101 Kinky Things - An Extensive List of Kinks

and Fetishes
 1950’s Fetish – roleplay of the traditional, American, nuclear family – can be
practiced in reverse
 24/7 – a power exchange relationship that functions 24/7
 Abduction Seduction – kidnapping someone but in a loving manner
 Adult Baby – acting like an infant, wearing diapers and receiving care
 Aliens – fantasy about having sex with aliens, often abduction and forced
 Amazonian – wanting to get it on with really strong, authoritative women
 Amputees – getting turned on by people with amputations
 Anal Sex – some people just like it in the butt
 Armpits – arousal or enjoyment from smelling, licking, or kissing armpits
 Autofellatio – a guy giving a blowjob to himself
 Bare-backing – sex without a condom (E)
 Bathroom Control – deciding when someone can use the restroom
 Biting – gimme those teeth
 Blood Choking – making someone pass out by restricting blood flow to the brain (E)
 Blood Play – sexual arousal from seeing, letting, or playing with blood. Has many
other subgenres like vampirism (E)
 Body Painting – painting bodies, treating the skin as a human canvas
 Bondage – restraining or restricting movement
 Branding – marking the skin with a heated object to form an image, word, or
symbol (E)
 Breast or Nipple Torture – the equivalent to CBT, causing pain to the breasts and
nipples (E)
 Breath Play – coking by restricting breathing (E)
 Caning – stroking someone with a cane
 CBT – cock and ball torture – causing pain to male genitalia (E)
 Chasity – no sex for you
 Clothed Sex – sex with clothes on, so the fabric goes inside you
 Collaring – wearing a collar to show you are a submissive. Can be as serious as a
wedding ring in some BDSM circles
 Consensual Non-consent – also known as rape play (still consensual)
 Corseting/Tight-lacing – shape changing of the body through corsetry, sometimes
includes breath-play
 Cross Dressing – wearing another “gender’s” clothing
 Culcockery – when a male partner loves watching his woman have sex with another
man – a form of humiliation
 Cupping – heating up a specialized round cup that creates a vacuum on the skin –
often used in Chinese therapy
 Dacryphilia – turned on by tears/crying
 Double Penetration – one penis in the vagina, another in the ass
 Electric Play – the “safest” way is by using a TENS unit (E)
 Enema – douching or cleaning the anal cavity or rectum
 Exhibitionism – enjoying when other people watch you having sex
 Face Fucking – blowjob where the man roughly fucks someone’s mouth
 Facial Hair – you like beards and mustaches etc.
 Figging – inserting a peeled piece of fresh ginger into the anus
 Fire Play – play that involves fire (E)
 Fisting – using a fist to penetrate the vagina or anus
 Flogging – striking someone with a multi-tailed whip
 Food Play – using food during sex
 Foot Fetish – getting turned on by feet
 Forced Feeding – feeding someone so they gain weight
 Furry Yiff – dressing up in furry animal costumes itself isn’t considered sexual, but
if you DO have sex while in costume, it’s not just “furry”
 Garters and Stocking – many men get turned on seeing a woman in this (now)
uncommon underwear
 Gerontophilia – attraction to someone in a much older age group
 Golden Showers – peeing one someone (E)
 Graphoerotica – writing words on someone’s body
 Gun Play – arousal from use or threat of a firearm (E)
 Hand Fetish – well, people like feet, why not hands?
 Hermaphrodites – fetish for someone with male and female body parts
 Human Furniture – where someone loves to act like a piece of furniture
 Impact Play – striking someone with various objects to create a “sting” or “thud”
sensation
 Impregnation – getting someone pregnant, typically from a man’s point of view (E)
 Intelligence Fetish – sexual arousal from intellectually stimulating conversation or
debates
 Knife Play – play using knives or sharp objects. Can be sensory or a “threat”
roleplay (E)
 Knismolagnia – arousal through tickling
 Lactation – when you get off on women with milk-producing breasts (usually
drinking)
 Long Hair – turned on by long, beautiful locks
 Loud Sex – yep, getting off knowing other people can hear you having sex
 Medical Play – play or scene using medical equipment/tools (E)
 Mummification – wrapping someone entirely to limit movement
 Needle Play – involves the use or threat of needles (E)
 Nyotaimori – eating sushi off a person’s body
 Orgasm Control – controlling someone’s orgasms through signals and cues
(different from denial
 Orgasm Denial – not allowing someone to have an orgasm for a certain period of
time
 Orgies – lots and lots of sex with lots and lots of people
 Pecattiphilia – fetish for sinning by breaking religious rules
 Play Piercing – temporary piercing the flesh for aesthetic or sensory reactions (E)
 Pony Play – using someone as a pony (including riding). Can include costumes
 Pregnancy Fetish – usually from males, thought to be from hormonal reactions
 Puppy Play – treating someone like (or pretending to be) a dog
 PVC – to love wearing PVC clothing
 Queening – also called face-sitting. Oral sex with the woman on top (or just sitting
on top without oral sex)
 Rough Sex – includes biting, scratching, power play etc.
 Rubber – to love wearing rubber clothing
 Scat Play – play with fecal matter (E)
 Sensation Play – running different materials across the skin to create different
sensations. Eg. silk, burlap, brush bristles
 Sensory Deprivation – taking away various senses, like sight with a blindfold, plug
for the ears etc.
 Sex Toys – a general love of using sex toys, but people can have a specific love for
one kind of toy (eg. butt plugs)
 Shibari – Japanese rope bondage
 Sleepsack Fetish – comes from an arousal from closed spaces. The sub gets into a
sleepsack, bag, or box etc.
 Sounding – inserting metal rods into the urethral openings (originally a medical
term) (E)
 Spanking – tap dat ass
 Swinging – committed couples consensually indulging in sex with other couples
 Tattoos – some like giving them, some like getting them (E)
 Texting and Audio – Audiobooks, messages etc.
 Trampling – being under someone’s foot/shoe. Can be related to foot fetish, but not
necessarily
 Transformation – the fetish for transforming or changing people into other people,
objects, or creatures – popular in Japanese hentai
 Uniform Fetish – pretty straightforward, you get turned on by uniforms
 Vacuum Bed – a device that is two sheets of latex with the air sucked out and the
person inside breathing through a tube. A form of sensory deprivation (E)
 Vampire – role-playing as a vampire (or victim of one). Can, but doesn’t have to,
include bloodplay
 Voyeurism – watching other people have sex
 Watersports – playing with urine (E)
 Wax Play – play with dripping hot wax on the skin
 Werewolf Play – same as vampire play but with werewolves
 Wrestling – play fighting for body contact and power control
 Xenophilia – intense attraction towards people from other cultures or strangers
 Yaoi – a fetish for male-on-male sexuality in anime, manga, or fan fiction. Aimed at
a female audience, not a gay male (Bara)
 Zentai – a fetish to wear full lycra bodysuits