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In 2015, a study by McCann World Group found that Filipinos are
the most expressive about love among Asia Pacific countries. The
study surveyed 30,000 respondents from 29 countries and found
that Filipinos say "I love you" approximately 17 times a week,
ranking sixth in terms of articulateness and expressiveness. This
chapter explores the complex and diverse nature of love, as
discussed by psychologist Robert Sternberg.
Love is a human experience that is defined and understood differently by individuals. It
relationships with others. Communication plays a crucial role in the experience of love.
* Love as an emotion
primary types include eros (romantic love), philia (friendship love), and storge (familial love). The secondary
types include pragma (practical love), agape (universal love), and philautia (self-love). It is possible to
experience multiple types of love throughout our lives. For example, a child may initially experience storge
towards their parents, then develop philia for friends at school, and eventually experience eros during their
youth.
The triangular model of love, proposed by psychologist Sternberg in 1986, is a popular theory that
aims to measure and understand the different dimensions of love. It views love as a psychological
variable and emphasizes the three main components: intimacy, passion, and commitment. These
dimensions combine in different ways to form various types of love relationships .
Passion, according to Sternberg's theory of
love, is the intense emotional and physical
attraction between two people characterized
PASSION by desire, excitement, and arousal. It is one of
the three components of love, along with
intimacy and commitment.
* Words of affirmation
*Touch
*Time
*Gifts
*Acts of service
• People who prefer words of affirmation express love verbally, while those
who prefer touch value physical contact. Those who prefer time prioritize
quality moments with loved ones, while those who prefer gifts show
affection through material objects. Finally, those who prefer acts of service
express love by helping others.
Love and intimate relationships
• Love is best understood within the context of
human relationships. Aristotle described humans as
social animals, emphasizing the importance of our
connections with others. Our ability to survive and
thrive depends on our relationships, making them
both sentimental and practical.
• In his analysis of close human relationships, George
Levinger (1982) postulated that there are stages
that intimate relationships go through:
• (1) Acquaintance
• (2) Build up
• (3) Continuation or Consolidation,
• (4) Deterioration or Decline, and
• (5) Ending or termination