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THE BOY-CHILD
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Contents
Introduction:..........................................................................................................................................3
Background to the Study:......................................................................................................................3
Analysis and evaluate the evolving definitions and discourse:..............................................................4
Emotional and Behavioral Diversity aspects:.........................................................................................5
The Society's Role in Adolescent Maladaptive Behavior:......................................................................6
Parental Role Modeling :.......................................................................................................................7
Recommendations:..............................................................................................................................10
Conclusions:.........................................................................................................................................10
Reference:...........................................................................................................................................12
APPENDIX:...........................................................................................................................................14
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Introduction:
Throughout history and tradition, the importance of the male child has been increased. Due to
his family and the broader world, despite the high price charged for the child. He was present
globally and locally, causing havoc on the very citizens he was supposed to protect. This
study aimed to evaluate the social factors contributing to child maladjustment in some
Nairobi and Kiambu Counties, Kenya, rehabilitation institutions. The study examined the
effect of parenting and culture on the baby's behavior. The research also sought to decide
what could promote pro-social behavior in boys who show behavioral discomfort. Social
learning theories and psychosocial stages influenced the research. The research results are
arranged thematically. The results of this study have made some factors clear that contribute
to the maladjustment of the boy's behavior and therefore promote effective parenting and
brings profit to the family, it was thought. It is because the children had the responsibility to
expand the lineage of their fathers (Christopher Mbiti, 1997). Traditionally, men have been
reliable, giving their society peace. They are the guardians of socio-cultural environments,
acts, including theft, fighting, vandalism, and all forms of crime, which all contradict his
position as the guardian of the nation's welfare. He also was a source of insecurity in his self-
destructive life, including alcohol abuse and drugs, which prevented him from maintaining
healthy ties and predisposed him to criminal behavior (Farrington & Welsh, 2007).
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Analysis and evaluate the evolving definitions and discourse:
International and local daily newspapers have claimed that a boy-child epidemic is in trouble.
Research on issues faced by the boy-child in America, for example, Tierney et al. (2007),
showed that almost three-quarters of the youth convicted were boys in 2004. Incense, theft,
and rape were their most common law-breaking conduct. In their delinquency research,
Synder and Sickmund (2006) reported that between 1997 and 2005, about 85% of the
adolescents in the United States were young. The FIF 2008 reports that, between the ages of
15 and 19, children are more likely to be victims of major violent crimes such as rape, theft,
and murder in the United States. Furthermore, the FBI (2001) found that in 2000, men in the
United States committed the vast majority of crimes (83 percent). Pruitt (2007) also stated
that about 40% of the 12th-grade boys surveyed were illegal drugs in 2006. The National
Education Center (2007) also reported that 56% of boys aged 16-24 dropped out of school in
2004 in the United States. Kabeca (1985), Kenyatta (1965), and Mbevi educated the boy-
child in his early adult duties (2010). The mother laid the cornerstone in her first four years.
He eventually became an adult, mostly through his father and other males of his nuclear and
extended family, as he grew up (Kenyatta, 1965; Magesa, 1998 & Mweru, 2005). (Magesa,
1998; Kenyatta, 1965; Mweru, 2005). About four years ago, a dad will take the kid with him
while he goes on his daily tasks of herding livestock. The child has been subjected to ongoing
schooling and preparation and has grown up well-grounded to take various roles in
adulthood. In this way, he developed a clear sense of what he was and what he was, thereby
shaping his ego identity and a positive self-image. Similarly, according to the United Nations
Drugs and Crime Special Report, Nairobi and its surroundings are among those regions of
Kenya that have high crime rates by young men (2012). A National Crime Research Center
(2012) report identifies the country's 46 well-known organized crime groups with 17 working
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groups in Nairobi. The gangs included the Taliban, Jeshi La Mzee, all based in the north-
eastern parts of Kenya, in Nairobi, in Mungiki, Nairobi, and Al Shabab. The NCRC survey
further notes that male genders have special roles to play in a gang. For example, the violent
killing, theft, drug kidnapping, raping, and extortion of money from the general population is
a matter of males responsible for protecting them. Others outside these gangs have also been
misuse. Four khat chews (Catha edulis)—a lifestyle that can predispose them to misconduct.
early adult duties. During the first four years of his life, the mother built the system. In his
nuclear and extended family, his father and other males gradually socialized in his adult role
(Kenyatta, 1965; Magesa, 1998 & Mweru, 2005). A father took the boy from approximately
four when he went on herding daily animal activity. Therefore, the child was justified in
playing various roles in adulthood, thus creating a clear sense of what he is and what he
means, forming an ego identity and a good image. Parenthood and social environment in
most African contexts and Kenya traditional societies were and still are considered the key to
shaping child behavior. Parents take parental responsibility seriously in conservative families
and ensure that children are well prepared for social adaptation and future roles. They were
taught by example the moral values and beliefs of society (Mbiti, 1997). The involvement of
both parents was thus necessary to model responsible conduct to the moral standards of
society. The three authors say that a child's behavior represents the behavior of 5 of its
parents and that a child is learning from the behaviors of parents and people around it.
Children become behavioral by observing and imitating (Bandura, 1977). Therefore, a man
should not battle his wife or married couple; for example, they cannot call each other's names
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(Kabeca, 1985). Parents created a fostered environment in which a child imitated society's
desired actions and behaved altruistically to associate with the entire community.
The desires of society shaped the child's personality. The concept of parenthood was wider
than that of male and female biological parents. Mbevi (2010) reports that all adult household
members to whom the child belonged took on parental duties. The boy was the community
needed to meet its standards (Kabeca, 1985; Kenyatta, 1965 & Movie, 2010). The method is
in keeping with many Kenyan cultures in which the fathers have taken their task of feeding
the child (Kabeca, 1985 & Kenyatta, 1965) seriously. There were strong relationships
between fathers and children, which meant the children's learning was consistent. The child
was also one of six companies belonging to his male children and other family members who
underwent their daily activities (Kabeca, 1985 & Kenyatta, 1965). It helped him build on the
people around them. Individuals exist at the family and group levels. As a result, families and
the larger society serve as role models for children. This study discovered that many adults
engaged in harmful behaviors such as alcohol/drug abuse, language abuse, and fighting
within a boy-child community. Numerous boys have recognized the prevalence of crimes
such as rape and murder in their homes. In addition, they could easily access narcotics and
alcohol. Based upon the theory of social learning (Bandura, 1977), which influenced this
research, the people with whom the boy communicated in his group contributed to his
disadvantage. The results are consistent with previous research by Mincey et al. (2008),
which showed that children living in social settings full of social evils are likely to follow
suit. The result suggests that individuals should be encouraged to model suitable conducts for
children to build a safe social atmosphere that produces well-adjusted children. A healthy
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social atmosphere offers a child the opportunity to develop the beliefs, standards, habits of
social behavior, and social skills required to become a functional part of his specific society
(Binh, 2012). As this was not the case, the culture led to the misadjustment of the behavior of
the boy-child. Findings also reveal that the climate of the infant was not completely unsafe
for changed behavior. More than half of the children had helpful relatives and neighbors, and
they also got support when they needed it. Binh (2012) found a shared affection for building
a stable society without space for inappropriate conduct. However, the positive role models
do not seem to affect the behavior of the boy-child. As Dong and Hung (2001) pointed out, if
a child's socialization process is incomplete or negative, 123 of them will create a young
person with a weak self-image who's disconnected from traditional social structures and has
little commitment to a law-abiding lifestyle. So this can explain why the boy did not benefit
others used offensive language before them (68.9 percent ). This environment is more likely
to damage the actions of the infant. Social science theorists show that children are willing to
adopt and imitate their parents' acts. Therefore, based on this analysis, the young child may
have adopted the actions of his male parent/default guardian. He may have viewed the
role models. That's how you go wrong. Table 4.8 summarizes the answer the children had to
their parents/guardians:
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Table 4.8 details indicate that most boys (74.4 percent) did not feel like it, while 71 percent s
aid their parents/guards did not like them well. The answers state the boys are unrelated to
their parents/guardians. Unrelated teens can be quickly drifting into risky and troublesome
activities, according to Carter and McGoldrick (1988). Barnes et al. (2006) found that young
people who are encouraged and nurtured by their parents have a high degree of trust and
personality and are less likely to become troubled. In this case, a boy's self-confidence and
fragile identity may have been low because of the relationship between him and his parents. It
can partly explain the boy's actions. Roughly half (52,2%) of kids said they had never worked
for the family, and few (38,9%) used to go with their parents. So both parents/guardians and
children are less likely to be together, meaning the kids are not socialized properly. Dong and
Hung (2001) notes that it increases the duty of children to carry out activities. They also learn
social competencies. It helps to build a better self-image which isolates them from
maladaptive behavior. If the parents/guardians have no duties or constructive activities for the
young child, they may have left their homes and have benefited from the wrong role models.
As already indicated, early socialization experiences are a profound and formal self-image,
attitudes, beliefs, and life-long actions. The conduct of boys who deviated from social
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standards is, therefore, no surprise. Socialization is the process used to acquire a person's
personality. It includes also studying how society should live, work and flourish through
contact with important people and institutions (Gruseck & Hastings 2007). Most (62,2%)
respondents accepted that their parents/guardians would feel unnecessary. Rodriguez (2007)
and Taylor (2008) said that negative assessments could lead to feelings of refusal that make
participation in anti-social behavior. Sanders (2005) reports that gangs, especially in city
centers, are a source of many crimes and are becoming a common route for young people.
Feelings of inner fragmentation, confusion about the direction of life, and the lack of social
status. Theories claim that the deficiency of proper negotiations could lead to feelings of
identity loss from one stage to the next (Mcleod, 2008). According to Schultz and Schultz
(2009), identity crises or roles lead to a strong identity conversation – Feelings of inner
fragmentation, confusion about the direction of life, and the lack of social status. There have
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Recommendations:
1. Both the boy-child and parents/guardians have to be advised. For starters, the
boy/child can be encouraged to look for possible solutions other than stealing. On the
other hand, parents/guardians should consider their position in deciding the behavior
of children.
information and know-how must influence the actions of the boy-child and the
transfers of money to older people in society can be implemented, some of whom are
guardians of their grandchildren. This will help protect the child and other children in
scheme of monthly transfers of money to the elderly, some of whom are guardians of
their grandchildren. It helps to shield children and other children from lack of
necessities in general.
Conclusions:
The study results indicate that parenting, which is important for shaping the actions of the
infant, is defective. In a wider sense, the lack of the father and the bad attitudes of certain
male parents in society have helped address the child's behavioural problems. As he is
without help and adequate modelling from the dad/male figure as expected from society, the
boy in recovery centres seems to have an identity crisis. Within cultural standards provided
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literature is a central element of identity creation as a primary source of internalization of the
community and structuring of society. Based on the study's findings, it concludes that
parental education is poor and necessary for shaping the conduct of the child.
Furthermore, the family as a primary source of social internalization and personality structure
is a gateway to identity formation the modern Kenyan society, and particularly the social
environment in which children come from the refurbishment facilities seems restricted in
raising children in a socially accepted environment that corresponds to the socially designed
gender roles. It is shown by the parents/guardians of the boy's child's insufficiency to fulfill
their fundamental needs, use good guidelines/disciplines, provide enough time, and a role
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APPENDIX:
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