LESSON 1: SOCIETY AND BEHAVIOR praised or tolerated
Unacceptable behavior – behavior Throughout this course, we will be either disliked, discouraged, or discussing about the role of gender, punished society, and its correlates on human Personality – characteristic patterns of behavior. behavior Habit – any regularly repeated behavior Behavior is generally defined ways that that requires little or no individuals interact thought and is learned rather than with their environment, and can be innate. observable or unobservable. Learning – any relatively change in According to William Glasser, Behavior behavior as a result of experience has four components: Experience – the conscious component Thinking, Feeling, Action, and of human existence; results Physiology. The interplay between from one’s interaction to the internal these components make up the total and external environment human experience. Reward – a type ofbehavior reinforcer (something that Society is defined as an aggregate of strengthens behavior): people living together in a a. that is either the addition of more or less ordered community. It is something pleasant or pleasurable among the regulating agents of (i.e., food, money, freebies, etc.); or behavior, providing information, b. the removal of something unpleasant guidance, and in most cases, rewards or painful (i.e., choke or and sanctions to encourage or training collar for dogs, tight harness for discourage behaviors it considers horses, play restrictions acceptable or unacceptable. Evaluation for children, etc.) of the acceptability of certain behaviors are often based on existing Punishment – a type of behavior norms. inhibitor (something that weakens behavior) that is either: Behavior – our manner of thoughts, a. the addition of something unpleasant feelings, and actions or painful (i.e., corporal Thoughts – the cognitive component of punishment, detention, etc.); or human behavior b. the removal of something pleasant or Feelings – the affective component of pleasurable (i.e., cancellation human behavior of rights/freedom privileges, withdrawal Actions – the observable component of of positive regard, human behavior; heavily sequestration of valuables like influenced by thoughts, feelings, and cellphone, property, etc.) physiology. Covert behavior – behavior that is unobservable, or not directly observable (thoughts and feelings) Overt behavior – observable behavior (actions) Synthesis Folkways – describe socially acceptable “What’s beautiful about a desert, is that behavior but do not have great moral somewhere it significance; common customs of has a well.” everyday life (social preferences); may -The Little Prince also refer to behaviors that are learned and We may look like deserts on the outside shared by a social group. but our journey towards growth Examples: Bowing or shaking hands as and maturation may eventually reveal a form of formal greeting the “water well” or “gold” that is Mores – describe socially acceptable hidden inside us. The journey to self- behavior with great moral significance; awareness can be scary at first, but violation of them endangers the it has its rewards. The more we get to society’s stability (social requirements); know our self, the more we have traditional customs and conventions the opportunity to accept, forgive, and that are typical of a particular society love ourselves more, and this in Examples: Sexual activity should be turn develops our ability to consciously done in private, preferably after shape our behavior towards what marriage we wish to attain. Laws – norms that are formally inscribed at the state or federal level Society – an enduring social group and can living in a particular place whose result to formal punishment for members violations, such as fines, incarnation, or are mutually interdependent and share even political and other institutions, laws and death; they are formal social controls mores, and a common culture. that outline rules, habits, and customs a society uses to enforce conformity to its Factors that Influence norms. Cultural Norms Examples: Individuals convicted of ____ rape or murder goes to prison 1. Culture Taboos – bans and inhibitions resulting 2. Religion from social customs or religious practice 3. Traditions Examples: Incestuous relationships 4. Values such as marrying your cousin 5. Attitudes Culture – collective term to identify the Norms – standard ideas, customs, and social ways of behaving. behavior of a particular people or ____ society. Religion – a system of belief and Key Types of Norms: practice accepting a ‘binding’ 1. Folkways relation to a divine being (in the case of 2. Mores monotheists), or divine 3. Laws beings (in the case of polytheists) 4. Taboos Traditions – ideas and beliefs that are passed down from one generation to the next generation Values – a person or group’s judgement Synthesis about what’s important in life. Because of existing social norms, some Attitudes – a set of belief, emotion, or behaviors are encouraged and others action towards a particular are discouraged. According to the Law object. of Effect of human behavior, behaviors followed by positive experience or Synthesis consequences are strengthened, and “Train up a child in the way he should behaviors followed by negative go; so when he is experience or consequences are old he will not depart from it.” weakened. Norms often provide the - Christian Community Bible attitudes and/or consequences that Since birth, we are taught about bad or impact how one’s experience with the good, right or wrong by our primary world can be pleasant or unpleasant, caregivers, often family members like and this, in turn, influence whether or mom and dad. We learn various not precedent behaviors are repeated, manners and principles, and are often inhibited, or extinguished. All behaviors expected to behave according to the are driven by needs that the person values our families consider significant. seeks to fulfill, and when a need is not As we mature and widen our social met, it results in pain or distress sphere, we continue learning about (William Glasser, Fritz Perls). Social what people expect of us outside our norms often act on our need for homes; and though to varying in security and belongingness, among degree, live according to the moral others. When persons do not behave in principles we were exposed early on. a socially accepted behavior, for Throughout life, our behaviors continue instance, they are often disliked or to evaluated by the people around us, shunned by members of the society, either implicitly or explicitly. Some often enough to cause significant behaviors are accepted, amount of distress. This loss of security while others are not. The level of and belongingness is not limited to the acceptance often depend on what is social and psychological sphere, agreed upon by the majority of persons however. In some communities, losing in our community. Oftentimes a set of the favor of its members can also mean roles and expectations are laid before the loss of certain economic privileges, us. These roles and expectations vary hence a threat to survival. Meanwhile, from culture to culture. Depending on persons who violated the society’s laws various factors, we either meet these may be imprisoned or fined for specific expectations with difficulty or ease. violations, and in extreme cases, even Nevertheless, awareness about them killed. Nevertheless, a person’s help us navigate our social environment conformity to society’s norms may vary, more effectively in response to the society’s rigid or less rigid nature of existing norms.