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Limerence
First, limerence is not just “lust” or sexual attraction.
People in limerence fantasize about being with the
limerent object in all kinds of situations – not just sexual
ones.
Second, many of us have experienced limerence.
Third, limerence can possibly turn into genuine love, but
more often than not, it doesn’t
People discover love; they don’t simply find it. The term
discovering implies a process – developing and maintaining a
loving relationship require seeing the relationship as
valuable, committing to mutual needs, satisfaction, and
self-disclosure, engaging in supportive communication, and
spending time together.