; heavily sequestration of valuables like
influenced by thoughts, feelings, and cellphone, property, etc.)
physiology.
Covert behavior – behavior that is
unobservable, or not directly
observable (thoughts and feelings)
Overt behavior – observable behavior
(actions)
Synthesis Folkways – describe socially acceptable
“What’s beautiful about a desert, is that behavior but do not have great moral
somewhere it significance; common customs of
has a well.” everyday life (social preferences); may
-The Little Prince also
refer to behaviors that are learned and
We may look like deserts on the outside shared by a social group.
but our journey towards growth Examples: Bowing or shaking hands as
and maturation may eventually reveal a form of formal greeting
the “water well” or “gold” that is Mores – describe socially acceptable
hidden inside us. The journey to self- behavior with great moral significance;
awareness can be scary at first, but violation of them endangers the
it has its rewards. The more we get to society’s stability (social requirements);
know our self, the more we have traditional customs and conventions
the opportunity to accept, forgive, and that are typical of a particular society
love ourselves more, and this in Examples: Sexual activity should be
turn develops our ability to consciously done in private, preferably after
shape our behavior towards what marriage
we wish to attain. Laws – norms that are formally
inscribed at the state or federal level
Society – an enduring social group and can
living in a particular place whose result to formal punishment for
members violations, such as fines, incarnation, or
are mutually interdependent and share even
political and other institutions, laws and death; they are formal social controls
mores, and a common culture. that outline rules, habits, and customs a
society uses to enforce conformity to its
Factors that Influence norms.
Cultural Norms Examples: Individuals convicted of
____ rape or murder goes to prison
1. Culture Taboos – bans and inhibitions resulting
2. Religion from social customs or religious practice
3. Traditions Examples: Incestuous relationships
4. Values such as marrying your cousin
5. Attitudes Culture – collective term to identify the
Norms – standard ideas, customs, and social
ways of behaving. behavior of a particular people or
____ society.
Religion – a system of belief and
Key Types of Norms: practice accepting a ‘binding’
1. Folkways relation to a divine being (in the case of
2. Mores monotheists), or divine
3. Laws beings (in the case of polytheists)
4. Taboos Traditions – ideas and beliefs that are
passed down from one
generation to the next generation
Values – a person or group’s judgement Synthesis
about what’s important in life. Because of existing social norms, some
Attitudes – a set of belief, emotion, or behaviors are encouraged and others
action towards a particular are discouraged. According to the Law
object. of Effect of human behavior, behaviors
followed by positive experience or
Synthesis consequences are strengthened, and
“Train up a child in the way he should behaviors followed by negative
go; so when he is experience or consequences are
old he will not depart from it.” weakened. Norms often provide the
- Christian Community Bible attitudes and/or consequences that
Since birth, we are taught about bad or impact how one’s experience with the
good, right or wrong by our primary world can be pleasant or unpleasant,
caregivers, often family members like and this, in turn, influence whether or
mom and dad. We learn various not precedent behaviors are repeated,
manners and principles, and are often inhibited, or extinguished. All behaviors
expected to behave according to the are driven by needs that the person
values our families consider significant. seeks to fulfill, and when a need is not
As we mature and widen our social met, it results in pain or distress
sphere, we continue learning about (William Glasser, Fritz Perls). Social
what people expect of us outside our norms often act on our need for
homes; and though to varying in security and belongingness, among
degree, live according to the moral others. When persons do not behave in
principles we were exposed early on. a socially accepted behavior, for
Throughout life, our behaviors continue instance, they are often disliked or
to evaluated by the people around us, shunned by members of the society,
either implicitly or explicitly. Some often enough to cause significant
behaviors are accepted, amount of distress. This loss of security
while others are not. The level of and belongingness is not limited to the
acceptance often depend on what is social and psychological sphere,
agreed upon by the majority of persons however. In some communities, losing
in our community. Oftentimes a set of the favor of its members can also mean
roles and expectations are laid before the loss of certain economic privileges,
us. These roles and expectations vary hence a threat to survival. Meanwhile,
from culture to culture. Depending on persons who violated the society’s laws
various factors, we either meet these may be imprisoned or fined for specific
expectations with difficulty or ease. violations, and in extreme cases, even
Nevertheless, awareness about them killed. Nevertheless, a person’s
help us navigate our social environment conformity to society’s norms may vary,
more effectively in response to the society’s rigid or less
rigid nature of existing norms.

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