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LOVE, INTIMACY,
AND RELATIONSHIP
Learning outcomes
• define terms such as "love," "attraction,"
"intimacy, "relationship," and other related
terms;
• discuss different theories of love;
• identify needs, issues, and concerns
experienced by people who are in a romantic
relationship; and
• reflect upon one's attitudes towards love,
intimacy, and relationship
LOVE AS A HUMAN
EXPERIENCE
death instincts
life instincts
THANATOS
EROS
Formative years
- our early life experiences (from conception to
around six years old
- our personality development.
- is characterized by - is characterized by
intense passion intense intimacy
- “a state of intense - emotional closeness-
longing for union with your which is also
partner” characteristic of liking.
Love Languages
Gary Chapman (1995)
WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
• verbally express their thoughts and feelings of
love towards the people they love
TOUCH
• express love non-verbally, through hugs, kisses,
or, simply, a tap on the back.
Love Languages
Gary Chapman (1995)
TIME
• tend to value quality moments with their loved
ones.
GIFTS
• want to show and receive affection through
material objects
ACTS OF SERVICE
• willing to serve the other person by helping her
or him in things that they do.
Love and Intimate Relationships
George Levinger (1982)
1. acquaintance
2. buildup
3. continuation or consolidation
4. deterioration or decline
5. ending or termination
Love and Intimate Relationships
George Levinger (1982)
1. Acquaintance
- We meet up through circumstances and first
learn about basic information about one
another.