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30/05/2020 Non-judgemental – UMP University

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The non-judgemental meta frame is essential in limiting feelings of slut-shaming and will make it easier
to sexualize. Showing your non-judgmental beliefs first will help to set the meta frame, which allows the
girl to set her own non-judgmental frame.

Guy: “I don’t judge. As long as nobody gets hurt, then I think they can do or say
whatever they want.”

Guy: “I love how open-minded you are. I feel like I could tell you anything without
you judging me.”

This behavior must be consistent. If she notices even the slightest hint of judgment from you, then you
will ultimately lose this frame. If she begins to talk about sex or her previous partners openly, you must be
entirely comfortable with this. If you still believe this is “slutty” or “wrong,” you must seriously question
your belief. Go over the Mindset chapter again and challenge the way you view female sexuality.

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