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Relationship
Conceptualizations of love
• TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE
• STYLES OF LOVING
• ROMANTIC LOVE AND COMPANIONATE LOVE
TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE
• Psychologist Robert Sternberg (1998)
views love as a triangle consisting of
three components:
•Passion
•Intimacy
•Commitment
TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE
• Intimacy
Includes:
- Feelings of warmth
- Understanding
- Trust
- Support
- Sharing
TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE
• Passion
Includes:
- Physical Arousal
- Desire
- Excitement
- Need
TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE
• Commitment
Includes:
- Feelings of permanence
- Stability
- Decision to devote
oneself to a relationship
- Working to maintain
relationship
Eight types of relationship according to the triangular
theory of love (Rosenberg, 1986):
• Self-disclosure
• Equity
Self-disclosure
• Revealing intimate aspects of oneself to
others.
• A relationship where trust displaces
anxiety and where we are free to open
ourselves without fear of losing the
other’s affection.
equity
• A condition in which the outcomes
people receive from a relationship
are proportional to what they
contribute to it.
Equity and satisfaction
• Those in an equitable relationship are
typically content.
• When both partners freely give and
receive, and make decisions together, the
odds of sustained, satisfying love are
good.