Narcissistic Behavior

(Primary)

Ego 1. I feel the need to hold my ground all the time. 

2. I feel the need to be resilient at all times. 
3. I feel the need to fulfill my own needs. 
4. I feel the need to make others happy. 
5. I should be perfect in the eyes of others.
6. I feel that I am always right.
7. I notice that I can do many things on my own.
8. I am responsible for my actions.
9. I can manage myself.
10. I can decide what I want to do.
Self-preservation 1. I feel that I should be careful with my actions.
2. I feel that I must protect myself from potential
harm.
3. I feel the need to fulfill every need that I have.
4. I feel that I should avoid stress.
5. I should distance myself from people who don’t
help me.
6. I usually think about my safety.
7. I stay away from bad friends.
8. I avoid gossips.
9. I am alert to dangers.
10. I should stay away from individuals who doubt
my capabilities.

Role of family 1. I feel happy when my family focuses their

attention on me.
2. I feel happy when my family compliments me.
3. I usually depend on my family.
4. I feel the need to ask my family before doing
something.
5. I feel happy when my family gets me what I
want.
6. I usually ask my family what they think of me.
7. I feel happy when my family talks about me.
8. I feel loved when my family spends time with
me.
9. I feel the need to make my family happy.
10. I feel happy when my family views me as their
favorite.
Narcissistic Behavior
(Secondary)

Ego 1. I feel superior in everything that I do.

2. I feel that I rarely make a mistake.
3. I feel confident at all times.
4. I always compliment myself.
5. I feel that I should always be complimented.
6. I feel incredible when someone compliments
me.
7. I feel that I have a higher authority than
others.
8. I don't usually think about what others feel.
9. I feel the need to share every achievement
that I have with others.
10. I feel the need to compare my achievements
with others.
Self-preservation 1. I feel that I should prioritize myself over
others.
2. I feel that I must always save myself first to
survive.
3. I am careful with my actions.
4. I am aware of who I involve myself with.
5. I feel like I should stay away from people
who give me stress.
6. I must eliminate all forms of negativity.
7. I feel that I should begin evaluating my
emotions.
8. I feel like I must have figured out how to
console myself.
9. I feel like I should often reflect on my
behavior.
10. I feel that I must gain control over my
emotions.
Role of family 1. I usually seek validation from my family in
everything that I do.
2. I disregard what my family has to say.
3. I usually look at myself as an overachiever
compared to my family.
4. I usually compare my achievements with my
siblings.
5. I feel sad when my family compares me to
others.
6. I usually argue with my family.
7. I feel jealous when my family puts their
 attention on someone else.
8. I feel annoyed when my family doesn't give
me what I want.
9. I feel stressed when my family controls me.
10. I don’t usually listen to what my family says
about me.