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Why do Friends matter? This is one of the central questions addressed in Judy
Dunn’s new book, Children’s Friendships: The Beginnings of Intimacy. Professor
Dunn, an eminent scholar of developmental psychology at the Institute of Psychia-
try, is widely known for careful and elegant longitudinal studies conducted in En-
gland and in Pennsylvania (USA) that detail the development of family and friend
relationships during the early and middle childhood years. As was the case in previ-
ous volumes on related topics (e.g., Young Children’s Close Relationships: Beyond
Attachment; Separate Lives: Why Siblings Are So Different), these longitudinal
studies provide rich fodder for Dunn’s theses about the developmental significance
of close relationships. In the present volume, she argues that friendships during
early childhood provide experiences that are crucial for normative cognitive, emo-
tional, and social development.
The evidence may be familiar, but it bears repeating nonetheless. First, friends
are an important source of social support. Because many young children spend con-
siderable time away from home in child care settings, peers occupy a central place in
the social world of early childhood. Dunn marshals evidence to support the conten-
tion that friends may provide a buffer against behavior problems, victimization,
school adjustment difficulties, and disturbances linked to the birth of a sibling. Sec-
ond, friendship provides a ‘crucible’ for exploring the emotional world. Pretend play
provides young children with the opportunity to ‘share what is worrying as well as
exciting’ (p. 28). Dunn’s findings indicate that by middle childhood, inner states are
discussed more often with friends than with family members. Third, friendship is an
important context for moral development. Because a friendship ‘is often the first
relationship in which children begin to care about and try to understand someone
else, and to respond to the feelings, needs, and troubles of others’ (p. 5), it is an im-
portant context in which children learn to consider perspectives other than their own.
Dunn cites evidence that concern about the needs of a friend coincides with the on-
set of sophisticated conflict resolution strategies. The list goes on. The influence of
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Malden, MA: Blackwell, 2004.
Acknowledgment
B.L. received support for the preparation of this essay from the US National Institute of
Mental Health (MH58116). We are grateful to Bill Bukowski, Wyndol Furman, Bill Hartup,
and Ken Rubin for their comments and suggestions.
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