Professional Documents
Culture Documents
– Recreation
– Companionship
– Status-seeking
– Personal growth
– Sexual experimentation
– Mate selection
– Desire for intimacy
BF/GF Dating
• The 1994 YAFS-II adolescent sexuality surve)
– Crush
• Most Females - having crush at age 14
• Most Males - developing crushes at age 15
– Admiration
• Occurs at age 15 for opposite sex
– Dating
• At age 16 – first group date
• At age 17 & 18 – single date
– Kissing - 36%
– Petting – 12%
– Sex in first date – 3% (De Guzman & Diaz, 1999)
BF/GF Dating
• The 1994 YAFS-II survey
– 3 out of 5 youth aged 15 to 16
• experienced going out on a date (opposite sex)
– Survey did not ask about same-sex dating
– Common Activity for a Date:
• Watching Movie and Dinner in Restaurant
• Going to Park or Shopping Mall
– Dating Partners:
• 46% Boyfriend/Girlfriend
• 28% Friend
• 16% Crush or Admirer
• 10 % Acquaintance
BF/GF Dating
• Traditional Courtship – no longer norm in the
Philippines
– Premarital sex – 16 %
– ** sex on first date happened but that it occurred without consent
• Males
– Respect (Galang)
– Responsibility (Pananagutan)
Same-sex Romance
• Some adolescents enter same-sex relationship
– Development phase or Sexual Orientation Affirmation
(Savin-Williams, 1996)
Same-sex Romance
• In qualitative study on Filipino adolescents’
identity, sexuality, and health
– Filipino Gay Male Adolescents
• Realize they were different from heterosexual peers at a
young age
• Felt no models or scripts to follow on how to meet potential
partner and develop intimate same sex relationship
• Same sex relationship - no options for gay adolescents
– Filipino Female Homosexual
• Same-sex attractions – Puberty Stage
• Fear; Abnormal or Wrong feelings
• Same-sex Romance – Adolescence Stage
Principles of Attraction
• Proximity
• Familiarity
• Physical Attractiveness
• Reciprocity
• Similarity or Compatibility
Proximity
Filipino males
find looks important whereas
females put more emphasis on emotional
maturity.
reciprocity
• People tend to pair off with partners that closely
match them with their physical attractiveness
2. SEXUAL DIMENSIONS
– How important sex is to you…and sexuality
3. WAVELENGTH DIMENSION
– Feeling of you can talk about everything, look
at things in the same way, agree on same
things important in life